u know today's epi was really very heart wrenching - Page 2

Originally posted by: Xarina

Indeed. Gopi is truly taken for granted. She is just there's as a glorified servant. The only difference is is that she is given the title of Modi Bahu or Mrs Gopi Ahem Modi to sweeten the pill. Please forgive me if I am speaking out of turn but every serial seems to show the dils working their fingers to the bone while the daughters seem to do jack s**t! 😡 Even in MM we don't see the dils sitting and eating round the table at the same time like normal people do.

And while I am on a rant, sorry, what do the MM women do all day. Surely housework does not take all friggin day? I would be bored out my mind.

you are absoultely right. dil are always taken for granted.
i felt sorry for gopi. koki might be doing this to toughen up gopi, but since it is gopi she is bearing all this. if this had been rashi urmi would had created a racket.

as for the household works. well it will take a whole day for sure. i have personal experience in it for 6mnths i was at home.
get up early, get milk, fill water, prepare coffee, tea, prepare breakfast, sent hubby to office,again get lunch ready, wash clothes, clean the house, wash vessels. by the time it will be evening, do pooja, get tea snacks ready, get ready for night dinner.
in between go shoping by essentials. all the while my in laws used to sit at home watch tv and point out mistakes and if possible create a fight between me and hubby.
this is hw the world runs

by the end of next week or two if article is to be believed Rashi will be thrown out now this will be done by the wacko herself so as to get hinderance out of her path dat is rashi!!!!! now this will be further followed by Gopi's breakdown but the lets see what happens but yes Ahem's behaviour in actions is making everything complicated for sure.

Abbay, you are so right. Haven't seen the epi, but just reading the updates was enough.

Just imagine. The night before her husband compares her with his ex and today, the ex is in his arms crying all over him. The whole family rallies around the other woman while no one pays attention to the vahu to check how she is feeling. They only remember her when they need someone to make tea and get snacks. The husband who is scared to even tap on her shoulder (we saw during the pandit war) in public is OK with his ex hugging him?

Why Kokila didn't point to Hetal to go stand next to Gopi vahu? Is this the way to make her strong? Goad her to speak up and what can she say at this time? Anita behn, stop crying and get away from my husband. Wouldn't that sound callous at this time? There is a time and place for all this. Kokila is paving way for her to either have a nervous break down or leave the house or even raise a voice against herself. Watch out Kokila. You are waking a sleeping tiger.

Xarina, despite all their wealth, the Modis can't even afford to have full time servants. They make everything at home. Everyday they have spices drying on the roof. That means they need to grind them. They make pickles on their own. They make their own snacks and mithais. Nothing from outside. Now, I know how they entertain. The son has to buy a video and have popcorn in his room to watch a movie. Can't go out. They don't even go out to eat. No gifts are given. What a family! Why do they even need all this money if they don't spend it.