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Originally posted by: Giafan

This is a msg to Ichangedit, I have some friends in the forum, I call them affectionately, by their name. I am least bothered about others. Sorry, this is me. And this msg is for the great Megusta..,, You are saying, what , somebody in our group sends PM to you. well, I don't buy your story. sorry. Keep your sad story with you. Don't think you can trap me!! I told you, that you guys come in a package. You proved it, today., again. Great going.

Think what you want dear. I won't stop you and if you want to be paranoid about it have fun. However I don't mind you calling me Ichangedit but try not to put a this before, because that is used for inhuman things. However please deceide if you want to call me Ichangedit or Kristin because here you have done both now

Originally posted by: Ichangedit

You know navyab I just lost a whole lot of respect I had for you!!

You know what I answered to your previous posts quite lenghty but I can't be bothered anymore because you will not read it and try to understand so why should I bother?

I have agreed to have made mistakes and apologised for them. You do not accept this apology. That is fine. As I have said in that post it is your decision. However this conflict was going in both directions. It takes two to tango as is the english saying and I would add Wer im Glashaus sitzt sollte nicht mit Steinen werfen (who sits in a glashouse shouldn't throw with stones) Think about what you have done and then come and complain about my behaviour. But seriously if you call my apology a mockery then you are simply wrong. And I said this on Munni's post as well. You simply don't know my thooughts and what stands behind my post so you shouldn't call it a drama. You don't have the right to do so.

In regards to your accusations I have been real friendly and reasonable at the beginning of the whole affair. I said that using only a few posts will make it easier for you to bring your message across and that it looks more impressive if there are posts with over 200 replies then to have 100 with about 3 replies each. Spamming is against the forum rules and therefore I don't feel bad about mentioning it.

And now I can't be bothered anymore

Kirstin ...reality bites ..is it !!! ...were the people spamming for just fun ... I do not think so...They were posting because this was one place they could put in their feelings & this was one place for them to feel connected to one another to express being hurt !!! Well if you could have thought about those feelings atleast for a second then before putting in your request, today the apology you have extended would have meant a lot to us !!! Well the cost of some mistakes has been so high that people who were part of this forum are no longer there ...even if not for the story, they would have stayed back for the connect the forum had with all !!!

Originally posted by: Giafan

This is a msg to Ichangedit, I have some friends in the forum, I call them affectionately, by their name. I am least bothered about others. Sorry, this is me. And this msg is for the great Megusta..,, You are saying, what , somebody in our group sends PM to you. well, I don't buy your story. sorry. Keep your sad story with you. Don't think you can trap me!! I told you, that you guys come in a package. You proved it, today., again. Great going.

Originally posted by: gohem123

Navya, what happened is happened..No one can change it..but by posting all these and by naming them, you are also not helping either...Please use PM service if someone's posts hurts you...
Serial and CVs are making everything they can to keep us hurt, why don't we just make some posts about happy moments and cherish rather than creating distances...

Just my opinion...

What the hell is going on in the forums!Why are we wasting our time and taking side and arguing.

Originally posted by: tamzin43

i,m so tired of this bickering// fighting going on... what the h*ll has happened here...we are all at each other throats ..we cannot even give are pov without hurting someone's feelings.. everybody has become touchy feely... one word out of place and all h*ll breaks loose

@Navyab and Giafan please stop yourself from argueing with anyone in this forum...

Originally posted by: aris22l

Navya, I am not disagreeing with anything you are saying, but I implore you to please be calm. I understand you have been hurt deeply. A lot of damage was done and what's done some times can not be erased. We still have to move on. It may be easy for me to say this because I am not in your shoes, but please step back and give yourself some time to heal. There is a saying - "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." Please forget those thoughtless words and give yourself a chance to come out of this pain you are feeling.

I am glad you made this post because it is giving you a chance to voice your feelings no matter how painful it may be for you or the others. If people feel the need to apologize, please let them. That makes them feel better about the hurt they caused. At least this way, we can keep talking. I may be wrong but talking about our hurts may help us get over this whole fiasco.

Originally posted by: navyab

Kirstin ...reality bites ..is it !!! ...were the people spamming for just fun ... I do not think so...They were posting because this was one place they could put in their feelings & this was one place for them to feel connected to one another to express being hurt !!! Well if you could have thought about those feelings atleast for a second then before putting in your request, today the apology you have extended would have meant a lot to us !!! Well the cost of some mistakes has been so high that people who were part of this forum are no longer there ...even if not for the story, they would have stayed back for the connect the forum had with all !!!

Well since you asked me what have I done sitting in the glass house...when the chaotic condition was on...I became selective in reading & posting on things what I believe on...I did say that I miss Gia for she bought life to the character, but I did not backlash or use a single demeaning word against the Dev...I tried being silent when one group around was bashing people, when it was beyond a point, I made a post asking why is everyone judging others as the forum has space for all...well in some posts I tried to move people away when the ideologies did not meet...and since the forum did not want us, I moved on to the chat thread to catch & exchange views with friends over there !!!

I give up navyab you just don't get me but well you don't have to either so whatever. I haven't done anything intentionally and seriously if a request to keep by the forum organised hurts anyone then I am sorry but I am not getting it. At the time I made the post I actually was thinking about doing a little more to support the campaigne then just signing the petitions but the campaigners have put me off it real fast

You might have not used an obvious damning word but seriously the posts you were talking about and this post is just putting the blame on the other side. Pointing fingers and trying to make others look bad. You talked about being sensitive against I would do so as well first

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i agree with bhavya kristin was not bashing anyone for the other people they now what they did .