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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

I agree with you bani..

There is a lot of im-modesty going on,
I am not against women trying to show of their talent ( not sure whats so talent in showing of bikini ) but seriously...

Men are becoming more immoral
Women are shaping up to be just like that as well.

You might call me old fashioned (even though I am in my 20s lol yes)

but as Bani said, one of the main causes behind hte lack of depth ( which I think in my POV is) the revealing nature of Men and Women now.

There is no serious feelings, care for values , youth is more concerned about how to satisfy their desire right away. Patience/hardwork is something that is a rare commodity.

Here desire is just not with regards to physical , rather its also about getting a job, getting education , having a relationship (serious committed = marriage)

Consumer based society.

Look at the entertainment world, Honestly i was shocked at the change that has come within the past 10 years gap.

Nothing clean anymore!

lol I remember a guy talking about commercials here,
A bikini wearing girl in front of the car... advertising for the car...and the caption was like

"Test drive her"

So this guy was like Who? The girl or the Car?



I agree with you...this deterioration in morality has come just within a few years time....very sad...
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Posted: 15 years ago
Hello people..Even I'm alive!😆
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Ashrozia

Oh ok thanks!
Nah ab tho vacations shuru ho gayi hain--So I'm a late nighter now!😆



lol ok...if ur gonna watch rishta.com...do watch mahi way also. It's also a very fresh show unaccepted by indian audience lol😆 Sorry mods again but its an example related to this topic😆 It's about a girl who's over-weighed, but she only dreams about having tall dark handsome guys. It's so true....a person would treat other sometimes just like the way they were treated. That's why you see many ppl treating others like tht cuz they were treated the same way by other ppl. Even in bullying, its proved tht bullies were once bullied, & thts y they r bullied. Sad world.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: suchitra_1


Thank you for your kind comments bani, Its good to know that we have optimism left... and people appreciate goodness... (not that Iam saying I am good, lol ashrozia will include me in teh list of show offs and then , i would have to request a copy print of me as well)

but on a serious note, we should bring out topics which will case awareness, if not change at least people will start to think and may be someday when they are faced with such issues will remember our words and our discussions and may be it will have an effect on them , positively



I tried before, but people have taunted me saying "mahaan" or "keep sadhning, comparing me to Sadhna" or "stop giving lectures" or " stop your cheap dialogues"...I used to get hurt...but then I felt that why should I get bogged down, I am not trying to say or do anything bad...but at the end of the day, when many silent members used to PM me, appreciating my thoughts and posts., it just rejuvinated me.

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: _-sHoNaa-_



lol ok...if ur gonna watch rishta.com...do watch mahi way also. It's also a very fresh show unaccepted by indian audience lol😆 Sorry mods again but its an example related to this topic😆 It's about a girl who's over-weighed, but she only dreams about having tall dark handsome guys. It's so true....a person would treat other sometimes just like the way they were treated. That's why you see many ppl treating others like tht cuz they were treated the same way by other ppl. Even in bullying, its proved tht bullies were once bullied, & thts y they r bullied. Sad world.
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Oh yeah!
I'd watch that also then..When does it come?
And why is it rejected by the audience?😲
Sounds nice to me.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111


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I tried before, but people have taunted me saying "mahaan" or "keep sadhning, comparing me to Sadhna" or "stop giving lectures" or " stop your cheap dialogues"...I used to get hurt...but then I felt that why should I get bogged down, I am not trying to say or do anything bad...but at the end of the day, when many silent members used to PM me, appreciating my thoughts and posts., it just rejuvinated me.</font>



@ Bani, aaj kal sachai bolna bhi mahantha hai... to show somegoodness is mahandtha. This is why people here who dissed sadhana , were being negative at her sacrifices. The world has come to such a position that, even if one person wants/wishes to do good they will start doubting hteir intentions.

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Posted: 15 years ago
True suchitra, if shows dnt affect ppl, then our posts tht cause awareness surely does affect ppl in a gud way. So glad such a good topic of real life issue came out after a long time. I remember a year ago, i posted a topic similar to this about loving the personality & not beauty. Sara khan made a very inspiring quote in some article about love "Love is a mature acceptance of imperfection"...this quote is stuck in my mind since them. And it relates to salekh & ragvir so much....even though alekh was imperfect & ragini was imperfect in society's eyes, for sadi & ranvir, they were perfect. And then i got many pms after that topic thanking me tht i helped them in their life & opened their eyes. Was so glad.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Ashrozia



Oh yeah!
I'd watch that also then..When does it come?
And why is it rejected by the audience?😲
Sounds nice to me.



mahi way comes at 8pm on Fridays on sony :) its also a yashraj show...
I dont know ash...maybe indian audience cant accept new things or majority of them just dnt want to accept the reality. Who knows. See nowadays bidaai is going so gud, but its out of top 10 lol. Only shows tht shows depressing stuffs r in the top 10. When i say they r not accepted, i mean to say their trps r not gud. But they became VERYYYY popular in a very short time, see their fans on IF and FB.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: _-sHoNaa-_



actually ranvir's not really fictional. I know manyyyyyyyyyyyyyy dark ppl who got husbands like ranvir. It's a matter of luck baby.
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Actually I can count my own father.He is fair,handsome and an educated man,a doctor by profession.My mother is dark and has a physical disability too but my father didn't mind at that time and he sincerely claims he can't live without her.And he was in misery when she came to visit me calling us daily to send his SO back!And I love and respect him to death and won't even tolerate a single thing against him!
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

Try for a boy!?
lol as if you have the ingredients to make boy and its just a matter of ok lets have a boy right now Wo hoo.

STUPID concept and the worst part is the one who wants you to have a boy more are women!?



I know,how funny is that.My MIL is a Gynaecologist and she herself told me 'try for a boy'and I asked her point blank 'would you give me any guarantee that it would be a boy?'I am happy the way I am!

And the person who asked me to try for a boy is just a neighbour who used to see me since I was a child and yeo you guessed it right,it's an old-lady lol

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