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Posted: 16 years ago
#11
I am not sure what Ragi can do, but i am also bothered about her equation with Kaushalya Ji...I don't know if she should say something like, " I will also not marry untill my mom is ready", cos to think of it, everyone is ignoring Kaushalya Ji. I know her arugments seems baseless to all now, but still they are valid, but even if they were not valid, how can Ragi just ignore her mom. Somehow, I feel Ragi should try to convince Kaushalya Ji, because at the end how can she marry Ranvir when her mother is upset.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: pragalbha

If she cannot even convince her own mom then how can she ever convince and change Vasu's opinion about her if it so happens that she ends up marrying Ranveer without Vasu's all-out approval??

But I don't think she should be making a conscious effort to 'convince' Vasu to change her opinion anyways.....Ragi just needs to be herself...It is VASU who has to let go off her petty minded ego and learn to see the goodness in Ragi.
All Ragi needs to do is develop self-confidence and learn to stand up for herself....and that she needs to do for herself....not for anyone else or anybody's approval.
Anyways, according to the articles and SBS reports, Ragi WILL be marrying Ranvir with Vasu's approval, so we can all rest easy on that😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I am afraid, sometimes a concsious effort has to be made, specially where personal happiness is at stake. The way Vasu's character has been depicted............I don't think simply being your own self will bring home the bacon!! 😆 Atleast not for a very long time!! Why, this lady has a problem even with a lamb like Sadhana who was her own choice!!!!
So, Ragini needs to make an effort to show to Vasu that she is a warm hearted, genuine person who might have a darker skin tone but has a very white heart!
But as you say.............if Vasu gives her permission then we don't need to worry!
But you know what................I want Vasu's change of heart to happen because of Ragini and not because of Ranveer!! 😃
Edited by pragalbha - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: pragalbha

I am afraid, sometimes a concsious effort has to be made, specially where personal happiness is at stake. The way Vasu's character has been depicted............I don't think simply being your own self will bring home the bacon!! 😆 Atleast not for a very long time!! Why, this lady has a problem even with a lamb like Sadhana who was her own choice!!!!

So, Ragini needs to make an effort to show to Vasu that she is a warm hearted, genuine person who might have a darker skin tone but has a very white heart!
But as you say.............if Vasu gives her permission then we don't need to worry!
But you know what................I want Vasu's change of heart to happen because of Ragini and not because of Ranveer!! 😃

And that in a nutshell shows very clearly that efforts won't make any difference with that woman...she will only see what she WANTS to see and what suits her personal means and gains....so what 'extra efforts' can Ragi possibly make to show her goodness to her?😕😆.....It is not exactly 'hidden' right now....EVERYONE can see it except Vasu! So WHO needs an attitude re-adjustment here?? Vasu does!😆😆.....
As for the change of heart, from the reports coming in, the change of heart actually seems to have happened cuz of Aalekh....not Ragini or Ranvir😆😆
If things got tied up that easily, this wouldn't be a daily soap😉😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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No nureat................that's the whole point! Sadhana is her own self.........soft and accomodating and that is why Vasu takes advantage of her!
If Ragini also starts being herself, that is soft and pliable then Vasu will sit on Ragini's head too. Which is why Ragini has to make a concsious effort to show her mettle, only then Vasu can be convinced!
As Ambika said, Vasu has been surrounded with 'Yes, maam' people for too long..............she needs someone who can stand their ground, which can happen if Ragini's character is shown to mature and gain that strength!
Sorry, don't mean to argue just my 2 cents...........😃
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Posted: 16 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: nureat01

No one said Ragi is perfect either, Jiya. And we all want to see Ragi grow as a character as well. But her and Ranvir have to chart different courses for their respective growths....Ranvir has had it easy all his life....this is the first time he's facing challenges but he's braving them very well so all the kudos to him for that.

Ragi has faced rejection, despair, negativity all her life....and I'm not putting this forth as an excuse that makes it ok for her to just sit around moping all the time WAITING for things to get ok....NO! I'm not saying that....
All I'm saying is that while I may not like Ragi's negative/defeatist disposition, I can understand it given the circumstances in her life.
As for the way she should grow as a character, I think that will mainly happen after her marriage to Ranvir cuz his love and support has to heal many many years of rejection and pain for her.....I'm sure we'll see a stronger, more vibrant Ragi emerging soon enough.



Bang on. Couldn't have said it better myself.

Bas. Tumne keh diya! 😛
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Posted: 16 years ago
#17

Ohhhh...so then you're not talking about Ragi showing her niceness....you're talking about Ragi standing up for herself, right?? That toh I've agreed to since the beginning only.....where's the argument?? 😕😕😆

Vasu is NOT going to be impressed by Ragi showing her 'mettle' thru her self-confidence....if that had to happen, Ragi has shown that many times in the past to Vasu as well!

Vasu is acting like a bigot who doesn't find Ragi physical appearance or statuswise worthy of her son....and that is something that she has to get over on her own.

Edited by nureat01 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Vasu will not like Ragini standing up for herself and will tell Ranvir and others how disrespectful Ragini is to her which will cause problems.

I don't think she should be a lamb, but there's moments to stand up and moments where you're better off not saying a word.

Ragini can't say anything to Vasu now because the main thing is about Ragini's looks and she can't go up to Vasu and be like listen idiot, I am beautiful. Only Ranvir can do that minus the idiot part.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: Rahm



Ragini can't say anything to Vasu now because the main thing is about Ragini's looks and she can't go up to Vasu and be like listen idiot, I am beautiful. Only Ranvir can do that minus the idiot part.

ROFL!🤣🤣🤣 That would be SO hilarious if they showed that!🤣🤣 I think Vasu would faint with shock!🤣🤣
I agree with the rest of what you've said though😉
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: nureat01

ROFL!🤣🤣🤣 That would be SO hilarious if they showed that!🤣🤣 I think Vasu would faint with shock!🤣🤣
I agree with the rest of what you've said though😉



Lol, Vasu tho kya, I think Ragini would faint after she says it, if she can even get it out without stammering like crazy.

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