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Hi all,
Here seems to be a bunch of optimistic, matured and inspiring minds for this topic. 👏 👏 👏 ...🤗.So i start my views with special appreciation for Suchitra for posting this fantabulous topic and the honest -n- blooming minds like Shona and Ashrozia from the younger lot .....regarding the latter i would like to add a comment : Guys, i have met teens of your age, but none have such clear, straight, honest thinking and mature views as yours. U are even accepting that u need to yet implement those high thinkings of yours, which itself puts u on the roads of success... U made me captive with your views...... God bless u both...😊
Suchi, back to your topic.... though the topic is based on discrimination of gender or the colour, the other features like the height and weight also becomes a major target. I myself had been a victim of the height factor in my schoolish and teen days....( Now feel good, that helped me to emerge the positiveness in me...) In my teen phase I had friends one of whom was dark and the other darker. The dark one had a great persona and the shade never came in her way... , she got lots of attention from guys.... The darker one had everything in her except fairness but her darker shade was more obvious here the guys refrained from giving her any attention.(like the older version of Ragini.) Here I was complexed due to my height though i was fair.... I knew what the 2nd friend of mine was going through as feeling low about oneself is a big disease... But these lows made me read inspirational articles related to life and mature much early than my age. I started incorporating them in my life. I started encouraging my second friend too to be positive and accept ourself first as we are. Acceptance of oneself is the biggest truth in life. Once that gets done, we have won half the battle. Being the only daughter and my parents being conservative, i had to struggle to live life my terms. I started working on my hidden talents and the success and the adulation taught me many new things. I felt abilities, skills are not in all, these god given gifts are so rare. I felt great that God has given me so much and felt very thankful to him and regretted those one-to-one moaning-groaning sessions with god. No human is born perfect, either they lack in their appearance (which is visibly seen) or strength( mentality) or may be by character. Of all i felt being a person of character is what is more important and realised i had won many hearts .... people who accept me as i am today and value me in their life.... I feel change is the essence of life and experiences in life teaches and changes a person towards a much-much better person......👍🏼
Bani has said how her views about Sadhana has been attacked and even the other day i read comments like stop giving bhashans... i just wish to say Bani ignore those comments, never get carried away by people who oppose u, it is just their adulation for their favourites on one side and ignorance towards the other... never answer back or justify your statements.. just speak your mind always as u do .... Once again thankx suchi for such a wonderful topic which helped me to open out my heart and speak out the unspoken......😊
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