competition of confidence between Gopi and Anita !

Anita has full confidence that Ahem still loves her though she has no confidence for winning.That is why she is cheating not only to win but makes sure that Gopi loses.

Nice post. I too cant understand y cvs r putting gopi to doubt on ahem. She should remember ahems words that he wants anita to be settled soon so that they can go back to their normal. I think they should make gopi to have confidence in herself that she is the best for ahem. In recent times, ahem has given plentiful examples to show his love for gopi like hurting himself to save gopi from broken vase, wearing gopi gifted shirt, asking for her wishing, feeding her cake, hugging her, telling her y he talks to anita as nilesh, etc.etc.etc. I think gopi should think about this for at least once. By making this to happen i this it will be more gud n interesting to watch this competition as gopi will win in her own honest ways showing anita her place.

Originally posted by: svtsns

Nice post. I too cant understand y cvs r putting gopi to doubt on ahem. She should remember ahems words that he wants anita to be settled soon so that they can go back to their normal. I think they should make gopi to have confidence in herself that she is the best for ahem. In recent times, ahem has given plentiful examples to show his love for gopi like hurting himself to save gopi from broken vase, wearing gopi gifted shirt, asking for her wishing, feeding her cake, hugging her, telling her y he talks to anita as nilesh, etc.etc.etc. I think gopi should think about this for at least once. By making this to happen i this it will be more gud n interesting to watch this competition as gopi will win in her own honest ways showing anita her place.

i too was wondering when there was one hour left

not a bad post. . but for ur bold bit on GOpi. . . I dont agree to that whooly. . . . each time GOpi has though herself of even being worthy of standing up to Ahem's expectation. . life has always been cruel to her. . . .

each time she thingks she got his loev::: it all came shattering down on her. . . .

Ahem comparing her with Anita. . big mistake. . . . Ahem's two frank yeesses... a man of few words. . . . he at that time he said "yes, but I am lucky to be married to Goppi" that wud be enough . . .Gopi confidence wud be out of the roof. . . .

and these little things.. . .. how can she take this as love. . . well. . why do we expect her to. . . coz we love the GOhem scene? coz we think. . she just shud coz its really true love??? I agree its true love. . .but why shud she think of it that way?? each time she does its shattered upon her. . . lifes played a cruel game on her each turn. . .

every time her hopes rise they come back crashing down. . .

and yet we expect her to cum on AHem benig soo expressive with his actiosn . .just accept its true love. . .sorry, , ,but I dont agree:::: This is the same DAMNED Ahem who in the dark days was inhumanely being RAW honest. . . with Actions and MORE PRECICELY WITH WORDS. . . where are the loving words then???? to GOpi????

enough of action. . . .its always backfired on poor Gopi. . . HOli biggest example. . . what is the self respect of a woman who gives her self to her husband . .only for her husband to wake up and say he forgot eevrything::: For god sake... . . . . and yet we expect her to jsut accept true love exists out of the actison

we expect her to take in the true loev. . . and hande herselt to Ahem and as usuall make everything easy for him:::: SORRY. . .but NO>. .. . I want her to misundetstand him more ::: and bl;ast him for even comeing close to her. . .that will get his bateries out of dummy mode and get them thinking only ABout GOpi and ONL:Y GOPi. . . then he can reciprocate his feelingsd in PRECISE WORDS and ACTIOns COmbined./ ./ . .But after loads of suffering:::;I dont want GOpi to accept his love too easy this time ROUND:: I've had ENOUGH . . .ENOUGH. . . of him getting things too easy and as per his expectation. . .. .

he shouds at her without notice:: apologises later. . . fnie::: but for got sake, , ,how many times. . shout, then apologise. .expect forgiveness . . nooo. . . Rashi did gud by delaying Gopi and making silent treatment last:: but Rashi has gone too far with it now. .. it might realyl backfire. . .

sorry. . . but from teh start of this track . .I have always prayed for AHem to do mthe massiev ehavy lifting , more suffering.. .and be the primary source of STRENGTH for GOpi. . .and whatever way . . that has really not happened. . . .its ended in him shattering Gopi without even knowing. . . his Over concern form Anita is still intact. . . OVER CONCERN. . .i dont mind concern. . .but its going too over the top now. . . whatever GOpi ahs done so far is actualyl too much to ask for:: she has shown immencse strength from the start. . and even said that she trusts him completely. . . .verging on 100% blind trust:::. .. . . Ahem needs to take steps to prove himself too of a worthy husband. . .. he considers himself lucky to have GOpi as his wife. . . ne needs to stand up to his expectations. . and due to all the dak past and whateevr . . .Gopi's all expectations have been squeezed out of life. . . what is she fighting for. . .. now?? ? isnt it confidence that she still ahs some hope?? she has tru denial in her heart ath AHem does not love Anita. . . that was evident what Rashi was teling GOpi of Ahem anita past. . and GOpi said NO. . in her own way. . . .

sorry for my rant. . . i think i have gone too over the top. . but hope u get what i am trying to say. . .

FInal quote:: Dabangg, Sonakshi Sinha line:: "Thapar se dar nahi lagta sahab, pyar se lagta he" AND THAT IS WHAT APLIES TO GOPI . . . lol , , ,in a way ::: scared of even hoping its love. . .coz each time she has been hopefull . ,, fate has played cruel games on her. . . AHem can get rid of that FEAR. . .but needs to be precise. . .and right. . and not typical . . . such tiny gestures arre not enough . . . need more crystal clear signs + definitive confession . . and definitive past closure. . . once that happens. . .AHem being involved to largest extent. . Gopi confidence thats always been inside her. . that fear of love/ feeling love existswill completely transform into COnfidence that will have no bounds./ .

Originally posted by: gohemmania

i too was wondering when there was one hour left

how did anithamanage to bring all the food items

can we consider it as a blooper

Nice post, the fact Anita was never in the kitchen all afternoon and evening is proof she didn't prepare the dinner, as you said she needs to ask people in the house where to find everything, also the rest of the house must have gone to the kitchen as we saw Kokila going and finding Gopi making the tea for everyone when they come from work, therefore, where did Anita make the dinner? It should be obvious to everyone that she ordered the food from the restaurant.

Vinder, nice analysis. we all want that Ahem should suffer.If gopi has no confidence, I