*~*Awesome Foursome : Friends Forever #5*~* - Page 104

Originally posted by: Bini311

Kari, so exams are going good na? when is going to finish?

bini di my finals start next month

Originally posted by: Bini311

Awwwwwwwww partner, your thoughts are so nobellllllllllll........I am so prouddddddd of you..........and yes, every girl goes through this dilemma about family and career...so it is imp to have a supportive husband and family.........but again it is imp to know what you want na............and life will be so much easy.....Partner, you ideas are soooo good..yes those are the people who needs the upmost care.....but partner...don't take me wrong......"God only helps those who helps themselves na..." once you become a good doctor than u can help them...."......I am not sure medical school in India is better than in Canada?...And you have to pay your debt too right...I hear doctors out of medical school have lot of debt....think about all these things partner....and you know life in India is not as easy..I mean unless you are already in a good position.....it will be very hard to bring change....."........

Aww, Partner!!!!! THANKOO SO MUCH FOR THE SUPPORT YAAR...I DONT KNOW WHAT I'D DO WITHOUT YOU!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

Haan, the thing is that I dont want to get married and just not have ANY commitment to my shaadi...that would be totally wrong. I want to live a happily married life but I want to give time to my family. 😉

I know Partner...the path is REALLY REALLY difficult. It's pretty hard to become a doctor in India...my cousin said theres a LOT of difficulties for the foundation and the funding of clinics in India. I will need loads of help for the funding and stuff...maybe I can create a public funding organization or some sort of a NGO.

Life in India is extremely difficult and for me, it's gonna seem impossible...because I cant picture myself living there. But all of this stuff hit me after I applied to med school and I guess it just seems like being a doctor in Canada comes with all of the benefits...but in India, there are so many corrupt people there that the citizens, especially children are suffering and dying of things that CAN BE CURED with the right treatment.

Originally posted by: -karishma-

wht popular topic?😲😕

this 1

Originally posted by: Bini311

It is perfect partner......2012 is perfect for you......and the age is also the best.....so glad you have figured it out........so have you figured out who you are gonna marry ki....... 😉 😉 😉 ..partner...if you feel this is a personal question....than pls don't reply here..reply me in pm... 😆

Hai ram, hehe...abhi tak toh I have not found my Ranvir or Allu ji in life yet...but I am still waiting for that special someone. 😉 🤣

Originally posted by: KiNnY-pArTnEr

awwwwwww

do 1 thing 1st become doc..😊

after this do all this

coz after u becme life wil be easier

coz u wil get a money too than u can .do something for them too🤗

See, thats what I was thinking too...but I dont want it to be TOO late. Like I finish med school by 30 and then the other medical training begins...and on top of that, shaadi waadi. I really want to live a happily married life, with kids but I dont want my shaadi to suffer or my goal to suffer due to my lack of balance. Everyone needs balance in life...but I think thats the thing that I am most worried about. 🤗

Originally posted by: KiNnY-pArTnEr

yeah true

moving😲. where r u moving sweetheartji?😲

Originally posted by: Bini311

Partner, I have been to Bihar too...hehe..actually, my hometown was border to Bihar...so I know the area very well...and Bihar is one of the poorest state in India but also it si very corrup...so I think you should really think about finishing your school first before moving...I mean you know better....but please don't take decisions emotionally............do think a lot before taking a decision........

Both my parents are from very small and poor villages from Bihar actually. My mom is from one of the richer families, but Bihar is in TERRIBLE condition and everything there is SO corrupt. Child labour...starvation...corruption, thats just what I saw when I went to Bihar. The image of children dying in front of me has just really shattered my image of the beauty of India...and thats really when I decided that you know what, I really have to do something.

I will definitely finish med school before taking any decision...and I seriously have to think about it. Thank you SO much for the advice yaar...I hope everything works out! 🤗

Originally posted by: -karishma-

moving😲. where r u moving sweetheartji?😲

Kari, I wrote this to Partner...this will explain everything. 😉

Hehe, I know Partner...lekin it seems SO far away. Like I cant imagine myself being 30 years old with a husband and kids and managing to be DOCTOR EVA at the same time...I was thinking that maybe I would do med school here but then take some medical courses in India or something to cure the diseased kids in India in small villages. Like THOSE are the people who need the most care...there are already so many doctors here. I was discussing it with my cousin who is also a doctor in India and I told her that maybe I would settle in India and cure children free of charge for a profession...I dont know Partner, I'm just totally confused on what to do.

Originally posted by: *Eva*

Both my parents are from very small and poor villages from Bihar actually. My mom is from one of the richer families, but Bihar is in TERRIBLE condition and everything there is SO corrupt. Child labour...starvation...corruption, thats just what I saw when I went to Bihar. The image of children dying in front of me has just really shattered my image of the beauty of India...and thats really when I decided that you know what, I really have to do something.

I will definitely finish med school before taking any decision...and I seriously have to think about it. Thank you SO much for the advice yaar...I hope everything works out! 🤗

Partner, you are thinking the right thing.....Your medical degree will have a lot of value back home......I mean like you said there are already a lot of doctors here......so you are heading in the right path.......having lived close to Bihar I have also seen plight of children, malnutrition, unhealthy drinking water and what not....one of my friend also went to Orissa for her thesis and stayed back..now it has been three years...and she just came back to finish her thesis, but again she went back for the community....I feel so proud of her.......and u know because of her dedication she received a big award of $15,000 from a foundation........I met her last month when she was here, her health had suffered but her spirit was still very high........so there are ways....to get funds and everything.......

Originally posted by: *Eva*

Kari, I wrote this to Partner...this will explain everything. 😉

Hehe, I know Partner...lekin it seems SO far away. Like I cant imagine myself being 30 years old with a husband and kids and managing to be DOCTOR EVA at the same time...I was thinking that maybe I would do med school here but then take some medical courses in India or something to cure the diseased kids in India in small villages. Like THOSE are the people who need the most care...there are already so many doctors here. I was discussing it with my cousin who is also a doctor in India and I told her that maybe I would settle in India and cure children free of charge for a profession...I dont know Partner, I'm just totally confused on what to do.

awww tht's so sweet of u yaar🤗🤗 All the best and hope u succeed in life🤗🤗

Guys, I have to go now....for sure.......I iwll try and come back in an hour...if you guys are here than i will catch you...otherwise...a big JHAPPI to all..partner.....i will pm u more..sorry for leaving abruptly.....take care....hugsssssssss