Enough is enough! This needs to STOP! - Page 3

Originally posted by: *Eva*

Dude, have you even visited this place before? Its a huge mess, with every other post involving bashing. I'm really not keen to see personal attacks on the actors and the members, and personally I dont feel anyone would feel comfortable here. Do check it out first and then comment on Sadia's post. 😊

Welcome to the forum, btw. 😊

Eva .. yar this forum was sooo beautiful and Peaceful before..but now..... it just has bashing and Fighting for Sadhana / Salekh and ragini / RagVir..... we have to make this forum as beautiful as before... and this can happen only when all c-operate....

so please a request to all..please be united and co-operate with the modes to keep this forum peaceful.......if we are angry on Injustice happening to any character than we have to discuss out different way's to help stop this injustice ......... but when the actors are happy than why are we hitting out brains on this and spoiling our Peace... Hai na friends

Thanks sadia for this beautiful post . It was very much needed.

Bidaai is an unique story... This is high time we must stop bashing each other and start caring for our favorite serial.

I must say sadia , u r doing a wonderful work as moderator.

Thnx for the notice hun ! That was much needed..

Well I agree with Zarmeeno.. Discussions can be of any sort, and I think everyone should be open to criticism.. Ask any actor, starting from SRK to the worst of actors, who REALLY want to prove themselves, ALL will be open to criticism regarding their style/characters they prtray/ acting.. And jz being his/her fan, how can we go SO BLIND with them? If they r in favor of constructive criticism, why should WE over-react?

Anyways, recently saw a topic on Aalekh being dressed up like Gay.. Gosh! First of all, I dont think he does, during the earlier days, Amir Khan also used to be of this choco-boy image.. In fact Angad really looks cute.. But what I don't understand is, how that was an insult? That was the topic maker's view.. It can help Angad/CV to look upon that matter and change it if they want!

On a funny note, Gay's are now LEGAL in India.. So from that POV also, the topic never looks harsh.. 😆

That's it !

Originally posted by: Sh_ka_su

Wowwwwwwwwwww...👏.. What a post Bini yarrrrrr...too good.....

you know i have to say that i was one among them who was very protective about Ragini......the thing that troubled me the most was she was not given enough importance and screen space as a lead...but your post has helped me change my mind.......

you know you are right .....both the sisters are correct as well as wrong in there own way... and after all they are just characters and very soon they will forget their differences and come together................

I agree to every point you said.....when we become protective about something or some one then by hook or crook we try to protect them in every way.......and forget that we might be hurting someones feeling while doing so........so it's so important to understand the other persons point of view.........................

we all like these two sister's and Brothers...... so we have to learn to love and respect like them....... some of us take them as role models ... so we have to spread love and Peace just like they do in the show......

no one is right or wrong here.........both are facing the challenge of time.... and both the sister's and brother's will emerge as winners at the end........ so let us celebrate their bond rather than fight over their character................

Thanks Sadia for this eye opener topic👏....i'm sorry if i've hurt some one😭

Hi, I don' t know your name, but I admire your honesty and optimism for the future of Bidaai forum. I am humbled that you were inspired by my post, but I am truly amazed by your honesty, and hope you will inspire others in the forum to come forward as well. 👏 to you.

@ prerna4rishav .....thank you....i really didnt mean to offend anyone when i used the word gay....and i certainly didnt mean that alekh is gay i meant his dressing style was kinda gay......i am alekhs fan and didnt mean any disrespect....but the topic was closed before i could explain.....i couldnt think of an other word to describe his dressing.....but i do apologize....i really didnt think people would take my post so wrong......i love all characters of bidaai.....and i have enough sense to know that all actors are playing a role and from what they say to how they dress is all done by the creatives....i just wanted to state my POV....which was misinterpreted by some readers.....i am glad u brought it up so i could explain.....never meant to hurt anyones feeling.

Originally posted by: Bini311

Hi, I don' t know your name, but I admire your honesty and optimism for the future of Bidaai forum. I am humbled that you were inspired by my post, but I am truly amazed by your honesty, and hope you will inspire others in the forum to come forward as well. 👏 to you.

Awwwwwwwwww.... Thanks So much yarrr...My name is Anu.........you know you and sadia have written your posts in such a way that i was compelled to think..... after all these are just Character's....why fight over them........Offscreen they are soo happy....they are best best friends... and we need to learn form that...........

I really felt that i might have hurt some people with few of my posts.......but your post was a cool eye opener dear.....Thanks a lot....and sure... we all have to work on making this forum peaceful and beautiful

Sa_Ka_Su....

Hi guys,

I am loving it how you all are discussing this matter peacefully among yourselves & solving it...kudos to you all👍🏼 This is what I call a heathy discussion. Half of you disagreed & half of you agreed, yet we respected everybody's opinion & actually thought about what each person tried to say. Loved each & every response and thank you all for participating and proving that arguments and fights can be handled by discussing nicely too!

You guys still can discuss about it and solve it completely cuz I am seeing the bashing continues *sigh*. But i just came to inform you guys that I quit this job of being a mod. There's like a lot of pressure about studies on my head already & on top handling 40-50 reported topics per day just stress me out. SO just wanted to inform you that the GM and CM will be handling the forum now as long the new DT members are not finalized.

Oh wait...i m not done yet...this message has become my favourite now, & i want to remind you all of it, it's from My Name Is Khan....We all are human being first. So just remember we all are jodi fans/actors fans later, but we all r human being first! Treat the forum members as your family, treat each of them like you would treat you family member.

Take care...
sadia

Originally posted by: -Saalekh-

Hi guys,

I am loving it how you all are discussing this matter peacefully among yourselves & solving it...kudos to you all👍🏼 This is what I call a heathy discussion. Half of you disagreed & half of you agreed, yet we respected everybody's opinion & actually thought about what each person tried to say. Loved each & every response and thank you all for participating and proving that arguments and fights can be handled by discussing nicely too!

You guys still can discuss about it and solve it completely cuz I am seeing the bashing continues *sigh*. But i just came to inform you guys that I quit this job of being a mod. There's like a lot of pressure about studies on my head already & on top handling 40-50 reported topics per day just stress me out. SO just wanted to inform you that the GM and CM will be handling the forum now as long the new DT members are not finalized.

Oh wait...i m not done yet...this message has become my favourite now, & i want to remind you all of it, it's from My Name Is Khan....We all are human being first. So just remember we all are jodi fans/actors fans later, but we all r human being first! Treat the forum members as your family, treat each of them like you would treat you family member.

Take care...
sadia

Sadiaaaaaaaaaaaaaa........you are leaving as a mod or IF completely????😲 Please don't leave IF. About mod, I think it is the best decision as you need to concentrate in your studies too, and definitely this forum is very chaotic. But I will miss your moderation and fairness.

Originally posted by: -Saalekh-

Hi guys,

I am loving it how you all are discussing this matter peacefully among yourselves & solving it...kudos to you all👍🏼 This is what I call a heathy discussion. Half of you disagreed & half of you agreed, yet we respected everybody's opinion & actually thought about what each person tried to say. Loved each & every response and thank you all for participating and proving that arguments and fights can be handled by discussing nicely too!

You guys still can discuss about it and solve it completely cuz I am seeing the bashing continues *sigh*. But i just came to inform you guys that I quit this job of being a mod. There's like a lot of pressure about studies on my head already & on top handling 40-50 reported topics per day just stress me out. SO just wanted to inform you that the GM and CM will be handling the forum now as long the new DT members are not finalized.

Oh wait...i m not done yet...this message has become my favourite now, & i want to remind you all of it, it's from My Name Is Khan....We all are human being first. So just remember we all are jodi fans/actors fans later, but we all r human being first! Treat the forum members as your family, treat each of them like you would treat you family member.

Take care...
sadia

This probably means that you are not anymore Saalekh the Moderator... but Sadia the girl.