Who is more important to Sadi??? Ragini or Aalekh - Page 2

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Posted: 15 years ago
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they are both equally important to her... u cant choose which eye is more important to u ur left eye or ur right eye... without either one u are lost..... same with ragini and alekh... she loves both to death and cannot choose who is more imp to her...on the other hand... ranvir is more imp than anyone to ragini n that is why we alll calll her selfish..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: *queenme*

they are both equally important to her... u cant choose which eye is more important to u ur left eye or ur right eye... without either one u are lost..... same with ragini and alekh... she loves both to death and cannot choose who is more imp to her...on the other hand... ranvir is more imp than anyone to ragini n that is why we alll calll her selfish..



Exactly my thoughts!

@pricey28, I think the reason Sadhna lost is because she felt she has already caused a world of pain to Ragini with her decisions and couldn't bear to cause her pain yet again. Plus, she overheard Ragini saying she might never recover if she lost her 'happiness' this time!
By losing the competition and signing those divorce papers, she thought she's inflicting pain on herself, which she is ready to do any day instead of hurting her sister!

And the official reason on the papers for filing divorce I guess would be...'blackmailed for life-saving operation of mami ji'

😕 Sad indeed!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bini311



Zee she loves aalekh too right...but she just signed the papers..I am beginning to think that Sadi feels obligation to mamaji....since Aalekh is her family she can sacrifice him to make Ragi happy???

Bini, Sadhna is holding her heart while signing such papers, she loves Aalekh a lots, otherwise she would not be in such condition, as we saw after that, but Sadhna is not selfish, when she has an option to help Mamijii, what she would else do?, she didn't want to sign the divorce papers, remember Vasu did asked her to do this before, but she refused, but lastly she was on pressure, Mamijii's life in risk and this can not wait, putting Ragini more than depression woud put her in zone where she can't be seen at all as inoccent from their sides, thought she doesn't need to prove herself, but Sadhna to think of herself would be out of character, it's not her, thought I too want her to think of her love life, but not in this way, infact what Sadhna did should be a lesson on Aalekh, not only Ragini who needs to not depend on others, even Aalekh too, he should not beg Ranvir to help him, but he should do actions, not only talk, save his love by himself than hidding in room and crying, this would teaches him to not misunderstand Sadhna hencforth once he gets to know the truth, he has to understand the importance of their relationship to never repeat such things...........
Beside while getting the truth of the whole thing, will make him much proud of Sadhna, coz love is not only words, but actions, Sadhna proved a lots of things, but did Aalekh ever proved anything?..........
Edited by farislove - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bini311

@chocolover: I am glad we agree on the same thing but I have to slightly disagree with the your second post.:)

I agree that Ragvir are happier becos they love each other immensely but I don't want Sadi to be like ragi who can't see any thing besides her husband .and ragvir marriage has also faced trust issues before....

And the second point abt ragis insecurities..I think kaushi played a bigger role constantly reminding ragi of her darkness...Sadi supported ragi in this mattter but she should have stopped after ragvir wedding...

I think both sisters are at two extremes right now....and both should come to a middle line...keeping both husband n family happy...same way all the girls all over the world try to do....

@Bold: Sadhna is not like this, otherwise she would never sign the divorce papers, being Sadhna signing the divorce papers doesn't mean that she doesn't love Aalekh, the situations speak much louder than the actions........
Edited by farislove - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Zer I am not saying Sadi is selfish....if divorce would hurt only her than it wasvher decesion to make....but aalekh is involved na.....she thought what would happen to ragi but didn't think how it will effect aalekh ....I just hope aalekh doesn't looses his balance...but what if he did? Will Sadi ever would have been able to forgive herself.....

I so want vasu to get destroyed now......nothing related totopic....just venting lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bini311

Zer I am not saying Sadi is selfish....if divorce would hurt only her than it wasvher decesion to make....but aalekh is involved na.....she thought what would happen to ragi but didn't think how it will effect aalekh ....I just hope aalekh doesn't looses his balance...but what if he did? Will Sadi ever would have been able to forgive herself.....

I so want vasu to get destroyed now......nothing related totopic....just venting lol

I think Aalekh didn't make a point to bring Sadhna back, then he deserves every a bit to suffer, even much more, Sadhna is not his servant that he feels ashamed to tell infront Malika that she is his wife, infact the way he is doing all this he is proving what Vasu said about Sadhna was only a nurse for him is right, if he is a truely knows his responsiblity as a husand, he would never do such things, if he do such things, then how he ever have a face on complaining?............
Infact Aalekh never deserved Sadhna for the way he is neglected her..........
Sadhna took care of him while nobody even dared to come near him, Vasu was not even daring to talk with him while he was abnormal, Sadhna was the only one who always used to praise her infront of him, he got to understand his mom through her, what she got in return?, she was thrown out of the house, I still remember when Mamajii came with Sadhna and shouted calling Aalekh who was hidding in his room.......
Aalekh should learn, life never wins by keeping himself hidden in the room, but by doing something to reach his goal, actions speak..........
Why it has to be always Sadhna to take actions? What is Aalekh ever did for Sadhna?.......
Edited by farislove - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well said farislove 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nu_Adu


Well said farislove 😊

Thanks, u can call me Zee 😳
By the way, I edited my pervious post and added more, read it..........
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Zee
The argument here is not what aalekh should have done or what sadi did serves right to aalek..even I agree that it serves right to aalekh but does Sadi think like that? Does Sadi wants to teach aalekh a lesson? No!

Eventhouh what sadi to aalekh serves him right, Sadi did it for the wrong reason. If Sadi would have signed the paper for selfrespect I would have backed her up...but she signed it so that ragi didn't had to loose the competition.....Sadi shouldn't have taken breaking her marrige so lightly
Edited by Bini311 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bini311

Zee
The argument here is not what aalekh should have done or what sadi did serves right to aalek..even I agree that it serves right to aalekh but does Sadi think like that? Does Sadi wants to teach aalekh a lesson? No!

Eventhouh what sadi to aalekh serves him right, Sadi did it for the wrong reason. If Sadi would have signed the paper for selfrespect I would have backed her up...but she signed it so that ragi didn't had to loose the competition.....Sadi shouldn't have taken breaking her marrige so lightly

Sadhna surely didn't took it lightly at all, she had been a lots of pressure to do such thing, someone has to think, how much this girl has already tolerated, if Sadhna do something against what she did, it would be called 'out of the character'.......
Infact I wanted this to happen that Sadhna signs the divorce papers, coz a girl in her situation with self respect should do this..........
Much more, not only Aalekh, even Ragini by knowing the truth, she would help her to understand her responsiblities, not only as a wife, but as a sister, daughter, etc..........
Edited by farislove - 15 years ago

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