Sweta, I don't know how you managed to bridge the gap between fact and fiction. I really wish that she writes this letter one day... and probably that day isn't soon... I am hoping it will come someday...
We all create that sort of silo or cocoon of feelings and expectations that tend to make us narrower in our approach of whom we want to be with and what characteristics we would like to have in our life partner... in short, my belief is, that the concept of a "dream man or woman" is completely a beautiful myth.
Atleast, I haven't not met anyone in my life who was not surprised by love !
And that is why they say, love happens... and your left with a feeling... like... "OMG, can I actually love him or her... they are so different than what I thought my life partner would be"... and I think that is a b'ful feeling...
No doubt, Parth is THE perfect guy and seems like a person Sanyukta has imagined to be with... but then the real reason is why is she feeling unsatiated... or is she too choked with the qualities... I don't know !
I believe it requires courage to accept a life partner with imperfections... reasons could be different for people... but when you accept someone who is not perfect or does not truly match with the guy in your imagination... you are actually taking a "risk"... going beyond your comfort zone and accepting someone "unconditionally"... you are actually making efforts to believe in someone knowing that their thoughts don't match with you 100%
And that is why I believe that, you should go with someone who compliments you and not supplements you...
Parth and Sanyukta, are simply the "Same" ... they might live a very stable and comfortable life because they truly "supplement" each other... but I don't know if they will have that sort of "magic" and sort of push each other to achieve their dreams (innovatively).
On the other hand, I don't know if Randhir and Sanyukta, will have a "happily ever after" sort of relationship, but they will surely make it worth living for... they simply compliment each other... when you have so much passion... chances are VERY high that you might up in a heart break or a broken marriage because, to be honest, I feel too much passion, love and care just sometimes drives us nuts !!! It leads us to that "black hole" of pain and ache...
But, even if it is only for a single moment... I bet it is worth experiencing and ENOUGH to live for a lifetime !!!
So, open your cages and let your hearts fly... don't be afraid to get hurt because pain is just an OPTICAL ILLUSION !
Edited by varshamitra - 11 years ago