For all the apology posts @ My Response !!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wow the SNS chaskameter ranking comes & the apology posts keep coming. Well all I can think is to keep the SNS forum in the Top 10 & nothing more !!!
Why cant I feel the in depth feelings of the person who have written the posts? Why are the apologies not being accepted? Why do people see an ulterior moto in the posts !!!
When US decided to bomb Hiroshima & Nagasaki, they never though about the consequences. They were on a rampage & did not think about anything other than getting Japan into their control. The end result was human destruction which the effects are seen even till date.Im using this example not to say that human destruction had happened, but yes destruction of relationships has happened when the situation was volatile on the forum. If US could have hesitated for a second, history would have been different. Till date have the citizens of these locations have forgiven US for destroying their lives? Has US ever been able to move itself away from being involved in this?
When the situation was volatile, all it required some people to handle the situation sensitively. All it required people to use selective reading. All it required people not to comment on posts which they did not agree. But no, we had a select few who just wanted the forum to follow what they wanted to follow. Every post made was commented by this group to such an effect that the owner of the post regretted ever coming on to the forum. No other posts were allowed except what they wanted to be on the forum. People supporting Gia or planning anything in her support were asked to leave as the forum no longer belonged to them. People were recommended for being banned as they spoke about Gia & any post made was a spam for them. If it was not for the Yuks post, the few who are still on the forum would have also not been here because of them.
You wanted to discuss only about SNS, only about Dev, SNS was more than only Gia, today the forum is the way you had wanted, why are you apologising , for what. You should be proud of yourself for what you have achieved. šŸ‘šŸ‘ You can see posts only on the story, only on characters on the forum now. Excellent is it & not to forget with the members of similar thoughts !!! Acc to you, the forum overruled everything so why is the forum slowly started to move into oblivion !!!
Posts were made to use selective reading & have some patience, you converted these posts into mockery posts. After Yuks post, we kept highlighting asking you to leave the posts which you did not believe in, comments such as boundaries, east & west etc were made !!! So today an apology post looks so superficial to what everything was done on the forum. The apology looks like a mockery of all the people who left the forum because of how they were treated. The apology does not touch the emotions of the people who vowed not to comeback because of how they were treated by your behaviour.
@ Munni -- At one point of time, I had respect for you & the posts you had made in the past. But after seeing your actual thoughts on the posts in the last few days, this is not someone I knew. The aplology post you made does not bring in an ounce of respect I had for you. Reflect back & if you can bring back one person who has left the forum on how the group had treated then maybe the apology will make sense on why it was written !!!
@ Kirstin -- Let me remember, you were the one of the few members on the forum, who could not hold for a day & kept asking for posts on SNS & requesting Mods to close all other posts. When the emotions of people were high, you could not have held on for a day or 2. If such posts are made when people were still coming to understand that Gia was replaced, it was bound to reflect on the comments they make on these posts & it did. For them it looked like the emotions they were going thru during difficult times was not important to the forum members who they had thought as family members for long.
@ few of the others-- Im not even wasting post space !!!
Every member on the forum had spent time day in & out & bonded together as a family, as one unit, so when the situation was tough, a mockery made on what they were feeling , broke the bond which held all of us together. I had been lucky to have friends on the forum, who wrote to me either thru posts or PMs to help me stay back.
As Ahem till date does not realise how deep is the hurt his wife is carrying , Im sure you do not even know the pain of the members who no longer comment, who no longer come, who no longer associate themselves with the SNS forum anymore !!! The forum had space for everyone but due to what has happened, today only some are left !!!
I do not regret for this long rant of my feelings. I have written what I felt !!! If people want to close this , please do so !!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well done...Forum is for all and not for a particular group...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I would only say that the damage is already done and that too to a gr8 extent!!!!

I feel really sad because SNS forum lost itss essence that quality which attracted me to this forum and with the chaos overpowering I am bbetter of as silent member with less posts!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Such a great post. Navya.. Thanx a lot for staying with us. Once again you made us proud. When i write this post, i couldn't see my laptop screen. Tears didn't let me to see. I salute you. ā¤ļø. You said everything in your post, on behalf of us. Thank U
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well done, people who supported Gia are true supporters of SNS and all the casts. How the other group can say they are messing the forum...2 yrs they took the show to the heart and lived with it and if they have frustrations , surely this is the place for that...Supporting Dev , you think you are bringing justice to SP and PH...But don't forget you were also ones Gia's Fans and supported GINA . Now sudden change in your behaviour is up to you and not force it with others...
Gia's fans are in mourning stage due to loss of Gia as Gopi who lived in her character...First try to respect others feelings also...Even my family members were not settled in SNS after Gia's exit. Its true in most of the family and most of them watches it to see the return of Gia as Gopi and not for Dev and story...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ruddymole

Well done, people who supported Gia are true supporters of SNS and all the casts. How the other group can say they are messing the forum...2 yrs they took the show to the heart and lived with it and if they have frustrations , surely this is the place for that...Supporting Dev , you think you are bringing justice to SP and PH...But don't forget you were also ones Gia's Fans and supported GINA . Now sudden change in your behaviour is up to you and not force it with others...

Gia's fans are in mourning stage due to loss of Gia as Gopi who lived in her character...First try to respect others feelings also...Even my family members were not settled in SNS after Gia's exit. Its true in most of the family and most of them watches it to see the return of Gia as Gopi and not for Dev and story...

Well said.,šŸ‘
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You are right Navya, the forum is for all of us, not just for a few or for insulting. And I have missed your posts. We should all join force, and like I said, it's a show, so we stay like a family, where there are ups and downs and we try to adjust.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You know navyab I just lost a whole lot of respect I had for you!!

You know what I answered to your previous posts quite lenghty but I can't be bothered anymore because you will not read it and try to understand so why should I bother?

I have agreed to have made mistakes and apologised for them. You do not accept this apology. That is fine. As I have said in that post it is your decision. However this conflict was going in both directions. It takes two to tango as is the english saying and I would add Wer im Glashaus sitzt sollte nicht mit Steinen werfen (who sits in a glashouse shouldn't throw with stones) Think about what you have done and then come and complain about my behaviour. But seriously if you call my apology a mockery then you are simply wrong. And I said this on Munni's post as well. You simply don't know my thooughts and what stands behind my post so you shouldn't call it a drama. You don't have the right to do so.

In regards to your accusations I have been real friendly and reasonable at the beginning of the whole affair. I said that using only a few posts will make it easier for you to bring your message across and that it looks more impressive if there are posts with over 200 replies then to have 100 with about 3 replies each. Spamming is against the forum rules and therefore I don't feel bad about mentioning it.

And now I can't be bothered anymore
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Posted: 13 years ago
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navya i love your post.. i completely agree.. ive lost respect to those people when i saw their immature and rubbish comments.. i always thought these people were sensible, mature nice and understanding members of our forum.. but after reading, you know their little club.. i found out how they really are.. and why appologize when they are going to continue bashing and lose more respect for themselves ... and all in all i agree with ur points navya..
Edited by SNS_fan101 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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excellent post navya.šŸ‘..!you said everything on behalf of us..!thank you so much..!šŸ¤—

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