Enough is enough! This needs to STOP! - Page 2

yeah! i definitely agree with u...

i know all actors want their jobs and get more and more money.... they want to buy something whatever they want....

only directors decide to plan how and what all movies and serials to do... they tries to do their best...

Originally posted by: Bini311

Sadia, kudos to you for moderating this forum, which sure is a very tough challenge.

One of the main reasons this forum can't keep up with a healthy discussion is, because the fanbase of a jodi, be it SaAalekh or RagVir can't really look at the character's objectively. If they are a Sadhana fan or Ragini fan, they will stick by her, even though anyone of them makes a wrong decision in the show. They get very protective and defensive, and start picking on the parallel lead to prove their point. Ragini fans to defend Ragini often come up with the line, "Sadhana just wants to be mahan.....", and Sadhana fans come with the line, "Ragini is just an average character and hence no expectations from her...and Bidaai is the only the story of Sadhana..". Ragini's fanbase are upset with Sadhana because Ragini is not getting any footage, and Sadhana's fanbase are rejoicing and also commenting that Sadhana should get all the footage, because apparently she is the lead.

It is just strange that both of this observation are so at fault. Anyone who has watched Bidaai from beginning knows very well, the tales of Sadhana's sacrifice and her unconditional love to her family, the humiliation Ragini has faced through her looks and how she rose up from it, and how Bidaai is about two sisters in two different situations.

Like Taral, I just want to request to all members to not look at characters subjectively but point out both the wrong and right. No one is perfect, neither Sadhana nor Ragini. I completely agree that each one of us would have their own POV and this forum should be a place to discuss. Mind you, discussion means having open minds and listening to what the other person has to say, and make better arguments to prove your point. But name calling, bashing, irrational comments are no way to go. It just proves that you don't have a valid point but want to win the argument by hook or crook.

I watched Sara and Parul's sbs video, and they were talking so lightly about the whole scenario, and laughing about it. Why can't we do the same here?? Have we become so blind in our love for the tv-actresses that we have forgotten the objectivity of the story? Why are we fighting for the rights of Ragini or Sadhana, when at the end they are just characters of a show???

Valentine's day is coming up..why don't all the RagVir and SaAalkeh fans to something together...perhaps RagVir fans can make a beautiful siggy for SaAalekh fans and vice versa....any other ideas...lets spread some love...

Originally posted by: Bini311

Sadia, kudos to you for moderating this forum, which sure is a very tough challenge.

One of the main reasons this forum can't keep up with a healthy discussion is, because the fanbase of a jodi, be it SaAalekh or RagVir can't really look at the character's objectively. If they are a Sadhana fan or Ragini fan, they will stick by her, even though anyone of them makes a wrong decision in the show. They get very protective and defensive, and start picking on the parallel lead to prove their point. Ragini fans to defend Ragini often come up with the line, "Sadhana just wants to be mahan.....", and Sadhana fans come with the line, "Ragini is just an average character and hence no expectations from her...and Bidaai is the only the story of Sadhana..". Ragini's fanbase are upset with Sadhana because Ragini is not getting any footage, and Sadhana's fanbase are rejoicing and also commenting that Sadhana should get all the footage, because apparently she is the lead.

It is just strange that both of this observation are so at fault. Anyone who has watched Bidaai from beginning knows very well, the tales of Sadhana's sacrifice and her unconditional love to her family, the humiliation Ragini has faced through her looks and how she rose up from it, and how Bidaai is about two sisters in two different situations.

Like Taral, I just want to request to all members to not look at characters subjectively but point out both the wrong and right. No one is perfect, neither Sadhana nor Ragini. I completely agree that each one of us would have their own POV and this forum should be a place to discuss. Mind you, discussion means having open minds and listening to what the other person has to say, and make better arguments to prove your point. But name calling, bashing, irrational comments are no way to go. It just proves that you don't have a valid point but want to win the argument by hook or crook.

I watched Sara and Parul's sbs video, and they were talking so lightly about the whole scenario, and laughing about it. Why can't we do the same here?? Have we become so blind in our love for the tv-actresses that we have forgotten the objectivity of the story? Why are we fighting for the rights of Ragini or Sadhana, when at the end they are just characters of a show???

Valentine's day is coming up..why don't all the RagVir and SaAalkeh fans to something together...perhaps RagVir fans can make a beautiful siggy for SaAalekh fans and vice versa....any other ideas...lets spread some love...

Originally posted by: -Saalekh-

Thanks for your comment hun.😊

See that's the things people can't do. If all the people could reply the way you did just right now, nobody would've problem with anybody in this forum. In your post, you disagreed with me but the way you put your thoughts and explained is the way people should disagree too. But you will see numerous posts where people will disagree with you and sometimes ending up insulting you. That is where it becomes a problem. Otherwise, diagreements and critisism are welcome completely!

Healthy discussion to me looks like -- Respecting other people's point of view, Disagreements that has no rudeness in it or saracasm in it that might hurt others, explaining own's thoughts in a positive way that will not be considered "bashing". But many people just tend to fail to do that!

Yes probably something really injustice is happening to your fav character & not to other's fav character. But is that the other's fav character's fault that injustice is happening to your fav character? Then why bash that character? Why not raising your marks in report card instead of planning to how to make others fail in report card? People should give suggestions how to give justice to that character but they should not do that by putting down other character! That is what I am trying to say. What do people really get by bashing somebody?

Will be waiting for your reply😊

Couldn't agree more...specially the bold part.

Lovely post, much needed in this chaotic forum. But call me pessimistic or whatever, my experience in this forum says nothing will hardly change. Some fans are so obsessed with their fav. jodi that they are unable to see anything beyond that.

All the characters are important but their role can vary depending upon the storyline. These are just fictional characters, they dont write their own role. lol. Its the Cvs . Then why bash another character if the so called "injustice" is done to another one ?

Some fans make posts about quitting the show and also ask others to join them. OK..you are upset with the storyline for whatever reason but why make it a public announcement of leaving the show.

Then in TRP posts, they demean other jodi if the TRP ratings was bad for a particular episode. Do we know beforehand what's going to be shown in the next episode ? I dont...never get any calls or emails from the CVs. lol Why bother about TRPs if they are not even watching the show.

About Sadhana-Ragini who's lead...whos more strong ...who gets more screen-space...these are never ending debates. But its more important to stay within the limits and not bash the actors or attack any member personally.

Originally posted by: pking

Excuse me,😕 as you said this is not your form nor anyones its our form so that means everyone has the right to speak how they feel so i think you should think twice before you start writing a story about how people shouldnt be bashing or saying negative things...soo let the form be as it is and if your not happy with what u see then maybe you should leave.

Now what's this ? Can't we have any healthy discussion in the forum? Is bashing or spreading negativity fun ?

Some members are trying to make an effort to stop this nonsense and instead of supporting or applauding the effort, you are discouraging them. This was so not needed.

Originally posted by: pking

Excuse me,😕 as you said this is not your form nor anyones its our form so that means everyone has the right to speak how they feel so i think you should think twice before you start writing a story about how people shouldnt be bashing or saying negative things...soo let the form be as it is and if your not happy with what u see then maybe you should leave.