Sadhana MUST learn a lesson:Mod's note on PG42 - Page 4

I also wanted to add that Bleeding Love is so apt for Sadhna at this stage in her marriage with Alekh...I mean..it portrays everything...he hurts her yet she still loves him...what do u think

Closed off from love
I didn't need the pain
Once or twice was enough
And it was all in vain
Time starts to pass
Before you know it you're frozen

But something happened
For the very first time with you
My heart melts into the ground
Found something true
And everyone's looking round
Thinking I'm going crazy

But I don't care what they say
I'm in love with you
They try to pull me away
But they don't know the truth
My heart's crippled by the vein
That I keep on closing
You cut me open and I

Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open

Trying hard not to hear
But they talk so loud
Their piercing sounds fill my ears
Try to fill me with doubt
Yet I know that the goal
Is to keep me from falling

But nothing's greater than the rush that comes with your embrace
And in this world of loneliness
I see your face
Yet everyone around me
Thinks that I'm going crazy, maybe, maybe

But I don't care what they say
I'm in love with you
They try to pull me away
But they don't know the truth
My heart's crippled by the vein
That I keep on closing
You cut me open and I

Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open

And it's draining all of me
Oh they find it hard to believe
I'll be wearing these scars
For everyone to see

I don't care what they say
I'm in love with you
They try to pull me away
But they don't know the truth
My heart's crippled by the vein
That I keep on closing
You cut me open and I

Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open and I

Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open and I
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love

I agree with Bani here,

The moment Alekh said, "i was abnormal when I married you sadhana"
That was ENOUGH for her to divorce him with NO questions asked.

Sadhana's only mistake was that she gave Alekh life. It would have been better if he was never cured Atleast they were happy as friends.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

He was never comfortable with Mallika and he never even looks at her. When that mystery man attacked Sadhana, he ran so fast to her and comforted her, he yelled at those security people and was ready to accept his responsibility towards his wife. Even when they were both in the lift, he was so protective for her. He even tried to save her so many times when Mallika was mad at Sadhana....juice incidence, Sadhana's ankle incidence etc etc.

but he could speak that one sentence that "Sadhna is my wife, but we are staying separate"...this one sentence from Alekh was needed to boost Sadhna's confidence....you may ask why Sdahna did not reveal that, then I'ld say Sdahna cannot as she is disowned by them and if she says, she will be labelled as taking advantage of using the "Rajvansh surname"....

I'll give you some example, somtimes we speak a lot, but not that one word that is the requirement...once one old lady was dying and her grandsons were aksing her "grandma say RAM"....She said "I cant say so much"....bottomline is she uttered five words, but not the word "Ram"...Thats what exactly Alekh did...he has feelings for Sadhna, he used to go to Mehra office for Sadhna, that you and I know....but how will Sadhna know...she is utterly confused with Alekh's behaviour,,every wife needs the recognition of her relationship, thats the minimum ...alekh failed in that too...

Originally posted by: --Anu--

I am not trying to justify Alekh's actions but what Sadhana did was also wrong. Lets accept this fact. Had she given him divorce because Alekh was not a good husband then there was no problem.

I understand you....you are not accepting that Sdahna divorced Alekh just because she put Rgaini over Alekh....really, your point is very valid...but again its her priority, she loves Rgaini more than Alekh...she actually balanced ..she felt that Ragini will win and gain back confidence and then Alekh will not sign the divorce papers, so the divorce will not happen....but her calculations were wrong...it will be a win-win situation for her, she probably thought like that...

and when Malika was accusing Sadhana that she probably hurt you , she was cheat blah blah blah , to Alekh why didn't Alekh defend her?

OK Sadhana broke his love, cause she signed some dumb papers , what about his love? so fragile filled with male ego that he could not see beyond that. All he could do was snare and snarl and growl?

How can he marry someone who hates Sadhana , his "love"

Alekh didn't support her...yes she should have divorced him. But she didn't. Thats the main thing here. She divorced him for her sister. The problem is with her priorities in life.

If they had remained friends...then also Sadhana would have never gotten her husbands love.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

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I understand you....you are not accepting that Sdahna divorced Alekh
just because she put Rgaini over Alekh....really, your point is very
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I do not think she loves Ragini more than Alekh. When Alekh was injured , she slapped Ranvir as her first reaction. If she loved her more than Alekh she would have thought twice before risking her relationship.

I think its because Ragini said, " I will never be able to get up" and she genuinely feared that , Ragini will loose her Sanity if sadhana won, specially now when her heart was filled with rage/anger.

So she just decided to let Ragini win weighing the greater Harm. An Immediate danger of another life.
She knew she had another option waiting for her, that is Vasu and she took that knowingly cause she had to save Mamiji. So she saved two lives , Ragini and Vasu

and now lets look at Alekh, he is not dying and he is getting married so... yeah...

Poor sadhana
😭

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

I do not think she loves Ragini more than Alekh. When Alekh was injured , she slapped Ranvir as her first reaction. If she loved her more than Alekh she would have thought twice before risking her relationship.

I think its because Ragini said, " I will never be able to get up" and she genuinely feared that , Ragini will loose her Sanity if sadhana won, specially now when her heart was filled with rage/anger.

So she just decided to let Ragini win weighing the greater Harm. An Immediate danger of another life.
She knew she had another option waiting for her, that is Vasu and she took that knowingly cause she had to save Mamiji. So she saved two lives , Ragini and Vasu

and now lets look at Alekh, he is not dying and he is getting married so... yeah...

Poor sadhana
😭

Are you watching this show from the beginning ? Sadhana has always put Ragini's interest before her husband except for that slap incident. That was a life and death situation and she went into a panic mode.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I understand you....you are not accepting that Sdahna divorced Alekh just because she put Rgaini over Alekh....really, your point is very valid...but again its her priority, she loves Rgaini more than Alekh...she actually balanced ..she felt that Ragini will win and gain back confidence and then Alekh will not sign the divorce papers, so the divorce will not happen....but her calculations were wrong...it will be a win-win situation for her, she probably thought like that...

Yes her calculation was wrong. She failed to understand Alekh..he is still vulnerable and immature. The real problem is that Alekh is in Vasu's control. Vasu is not letting him become strong and independent by emotionally blackmailing him all the time. I dont think Alekh will change until he sees Vasu's real face.