Wow the SNS chaskameter ranking comes & the apology posts keep coming. Well all I can think is to keep the SNS forum in the Top 10 & nothing more !!!
Why cant I feel the in depth feelings of the person who have written the posts? Why are the apologies not being accepted? Why do people see an ulterior moto in the posts !!!
When US decided to bomb Hiroshima & Nagasaki, they never though about the consequences. They were on a rampage & did not think about anything other than getting Japan into their control. The end result was human destruction which the effects are seen even till date.Im using this example not to say that human destruction had happened, but yes destruction of relationships has happened when the situation was volatile on the forum. If US could have hesitated for a second, history would have been different. Till date have the citizens of these locations have forgiven US for destroying their lives? Has US ever been able to move itself away from being involved in this?
When the situation was volatile, all it required some people to handle the situation sensitively. All it required people to use selective reading. All it required people not to comment on posts which they did not agree. But no, we had a select few who just wanted the forum to follow what they wanted to follow. Every post made was commented by this group to such an effect that the owner of the post regretted ever coming on to the forum. No other posts were allowed except what they wanted to be on the forum. People supporting Gia or planning anything in her support were asked to leave as the forum no longer belonged to them. People were recommended for being banned as they spoke about Gia & any post made was a spam for them. If it was not for the Yuks post, the few who are still on the forum would have also not been here because of them.
You wanted to discuss only about SNS, only about Dev, SNS was more than only Gia, today the forum is the way you had wanted, why are you apologising , for what. You should be proud of yourself for what you have achieved. šš You can see posts only on the story, only on characters on the forum now. Excellent is it & not to forget with the members of similar thoughts !!! Acc to you, the forum overruled everything so why is the forum slowly started to move into oblivion !!!
Posts were made to use selective reading & have some patience, you converted these posts into mockery posts. After Yuks post, we kept highlighting asking you to leave the posts which you did not believe in, comments such as boundaries, east & west etc were made !!! So today an apology post looks so superficial to what everything was done on the forum. The apology looks like a mockery of all the people who left the forum because of how they were treated. The apology does not touch the emotions of the people who vowed not to comeback because of how they were treated by your behaviour.
@ Munni -- At one point of time, I had respect for you & the posts you had made in the past. But after seeing your actual thoughts on the posts in the last few days, this is not someone I knew. The aplology post you made does not bring in an ounce of respect I had for you. Reflect back & if you can bring back one person who has left the forum on how the group had treated then maybe the apology will make sense on why it was written !!!
@ Kirstin -- Let me remember, you were the one of the few members on the forum, who could not hold for a day & kept asking for posts on SNS & requesting Mods to close all other posts. When the emotions of people were high, you could not have held on for a day or 2. If such posts are made when people were still coming to understand that Gia was replaced, it was bound to reflect on the comments they make on these posts & it did. For them it looked like the emotions they were going thru during difficult times was not important to the forum members who they had thought as family members for long.
@ few of the others-- Im not even wasting post space !!!
Every member on the forum had spent time day in & out & bonded together as a family, as one unit, so when the situation was tough, a mockery made on what they were feeling , broke the bond which held all of us together. I had been lucky to have friends on the forum, who wrote to me either thru posts or PMs to help me stay back.
As Ahem till date does not realise how deep is the hurt his wife is carrying , Im sure you do not even know the pain of the members who no longer comment, who no longer come, who no longer associate themselves with the SNS forum anymore !!! The forum had space for everyone but due to what has happened, today only some are left !!!
I do not regret for this long rant of my feelings. I have written what I felt !!! If people want to close this , please do so !!!