Sadhana MUST learn a lesson:Mod's note on PG42 - Page 3

I am not even going to argue on this anymore. It's beyond me why women are "supposed to be a door mat"

One mistake on her part and everything is gone?

Why did sadhana stop Alekh when he wanted to accept her as his wife?

ok Lets try answering this,

Why did Alekh agree to marry another woman? Oh he is angry so when
Alekh babu , sweet heart is angry he can do what ever he wants but sadhana does one mistake and she is getting the title that she cares not about her marriage?

What biased attitude is this?

She cannot move on as it was rightly mentioned that she loves him and lets all notice that she is not jumping to get married to the next available GUY!

Oh no that would be adultery then!

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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

thats the beauty of her character...that she left Alekh for him to lead life with Mallika, whom she considers a better life partner for Alekh and is at par with the Rajvanshs...in Rajvansh family noone wants her, including Alekh...so there is nothing left in her marriage...
she is crying as she loves Alekh, but she is not showing her tears to anyone, she treats herself responsible for her own problems...

The bottom-line is that she took her marriage and husband for granted. Alekh made the same mistake earlier by not supporting her for his family. Ranveer going to jail, Ragini's miscarriage, his mothers sorrow, everything went against Sadhana and in Vasu's favor. He chose his family over Sadhana. But he never stopped loving her and was only pretending to keep his mother happy. She did the same mistake for her sisters happiness.

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

I am not even going to argue on this anymore. It's beyond me why women are "supposed to be a door mat"

One mistake on her part and everything is gone?

Why did sadhana stop Alekh when he wanted to accept her as his wife?

ok Lets try answering this,

Why did Alekh agree to marry another woman? Oh he is angry so when
Alekh babu , sweet heart is angry he can do what ever he wants but sadhana does one mistake and she is getting the title that she cares not about her marriage?

What biased attitude is this?

She cannot move on as it was rightly mentioned that she loves him and lets all notice that she is not jumping to get married to the next available GUY!

Oh no that would be adultery then!

===== I cannot talk anymore======

Sadhana is also doing whatever she wants...marrying for a wrong reason and divorcing for a wrong reason. Alekh is making the same mistake by agreeing to marry Mallika...wrong reason...just to show Sadhana that he is not hurt.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

The bottom line is that she took her marriage and husband for granted. Alekh made the same mistake earlier by not supporting her for his family. Ranveer going to jail, Ragini's miscarriage, his mothers sorrow, everything went against Sadhana and in Vasu's favor. He chose his family over Sadhana. But he never stopped loving her and was only pretending to keep his mother happy. She did the same mistake for her sisters happiness.

it was only a hidden love, which noone except Ranveer could feel and initially Sdahna could, but later it was more evident that he is more comfortable with Mallika...can you imagine a girl, who does not even have a stable income to feed herself, being thrown out...what responsibility did Alekh fulfill as a husband, he could have also supported Sadhna without anyone knowing by providing her a job somehwere or something....he threw Sdahna right to the streets of Agra, he is even aware how Kaushi treats Sdahna...I'ld agree to Sdahna signing the divorce papers , even without taking the money....

I could understand Alekh till he got upset with Sdahna, shouted at her and left and would have supported Alekh, at least if he had not agreed to marry Mallika....but not now...

I could understand Alekh till he got upset with Sdahna, shouted at her and left and would have supported Alekh, at least if he had not agreed to marry Mallika....but not now...

Thank you!

Agreed!

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

it was only a hidden love, which noone except Ranveer could feel and initially Sdahna could, but later it was more evident that he is more comfortable with Mallika...can you imagine a girl, who does not even have a stable income to feed herself, being thrown out...what responsibility did Alekh fulfill as a husband, he could have also supported Sadhna without anyone knowing by providing her a job somehwere or something....he threw Sdahna right to the streets of Agra, he is even aware how Kaushi treats Sdahna...I'ld agree to Sdahna signing the divorce papers , even without taking the money....

I could understand Alekh till he got upset with Sdahna, shouted at her and left and would have supported Alekh, at least if he had not agreed to marry Mallika....but not now...

He was never comfortable with Mallika and he never even looks at her. When that mystery man attacked Sadhana, he ran so fast to her and comforted her, he yelled at those security people and was ready to accept his responsibility towards his wife. Even when they were both in the lift, he was so protective for her. He even tried to save her so many times when Mallika was mad at Sadhana....juice incidence, Sadhana's ankle incidence etc etc.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Sadhana is also doing whatever she wants...marrying for a wrong reason and divorcing for a wrong reason. Alekh is making the same mistake by agreeing to marry Mallika...wrong reason...just to show Sadhana that he is not hurt.

I understand what you are saying that Sadhna and Alekh both are taking their marriage for granted...and for both, except each other's companionship, every other one matters the most...thats the common point in their character....for Sadhna, its Ragini or the Sharma family and for Alekh, its his mother....
but as i have said before, under the present scenario, i'ld even support Sdahna if she had signed the divorce paper without dancing in the mahotsav or taking the money from Vasu....both Alekh and Sdahna need to make a new beginning, either stay together or part for life...

I am not trying to justify Alekh's actions but what Sadhana did was also wrong. Lets accept this fact. Had she given him divorce because Alekh was not a good husband then there was no problem.

Any man, who is a man and has least bit of insaaniyat left in him would do the same. If Ranveer was in his place he would do the same, and Vineet was in his place he would do the same and if Ramu kaka the naukar was in his place he would do the same.

Why should Sadhna beg at Alekhs feet...times are not that bad for her that she needs to beg to him for what he brought about...she ain't no doormat *SNAP SNAP*...girlfriend needed money fast...and Vasu obviously had the money ready at the time...plus Alekh never really made her feel like a wife...if he wasn't ready to announce her as a wife publicly and privately...that means that he is weak...why should she have waited for him anyways...women these days are not frail little gerbils that need affection from a big strong...thing...to her at the time...he wasn't ready to take her back...and she doesn't need to wile away her life and sit with bated breath for him...she did the right thing....and if your saying that their marriage was at first a deal...then I presume that you'd marry a mentally retarded person without flinching...if it doesn't float with you then it shouldn't apply to her as well...Alekh was dead weight anyways...before he realized his "love" for her she was always being treated badly...she needed to be free from this bleeding love (Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open) LOL...I'm sorry...I'm drugged on antibiotics