Ragini..........needs to do more - Page 3

Originally posted by: pragalbha

nureat01................'Niceness' does not always mean being coy and shy and docile...............Being tough and strong according to me also falls into the realm of being nice! 😃 For eg: If you fight for a soft person's right because he or she cannot do it on her own, that will also count as being nice, don't you agree? Ummm.....I'm sorry I'm a little confused by what you're saying......All I got from your previous argument was that you want Ragi to run around after Vasu and DRILL the point into her head that she is 'NICE'....whatever definition of nice is being applied😆😆....I never said that niceness has to be about being coy and docile either😕😆....I though it meant to be much more gracious and magnanimous....which Ragi already is....her needing to be tough and stand up for herself is different from that in my opinion....and for her own self-development as a person.

I want her to show what kind of a nice person she is but by being tough about it i.e making a very concsious, knowing effort about it.

When Ragini has shown her self-confidence to Vasu before that was as an outsider. But now whatever she does, it will be as her bahu.................and there is an immense difference in those situations. But isn't the color prejudice the crux of Vasu's problem with Ragi?? So how is all this going to change her opinion?😕

Somehow I cannot help dodge this feeling that Vasu will lie about her decision under pressure! That is, she will say 'yes' but not fron her heart. Her dislike for Ragini's physical features might still continue albeit hidden.😕 Yeah, a lot of us have the same feeling...we were discussing it a few days back.

And if that is the case, then I don't agree with you that her dislike is something that she has to get over on her own.....................its not like she will wake up one morning and say..........."OK, I have no problems with a dark-skinned middle class bahu anymore!".............................that is next to impossible!

The only way Vasu can change is by getting to actually know Ragini. And for that, the constant Vasu and Ragini interactions and the way Ragini handles herself and the situations will lead to Vasu being impressed by Ragini, once she gets to see her on a daily basis and live with her. Also, Ragini and Vasu might be put into more situations where they are either pitted against each other or maybe sometimes will be on the same side of the situation. Either way, the self-confidence tand strength that Ragini's character needs to develop will help her through these times and to finally make a place in Vasu's heart. I thought that was but obvious😕😆....when did I ever disagree to the fact that Vasu will change her opinion of Ragi only when she gets to know Ragi....and I've also agreed MANY times that Ragi has to show more strength of character....My only point is that Vasu's ENORMOUS ego blinds her to a lot of stuff and only a combination of circumstances and how Ragi and her interact thru those circumstances will bring about eventual change....there is nothing Ragi can go out of her way to do to drill sense into Vasu.

Originally posted by: phoenixsilver

@Rahmina.....

arrey if ragini said that to vasu.....im sure she would find support in aalekh...with his...good good ...very very good.....LOLS😆.....even tho most of the others would faind....n probably satyen too wud support her though no too vocally enuff.....😆