Who is more important to Sadi??? Ragini or Aalekh

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Lately I have been wondering who is more imp to sadi..aalekh or Ragini???? I think Ragini..cos not only now even before she has put forward Raginis interest before aalekhs..I can't remember exactly when..but perhaps during Ragvir hm??

I think Sadi should focus in her marriage for a change....and let Ragini take care of herself...if she fails it is fine..she will learn to stand up...

Let me know your thoughts

Originally posted by: Bini311

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Lately I have been wondering who is more imp to sadi..aalekh or Ragini???? I think Ragini..cos not only now even before she has put forward Raginis interest before aalekhs..I can't remember exactly when..but perhaps during Ragvir hm??

I think Sadi should focus in her marriage for a change....and let Ragini take care of herself...if she fails it is fine..she will learn to stand up...

Let me know your thoughts

definitely RAGINI. and what's sad about it is, she does it when its not even necessary. i mean she gave her husband a divorce, why, so ragi could win a stupid dance competition!!!!!!! WTF...????!!!!! i have read that people put "irreconcilible differences" or "fraud", etc. as their reason for giving their spouse a divorce. what reason did sadi put on her divorce paper: "i wish to give Mr. Alekh Rajvansh a divorce so my cousin could win a dance competition"....????? insane, absolutely INSANE!!!!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by: Bini311

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Lately I have been wondering who is more imp to sadi..aalekh or Ragini???? I think Ragini..cos not only now even before she has put forward Raginis interest before aalekhs..I can't remember exactly when..but perhaps during Ragvir hm??

I think Sadi should focus in her marriage for a change....and let Ragini take care of herself...if she fails it is fine..she will learn to stand up...

Let me know your thoughts

Ragini is definately more important to Sadhna. I can't remember Sadhna ever placing Alekh over Ragini. I'm sure Sadhna cares immesely about Alekh, but Ragini comes first. In fact, Sadhna kind of treats Alekh like he's a puppet while Alekh has zero trust in her. Sadhna and Alekh both need to fix their priorities for them to have a happy marriage. I hate to compare but Ragvir marriage is happier not only because both were/are normal, but also because both are each other's first priorities. They care immensely about everyone else as well, but first and foremost they tend to think about each other.

Originally posted by: chocolover89

Ragini is definately more important to Sadhna. I can't remember Sadhna ever placing Alekh over Ragini. I'm sure Sadhna cares immesely about Alekh, but Ragini comes first. In fact, Sadhna kind of treats Alekh like he's a puppet while Alekh has zero trust in her. Sadhna and Alekh both need to fix their priorities for them to have a happy marriage. I hate to compare but Ragvir marriage is happier not only because both were/are normal, but also because both are each other's first priorities. They care immensely about everyone else as well, but first and foremost they tend to think about each other.

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I completely agree. Sadhna needs to realize that Ragini is a grown individual, and that she just cannot control Ragini's destiny. It's time that she lets Ragini deal by herself with whatever happens and doesn't interfere. This is also why I think Sadhna has a big hand in shaping Ragini's character. When Ragini falls, Sadhna always picks her up in some way, hence Ragini has never learned to stand up by herself and is so weak.

great post!!! completely agree, except for the puppet part. i didn't understand what you meant by that...? please explain...

You are so right. Who in the right frame of mind would divorce her husband(whom she loves so much) to make her sister win a dance competition. Sadhana needs to set her priorities straight otherwise she can never be happy. But she was so confident that Alekh will sure understand her and not sign the papers.
Not only during RagVir HM track, she placed Ragini's interest before Alekh..there are more such incidences.
When Sadhana was going to choose between Shlok and Delhi doctor, she was almost ready to go with the Delhi doctor after Kaushi warned her. It was only after Ragini assured her, she made the right decision.

The only time she has put Alekh first...it was when she snapped at Ragini and slapped Ranveer for letting Alekh drive. So yes, she becomes very protective when Alekh's life is in danger.

We know that Sadhna chose Ragini .So now she should not cry for Alekh.She should happy away from Alekh.

I agree with u Bini, Ragini is much important to Sadhna than Aalekh, Sadhna fell intentionally on stage to make Ragini win, while she knows well that she has no other option than signing the divorce papers to get the money if she doesn't win the competition, she did all this for Mamijii and Ragini, matlab her own family, which they don't even treats her their own and she put her love life on risk, matlab she speaks much louders than words, she do actions, not only talk..........

@chocolover: I am glad we agree on the same thing but I have to slightly disagree with the your second post.:)

I agree that Ragvir are happier becos they love each other immensely but I don't want Sadi to be like ragi who can't see any thing besides her husband .and ragvir marriage has also faced trust issues before....

And the second point abt ragis insecurities..I think kaushi played a bigger role constantly reminding ragi of her darkness...Sadi supported ragi in this mattter but she should have stopped after ragvir wedding...

I think both sisters are at two extremes right now....and both should come to a middle line...keeping both husband n family happy...same way all the girls all over the world try to do....

Originally posted by: --Anu--

You are so right. Who in the right frame of mind would divorce her husband(whom she loves so much) to make her sister win a dance competition. Sadhana needs to set her priorities straight otherwise she can never be happy. But she was so confident that Alekh will sure understand her and not sign the papers.
Not only during RagVir HM track, she placed Ragini's interest before Alekh..there are more such incidences.
When Sadhana was going to choose between Shlok and Delhi doctor, she almost ready to go with the Delhi doctor after Kaushi warned her. It was only after Ragini assured her, she made the right decision.

The only time she has put Alekh first...it was when she snapped at Ragini and slapped Ranveer for letting Alekh drive. So yes, she becomes very protective when Alekh's life is in danger.

Yes Anu it is very strange that Sadi who belileves in love and marriage...just signed the papers..marriage is not childs play....and arent we taught that pati dharma is the biggest dharma????

Originally posted by: farislove

I agree with u Bini, Ragini is much important to Sadhna than Aalekh, Sadhna fellintentionally on stage to make Ragini win, while she knows well that she has no other option than signing the divorce papers to get the money if she doesn't win the competition, she did all this for Mamijii and Ragini, matlab her own family, which they don't even treats her their own and she put her love life on risk, matlab she speaks much louders than words, she do actions, not only talk..........

She didn't think even twice on helping her family, which shows how much she cares for them............

I think Sadhna should not interfer if any problem happnes between RagVir, only if it's too necessery, let Ragini be strong, not depending on others..........

Zee she loves aalekh too right...but she just signed the papers..I am beginning to think that Sadi feels obligation to mamaji....since Aalekh is her family she can sacrifice him to make Ragi happy???