If Ahem apologizes should Gopi accept him in her life again?

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If Ahem apologizes should Gopi accept him in her life again?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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If in the future Ahem accepts his mistakes and apologizes to Gopi for all that he has done, should Gopi accept him back into her life?

After the taunts, insults, pushing and shoving around, pointing out she was illiterate when they got married, lying to their daughters about her whereabouts, letting their daughters hate their own mother, living with another woman, proceeding to get engaged to the other woman, should Gopi still accept Ahem back into her life?

And if yes she should, how does she know he won't hurt her again in the future? This is the second time he got ready to marry another woman. How can Gopi be sure that if they again have problems in the future he won't go off and say he has had enough of her and wants to marry somebody else?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi, Nikki!

Gopi should never forgive Ahem for the way he treated her nor should she take him back. I have seen so many times in Indian serials where a man hurts his wife, but still, the wife forgives and takes him back. 😑

I only recall one time in which a woman did not take back her husband. So, if Gopi does not forgive and take Ahem back even after he apologizes to her, that will be a breath of fresh air! πŸ˜ƒ
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hello Nikki! :)

After what has occurred so far with her, I'd say in my opinion, No she should not scurry back to Ahem. She should in-fact move on forward with her life as an independent woman.😊 Start off on her own adventure!

Edited by sophiewonzer14 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: skanthan

Hi, Nikki!

Gopi should never forgive Ahem for the way he treated her nor should she take him back. I have seen so many times in Indian serials where a man hurts his wife, but still, the wife forgives and takes him back. 😑

I only recall one time in which a woman did not take back her husband. So, if Gopi does not forgive and take Ahem back even after he apologizes to her, that will be a breath of fresh air! πŸ˜ƒ


Hi Greg! Long time no see. Thank you very much for your comment. 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: touch_of_pink

If in the future Ahem accepts his mistakes and apologizes to Gopi for all that he has done, should Gopi accept him back into her life?

After the taunts, insults, pushing and shoving around, pointing out she was illiterate when they got married, lying to their daughters about her whereabouts, letting their daughters hate their own mother, living with another woman, proceeding to get engaged to the other woman, should Gopi still accept Ahem back into her life?

And if yes she should, how does she know he won't hurt her again in the future? This is the second time he got ready to marry another woman. How can Gopi be sure that if they again have problems in the future he won't go off and say he has had enough of her and wants to marry somebody else?

Please make your choice and leave a comment if you like. 😊


You have a point there about Ahem getting ready to marry another woman when Gopi goes missing.

Why does Gopi go missing? I wonder .

Ahem saying Gopi is illiterate now may be he is ranting about how his mother dominated him always is necessary.

Gopi never took offence in fact when Ahem called her illiterate and he was rude to her she went grovelling behind him calling him Ahemji Ahemji blah blah . She had no self respect any time.

Only when Meera went missing at that time after eight years she came back with some self respect.

He can say hurtful things. But now Gopi knows to speak English. He can check her "knowedge" now.

She can shout back at Ahemji about everything he said about her.

About what he says about Kokila he has to say that. In fact about that he is right. Kokila should stop running his life. and ordering Gopi around.

In fact Ahem instead of apologising "knees down" and "rose in hand" after saying hurtful things is not enough.

Gopi should learn to live a life with self respect even if she went back to Ahem. She should not grovel like she did before.

For starters Ahem can make his own breakfast and do his own chores spend more time with each other and have a good life.

Well I don't know really what to say. Because Ahem does this often with Gopi. So what Gopi wants Gopi should decide.

Regarding what Ahem says about Gopi and Kokila let him rant it out. These people can learn from it and reform. themselves. because in anger hometruths come out.

Going back to Ahem is for Gopi to decide.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: touch_of_pink

Hi Greg! Long time no see. Thank you very much for your comment. 😊



You're welcome! Yes, it has been a long time! I have been in Anamika la la land, 🀣 thus I did not come for some time. 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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She should not accept him for sure after how he treated her with all insults etc.. even though she accepted her mistakes...😑
Just like how Gopi is suffering, he should suffer too the same way to get her back.. I hope Meera / Vidya go with Gopi...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: skanthan

Hi, Nikki!

Gopi should never forgive Ahem for the way he treated her nor should she take him back. I have seen so many times in Indian serials where a man hurts his wife, but still, the wife forgives and takes him back. 😑

I only recall one time in which a woman did not take back her husband. So, if Gopi does not forgive and take Ahem back even after he apologizes to her, that will be a breath of fresh air! πŸ˜ƒ



@bold: Yes, in kyunki saas bhi bahu thi, Tulsi takes Mihir back. It took time for her to do that but she did that only for her daughter.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: touch_of_pink


Hi Greg! Long time no see. Thank you very much for your comment. 😊



Yes, Greg, it has been a long time. I thought you stopped watching it after Gopi killed Radha.😊

@Nikki, Gopi shouldn't be taking Ahem back as it is the question of her self-respect. This is not the first time he is doing it. Even in the previous leap, he had almost married her own sister. But thanks to Rashi & kids for saving that situation.

If Gopi was in Ahem's place & Ahem was in Gopi's place, & if Gopi had done that would Ahem take her back when she apologizes to him? But she will be there till Kokila gets well.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sharoon,

No, I was still following Saath Nibhana Saathiya, but, since I was also watching and re-watching Anamika on YouTube, I have gone into a practical dreamworld of Anamika. 🀣

I really liked how Gopi handled Ahem today. Bravo on her. Ahem is lucky he pulled this with Gopi. Had a certain other character been in Gopi's place and Ahem did that with her, oh boy. That would be that last we see of him! πŸ˜†
Edited by skanthan - 10 years ago

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