Who is more important to Sadi??? Ragini or Aalekh - Page 3

Originally posted by: farislove

Thanks, u can call me Zee 😳

By the way, I edited my pervious post and added more, read it..........

😊 I've read it all Zee. I agree 100% with your thinking.

I guess most of Sadhna's actions is not easily explainable. Her level of thinking is very very high. She signed the papers because she simply could not cause her sister more pain and destroy her confidence forever. And after that she had no options left to save her mami ji!

Originally posted by: pricey28

great post!!! completely agree, except for the puppet part. i didn't understand what you meant by that...? please explain...

What I meant by the puppet thing was that she marries, divorces Alekh of her own will without really thinking of the consequences and the impact it could have on Alekh just because of Ragini and her maayka. A million times more than Sadhna, it's Vasu who treats Alekh like a puppet though. Sadhna's main problem is just her priorities--she needs to find a balance just like Ragini needs to.

Originally posted by: Bini311

Yes Anu it is very strange that Sadi who belileves in love and marriage...just signed the papers..marriage is not childs play....and arent we taught that pati dharma is the biggest dharma????

Bini, Loved your topic. I agree with you that pati dharma is the biggest dharma. Alekh is not a good husband and he has made so many mistakes. I am not even justifying his behavior here. But Sadhana loves him so much and doesn't want to end her marriage. Its actually the reason and circumstances for signing the papers is so not right.

You know I was watching some old episodes recently. When Sadi agreed to marry Saket just to get away from Ragini's life, Saket refused when he found out the real reason even though he was in love with her. He told Sadhana something really nice at that time....Marriage is not a game. Just remember one thing if a relationship is formed on the basis of obligation (Majboori lol) then it will just falls apart.

Originally posted by: Bini311

@chocolover: I am glad we agree on the same thing but I have to slightly disagree with the your second post.:)

I agree that Ragvir are happier becos they love each other immensely but I don't want Sadi to be like ragi who can't see any thing besides her husband .and ragvir marriage has also faced trust issues before....

And the second point abt ragis insecurities..I think kaushi played a bigger role constantly reminding ragi of her darkness...Sadi supported ragi in this mattter but she should have stopped after ragvir wedding...

I think both sisters are at two extremes right now....and both should come to a middle line...keeping both husband n family happy...same way all the girls all over the world try to do....

Kaushi definately has a big hand in shaping Ragini's character by unwantingly adding to Ragini's inferiority complex. But I feel like Sadhna also has a huge role because she always tried to save Ragini from problems instead of letting Ragini deal with them herself. I understand that she had Ragini's best interests at heart and it was only her immense love for Ragini that made her do this, but sometimes you just have to let go. In fact not only them, even Ranvir by pampering Ragini has only added to Ragini's inability to "stand up by herself after falling."

@chocolover...

...totally out of context, but I think SRK is the best too!!! 😆

both aalekh n ragini r useless acc. to me... none of them deserves that much love, respect n attention of sadi...

anyways, sadi should focus in her career only.. i'd love to see that 😃

Originally posted by: farislove

Sadhna surely didn't took it lightly at all, she had been a lots of pressure to do such thing, someone has to think, how much this girl has already tolerated, if Sadhna do something against what she did, it would be called 'out of the character'.......

Infact I wanted this to happen that Sadhna signs the divorce papers, coz a girl in her situation with self respect should do this..........

Much more, not only Aalekh, even Ragini by knowing the truth, she would help her to understand her responsiblities, not only as a wife, but as a sister, daughter, etc..........

A girl with self-respect should sign divorce papers so her sister's confidence doesn't crumble if she loses a dance competition?

@ Nu_Adu

Originally posted by: chocolover89

@ Nu_Adu

😆Lols I've been in love with SRK for practically all my life now!!

Believe me when I say this - I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😃😃😃

Originally posted by: Nu_Adu

Believe me when I say this - I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😃😃😃

Heheheh...I'm sure!!