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Originally posted by: Ichangedit

You might want to get your facts right. I wasn't part of the CC you are meaning here and I never asked for an apology. I apologised because I wanted to do so. You don't want to accept that, that is fine. I never bashed Giaa in anyway. I have said that I support her in whatever she does. I wished her all the best for her future may that lie withing SNS or without.

What gives you the right to say that I have only fake respect to give? You don't know me. Hell we haven't even spoken or chatted with another before this and you think you have the right to judge me? alone the fact that you addressed me as Ichangedit and not with my real name is prove of that. Because I have told everyone from day one to call me by it. Yes I said that navyab lost some of my respect for her. Because I always thought she is a person, who can look reasonable on a situation and view it from both sides. But she didn't do so ever in regards to this affair as far as I can tell. She has only put the blame on the other side, which I haven't done. I accept that we all made mistakes and we all created the new forum atmosphere.

Lastly it is my right to defend myself, if I feel attacked. That has nothing to do with fighting and I wouldn't talk about being good in starting fights, if i myself do that often enough as well. You don't like me fine, don't like me. I never expected everyone to like me anyway but don't judge me if you don't know me. And just in case you want to go on about being a silent reader for a long time that still does not qualify you as a person, who knows me.

Ok Kirstin...I ask you what is that you want me 2 see from the other aspect !!! Please highlight it to me & I would also want to see it from the other end !!!

Dear Megusta.,, Please don't act over smart. You are not a super intelligent person, and i am not a stupid. There in no need for you to change my mentality. If you are over smart person,then,keep it with you. Don't use big, big words, like ""MENTALITY, THIS AND THAT"". I don't have any problem with my mentality.

Originally posted by: Giafan

Dear Megusta.,, Please don't act over smart. You are not a super intelligent person, and i am not a stupid. There in no need for you to change my mentality. If you are over smart person,then,keep it with you. Don't use big, big words, like ""MENTALITY, THIS AND THAT"". I don't have any problem with my mentality.

Atleast i will never need your help to change my mentality.

And, on top of that, I told you already, in our Giaa thread, we are maintaining our basic decency. Then, why are you digging me, By saying, that we also bash you guys? What is your problem? If you want to have fun in the forum, then i am not the person for that. Sorry. I don't take all the matters, jovial all the time.

Originally posted by: Giafan

Dear Megusta.,, Please don't act over smart. You are not a super intelligent person, and i am not a stupid. There in no need for you to change my mentality. If you are over smart person,then,keep it with you. Don't use big, big words, like ""MENTALITY, THIS AND THAT"". I don't have any problem with my mentality.

Atleast i will never need your help to change my mentality.

And, on top of that, I told you already, in our Giaa thread, we are maintaining our basic decency. Then, why are you digging me, By saying, that we also bash you guys? What is your problem? If you want to have fun in the forum, then i am not the person for that. Sorry. I don't take all the matters, jovial all the time. If you talk something irrelevant, I will talk more irrelevant than you. I hope , that you will understand, what i am trying to say.

Originally posted by: SNS_fan101

agree.. well said

but guys lets not start any more fights.. these people started enough already..

REPORTED the thread..

REPORTED THE THREAD

Originally posted by: navyab

Ok Kirstin...I ask you what is that you want me 2 see from the other aspect !!! Please highlight it to me & I would also want to see it from the other end !!!

Navyab I simply have not the engery or the time to do that. Also it wouldn't bring anything. If you yourself didn't see the bashing or insensetive posts then I am sorry me stating the facts again will not change anything. If you are really interested you would look yourself.

All I can say is that I have been greatly disappointed by some people of 'your side'. My feelings haven't been hurt but that is a near impossible to achieve on a forum by people I properly never will meet. Only these persons here, who I shared my personal infos with could do so. However I am done with pointing fingers at people. This means that it obviously didn't all come from one side

Originally posted by: navyab

Aris well I heard another saying...any physical would gets healed with or without leaving a scar but the words leave an everlasting memory either good or bad !!!! Again why is that one segments expressing feelings is fine & other's is not ???? One gets to make a choice...one does not get to choose the consequences of that choice !!! The choice was made by hurting people then if people are staying away from the forum, thats the consequence of the choice made !!!

Navya, I am sorry if my comments hurt you. I apologize for my thoughtlessness. As I said I am not in your shoes so I am not sure how you feel. Maybe I don't have a right to say anything on this matter, so these are my last comments in this thread.

I understand that cruel words do have the capability of inflicting pain, but by giving those words the power to hurt us, we are being victims to those words. I agree with you completely that we all have the right to express our opinion on this open forum. Actually, it is good you are expressing your feelings as I already said. This may look like adding fuel to the fire to some, but I think it keeps the communication lines open and gets rid of misunderstandings if there are any. You have every right to voice your feelings.

Again, I apologize if there is anything I have said that seems inappropriate/insensitive to any of the members here.