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Posted: 11 years ago
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hence her anger was right, i am sure that soon enough Vidya will tell Ahem that she hates him too. If Gopi leaves Vidya goes too i think Tolu Molu also will say we all leave i have a feeling that everyone is going to leave with Gopi leave kokila, Ahem n Radha all alone this time Gopi will have child and family who will ahem n kokila have

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Posted: 11 years ago
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yeh she seen her smirking hence her anger was justified.
I liked the way the kids went after vidya..
Hetal went after gopi, and you could tell urmi was about to go after her too..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i think soon modi bhavan will be emptyy... there will be only 3 members ahem koki and that stupid radha...

remaining will shift somgad..(i think it is only the place where gopi lived before with vidya. correct me if i am wrong...😛)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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If vidya reveals abt radha will ahem accept it.?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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How I wish that happens... Chances are that Tolu Molu, Pappu say they want to go boarding school with Vidya...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The way she started beating Radha I really liked it...
Edited by Nilu123789 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The Modis' are idiots to have this conversation in front of the kids 🤢 Ahem is an idiot to forget the fact that whether he likes it or not, his wife has raised Vidya and that Vidya is affiliated to her.

If Rashi said something that was completely true today, it was the fact that Ahem is being unreasonable to think Vidya's anger is because of Gopi's doing. Vidya is alright until Ahem and Kokila start shouting at Gopi. So the fault is with Ahem.

Like all kids, Vidya targets the one person she considers is the reason for her Father's anger, Radha. She sees her mother being shouted at. She sees her father shouting he wants to marry Radha and she gets angry with Radha. It is typically how children react.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Naturally . She had child of family for 8 years . She ensured child would be more attached to her . So yeah , exact scenario of what u say is possible and it will be shown as some right thing .

Though i feel it is a bit thick for a man not to know he had a child for 8 years , miss out on the growing process and then hear I hate u too from the kid . As i saw it , he is tender to the child . He entered the laddu competition only as she told him . He absolutely did not want to take part in any fun activity . He even agreed to the mother staying there coz the family argued it was for 'the child's sake ' .

But i think he cannot go beyond that , he cannot accept the mother . Her mistakes haunt him . Its a classic case of wanting the child but not wanting the mother and it being a tragedy where the child wants the mother and so he is expected to comply keeping his feelings aside .

I feel he should . For me , the child comes first especially if u have no interest in marraige with someone else , a career etc . I feel , just as Gopi should not go anywhere for Vidya , Ahem too should adjust for Vidya . I know its hard , especially since she kept the child from him for 8 years . I dunno what i would do if my husband hid my kid for 8 years and i suddenly saw her as a grown up girl .

But the situation as it is now , where both Ahem Gopi have no other love interests , passion for career , with priority only as child , i think for sake of child they need to patch up . Aage ka aage dekha jaayega .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is not about NOT wanting to accept VIdya's mother. This is about being sensible enough to know what to speak and what not to speak in front of her.

Ahem's concern and care for Vidya is only superficial. He does things she asks for. Great!

A parent needs to listen to their child too.. Actually listen!! Not just do things for her. But also listen!

If you call a parent of a child bad names in front of the child, there are two things that happen.

The child cracks. He/She either starts thinking the way the parent(the one who is shouting) is thinking.

Or

The child starts hating the parent who is berating the other.

Vidya, whether Ahem likes it or not is attached to Gopi.. Whatever the reason. So being such a great businessman and smart guy that he is, he should understand that his daughter needs things to be explained better to her than just "Go to your room" Or.. Don't berate her mother in front of her.

Make decisions and then explain things to her like a father. If Ahem cannot explain his actions then he is doing something wrong somewhere.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What niceness is he expected to show a woman who fully intended to keep his child from him

Rashi talked of tameez , would she have shown tameez to Jigar if he had done the same or run and throttled him by the collar

still i would say he adjusts most of the time .

And why r his concerns superficial when Gopi not discosing to the child that she had a rich father is regarded as genuine affection . What big benefit of child she was looking out for .


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