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Posted: 11 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: -Ritu567-

I remembered what Radha had said to Kokila before "she only knows how to terrorise others and force her opinion on them"...she is so right...all the time Kokila is blaming Gopi or putting her down. What the hell does she think of herself?! How much can one tolerate her crap?! 😡



Radha, however bad she is right now, actually had a lot of sense to know and understand people before. She correctly nailed Rashi, Urmi and Koki and was shouted down for speaking the truth🥱
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Posted: 11 years ago
#12
😃 Personally Speaking 😃
😃 😃 😃 Kokila Said Something Like She Cannot Forget Whatever Her Issue Towards Gopi And The Incident 😃
😃 I Do Tend To Say Something Like That 😆 😃 It Is Very Difficult For Me To Forget Things Easily 😆 😆 😃 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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My take

the not entering mandir , kitchen r NOW . After she took a decision to leave . Had she stayed back at that time Kokila would have just stopped talking to her on a private level , taken retirement from house managing as she has , not prayed to God on a private level .

From her view , not only did Gopi cause the fatal accident partially , she also chose to leave . To top that she did not inform them of the second pregnancy . For 8 YRS .

Now her anger has increased .

Had Gopi stayed on and handled her private naraazgi Kokila would not have interfered in the daily chores of Gopi , she would have restricted to not forgiving her privately bas .

But there was zero level of tolerance of private grudges from sensitive Gopi's side who preferred to walk away after one blame .


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Posted: 11 years ago
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what she fails to forget both her and her dikra, Meera is Gopis child as well, she gave birth to her, she is living with guilt every day that Meera fell out of her hands. if they cant forget neither can gopi I cant wait for kokila and Ahem to witness gopi have a panic attack. Gopi is still suffering but due to vidya she is coping with it much better.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kools it does not look that way. It was not just once.. And even the flashbacks seem to indicate that Koki was angry with her from the time she stepped into MM after the picnic. We do not have the time it took Gopi to leave home.. Possibly before she started showing her pregnancy. So that is a large timeframe from the time she knew she was pregnant which seemed to be at its early stages.

As for Koki's grudge 8 years ago, her talk to Baa today seems to point otherwise. Baa specifically mentioned that it was understandable that Koki did not want anything to do with Gopi 8 years back which only indicates that Koki even then had started her 'punishment' which does include not to do anything and listen to being taunted day in and day out.

As I mentioned I do not think it is fair of Koki to want Gopi to have stayed after all that. This has nothing to do with Vidya.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Its not that she does not know that Meera is her child too . She is anything but a stupid woman . For her , that doesn't make her grief any less thats all .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Kools it does not look that way. It was not just once.. And even the flashbacks seem to indicate that Koki was angry with her from the time she stepped into MM after the picnic. We do not have the time it took Gopi to leave home.. Possibly before she started showing her pregnancy. So that is a large timeframe from the time she knew she was pregnant which seemed to be at its early stages.

As for Koki's grudge 8 years ago, her talk to Baa today seems to point otherwise. Baa specifically mentioned that it was understandable that Koki did not want anything to do with Gopi 8 years back which only indicates that Koki even then had started her 'punishment' which does include not to do anything and listen to being taunted day in and day out.

As I mentioned I do not think it is fair of Koki to want Gopi to have stayed after all that. This has nothing to do with Vidya.


no , these r mere assumptions . Facts shown in serial r , a blame game took place after coming from horror spot , Gopi accepted , turned her heel and left , never to be heard of again . Baa's talk with Koki only shows that her private grudge is a knot that will perhaps never go . Its realistic that way , deaths do bring permanent grudges . For Koki to start any punishment Gopi never stayed back . And as i see it , its not punishment from her side , she simply does not want to do anything personally with her anymore thats all . The common link is Vidya and that part Koki has accepted and she wants only that part to be remembered , nothing more . Thats how i see it .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Those are assumptions too Kools. Baa did specifically say today that Koki had been punishing Gopi from that moment and it is time to move on. I understand that the punishment is the same perhaps more severe because of the grief and anger involved.

As for Gopi just walking out after the first set of accusations, its not true. When Hetal and Baa asked Gopi to stay this time, Hetal mentioned how 8 years back Gopi would surely have felt that neither Koki nor Ahem wanted nothing to do with her but that they may perhaps still love her somewhere beneath their hate.

The above facts do confirm that Gopi just did not walk out due to a sudden whim. she did so because she was subjected to severe abuse from her near ones which was termed as punishment.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1



I hope so😆 This pride is exactly why I don't want Gopi to forgive Koki easily when the truth comes out. 8 years and more and a sorry does not make it even🥱


It's good that gopi can answer back calmly to koki!!! Prolly it's shocking koki deep inside!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Kokila was in the early days and has now become so blinkered Harini that she sees only HER son, HIS pain, HIS obedience and her situation. Perish the thought that Gopi should be allowed to grieve or gain any sympathy. For Koki it is her who lost her granddaughter, her son who lost his daughter ... As for everyone else? Woh gaye tel lene. They had no input, no rights and no consideration in Kokila's domain.

Hey Xari how r u ? 🤗... totally... not even Gopi... Meera did not matter to Gopi as per Kokila.. that's totally stupid of her to think that... Gopi lost her child, what is she going thru , as a mother Koki does not understand Gopi's pain... it is so hurting...

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