If Ahem apologizes should Gopi accept him in her life again? - Page 5

Originally posted by: touch_of_pink

^ Thanks Xarina.

Please if you voted yes let us know your reasons. I would like to know your POV. Who knows, it might make the other side look at this situation in a different way.

All comments are welcome. 😊

Originally posted by: coolhi1988

m sure d one who has voted yes has not been watching sns from d episode 1.. coz if watching then wouldnt hv voted yes..
or may b cvs r d 1 who hv voted yes to indirectly warn us abt our wish not fulfilling...

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

According to me whoever has voted yes, they would be thinking that it is also Gopi's fault as much as Ahem's. Gopi should have thought about her family before taking such a step. She shouldn't have made her hands dirty for an inhuman & worthless woman like Radha & on top of that she cut of with the family till her term is over. Gopi is supposed to be responsible to her immediate family i.e. her husband & kids. She shouldn't be stepping out of the family whenever she wants. According to me, Ahem is not wrong in that way Ahem is not wrong but he has lied to the girls about Gopi & made them hate her, he has insulted his wife & mom in front of everybody. Although he knows that he is wrong, he immediately forgives himself. He could have easily stopped Gopi from taking such a step. Ahem & Gopi did not communicated with each other properly. Ahem should have told Gopi what he saw in his dream & Gopi should have told Ahem that Radha is not only a problem for Jigar & Paridhi but to the entire family. She should have reminded him of what Radha has done to their daughters in the past & can get back at them anytime so it should be prevented. If she had told that, Ahem would have worked out a plan.

Originally posted by: Xarina

Whilst Gopi must shoulder some of the blame for abandoning her immediate family, she acted on emotion for which she was made to separate from her family but Ahem acted in anger. I don't think he considered his daughters and how they would be without their cousins and grandparents. But the reasoning for Gopi to go back to Ahem because she was wrong too does not wash with me. This is almost like a domestic violence situation where one partner is abusive to the other either mentally or physically. Gopi was an emotional punchbag for Ahem. I feel she should not go back to him.

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

I didn't click on yes but I posted this comment on behalf of those members who think like that. In Facebook, I see many people who favor Gohem. Nobody mentions GoJi or GoXyz.

Acually, it is two sided. What gopi did cannot be justified but it is also ahem's fault. Just by keeping away from Radha does not solve the problem as she would have got back at their daughters sooner or later. She should have convinced ahem about this.

Now, Ahem has turned worse than the previous leap. He is now out of control. He is being abusive only to satisfy his ego. He never accepts his fault. Just because Gopi went to jail, that doesn't mean that he should lie to the girls and make the girls and make them against her. He didn't have any right to do this no matter what.

In my opinion, it is no. Gopi should not accept him after hurling abuses and insults.

In yesterday's episode, it was nice to see Gopi giving a fitting reply to Ahem when he blamed her for his mom landing in hospital. He is such a hypocrite and also made his daughters the same.

I don't think gopi should accept him if he comes back to her.

However, it is up to the CV's how they take it. One thing is sure. They won't bring Jigar or anyone else with Gopi. If it has to be anybody, it will only be Ahem. She should focus on her business and not stay with any of the Modis. She should take Rashi and stay separately. She also should adopt a boy who will respect her and stand by her and deal with Meera and Vidya with the help of Tolu and Molu