Naturally . She had child of family for 8 years . She ensured child would be more attached to her . So yeah , exact scenario of what u say is possible and it will be shown as some right thing .
Though i feel it is a bit thick for a man not to know he had a child for 8 years , miss out on the growing process and then hear I hate u too from the kid . As i saw it , he is tender to the child . He entered the laddu competition only as she told him . He absolutely did not want to take part in any fun activity . He even agreed to the mother staying there coz the family argued it was for 'the child's sake ' .
But i think he cannot go beyond that , he cannot accept the mother . Her mistakes haunt him . Its a classic case of wanting the child but not wanting the mother and it being a tragedy where the child wants the mother and so he is expected to comply keeping his feelings aside .
I feel he should . For me , the child comes first especially if u have no interest in marraige with someone else , a career etc . I feel , just as Gopi should not go anywhere for Vidya , Ahem too should adjust for Vidya . I know its hard , especially since she kept the child from him for 8 years . I dunno what i would do if my husband hid my kid for 8 years and i suddenly saw her as a grown up girl .
But the situation as it is now , where both Ahem Gopi have no other love interests , passion for career , with priority only as child , i think for sake of child they need to patch up . Aage ka aage dekha jaayega .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago