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navyab

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: abbay
u know every time u wrote "HIS LOVE ANITA" my heart broke into 1000 pieces!!!! awesome analysis but It was this😭 for me

Abbay it broke my heart much deeper as I wrote my series today ...but today's episode showed an Ahem who is pained by seeing Anitha moving away from him !!!

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navyab

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: varshu27
great post navya...but i dont agree with u that ahem thinks of anitha as his love...he is just confused when his past has appeared before him...there might be feelings of guilt and sadness and anger...but it is gopi he truly loves...i agree i hate seeing him this way ...but the fact remains that he never had an opportunity to think consciously about gopi and his feelings for her...in fact as the track progresses he will realise what gopi means to him...i hate the look he gives anitha in the precap too...and maybe he has taken gopi for granted...but thats why a separation from gopi will work wonders and we can get to see ahem fighting for gopi...

Well I disagree Varshu...he had all the time in the world to think about his marriage & his changed feelings for her...she tugs his heart, makes him go week on his knees, her smile brightens his day & her happiness is all it matters & if he has not thought about on why all of this is happening to him ...then he was never there in the relationship & was just moving with time !!! Love is not something which you plan & fall in...you fall in love & then plan your life ahead...Ahem fell in love with Anitha & planned his life ahead which did not work & dreams broken especially ones where you had dreamt of loving all your life will always hold you ransom on what you missed out in life !!!!

That also does not mean he takes Gopi granted, his sorry on the day after Holi & today also showed he has moved far away from taking her granted & he genuinely cares for her...well now what is this care & how much does he care for his past & present is what will be intresting to watch !!!

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navyab

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: ShaunSA
Navya. Good analysis. But i am with varshu on this one. Aham does not love anita. He just has not allowed himself to deal with his past. Now it is right in front of him and he is dazed and confused. But if you have any doubts about who he love watch his face when he apologises to gopi!

Shaun remember Ahem loved Anitha dearly & wanted to spend his life with her & if his mom had not insisted on Gopi, he would have done that...agree maybe he did not deal with his past & locked it up but now it is open he is going thru a gamut of emotions...he is looking at the missed love but all in this the only person who is keeping him sane is his wife Gopi & hence when her name was taken it was the only thing which registered & when he realised he hurt her, he immediately got up to apologise to her !!! So lets wait & watch what & why is he feeling so & where does it leave his relationship with Gopi !!!

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ANJ4

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Thanks for the analysis ... No comment

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navyab

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: _Precious_
Liked your analysis Navya. But today I am on two sides on your interpretation of Ahem's feelings for Anita. I strongly believe that he let go of his feelings for Anita long ago, otherwise he would have got any flash backs or memories of the sweet times with her recently which haven't happened. He is frustrated with Anita's reappearance and confused abt how to deal with the situation of facing her again at the marriage function.

Precious, Ahem did have a flashback of 2 sets...one when he was happy with her sharing his love & at the sametime the way he moved on in life leaving his love to find away for herself !!! his heart is defienetly tugging him on what could have been his choice & his life is no more his now...agree he is confused because he never expected his past to come in front of him when he was all settled to finally claim his wife's love & share his love with her...everything is toppled along with it is his heart's deepest secrets...but at the same time Gopi is the calming influence on him & he cannot see her hurt especially by him...it now all depends on how he will react to the situation will decide his future course in life !!!

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navyab

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Nihira-fan
amazingly well written analysis!!haven't seen today's episode...not enjoying this track at all.😔

Thank you Nihira 😊 !!! Life is never the same it has it ups & downs, emotional upheavels & emotional burts & emotional joys...so thats what is happening now in Ahem's life ...difficult to accept but life still goes thru 😉😛 so lets just be there for one another & see how Ahem & Gopi's Journey takes them 😊 !!!

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navyab

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: ANJ4
Thanks for the analysis ... No comment

Thank you Anju 😊 ...🤗 hope this hug makes you feel better...I know Im also miserable but them lets see how this journey goes thru 😊 !!!

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Hetal

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Awesome analysis Navya...👏😊

with no doubts i would say that Ahem now only love gopi...but then on one hand as his past has come in front of him...n on other hand he hasnt confess his feeling to gopi ...he is going through this dilemma...that now time has come that he need to be firm with the feeling with one one person...
he is trying to avoid the past at some point ...but he couldnt do so n now on top of that even he doesnt want to attend his ex-lover's wedding but then he has to...her what I thought that he was somewhere trying to accept the reality that as anita moved forward in her life...so he should also ...with forgetting the past...???

n ahem removing his frustation on gopi...here I would say that we sometime bi-mistake remove anger on r dear ones,as we feel they r only our's...so here we can say that ahem has accepted that gopi is only person along with koki who he loves the most

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jazz54321

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Navya your analysis is heart breaking to read 😭 ... but i do agree with you to some level.

Ahem is still in his world of what if - first her mendhi gets on his hands (if only i were her groom), now the weddn card has her name - this could have been the weddn card with my name on it..and now to top it he has to see her dressed as a gorgeous bride... - she could have been my bride!!

so yes, as much as he has moved on with Gopi, a bit of his heart/mind is still questioning him and leading him to move on to the path of if only i had chosen her over moms decision!

but again, he is well aware of Gopi being his wife and has very deep affectionate feelings towards her and therefore cannot allow himself to just storm his anger out at her without apologizing after in the most sincere manner.

⭐️ for you for being able to portray Ahems feelings in such a heart clenching way :)

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navyab

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Hetp
Awesome analysis Navya...👏😊

with no doubts i would say that Ahem now only love gopi...but then on one hand as his past has come in front of him...n on other hand he hasnt confess his feeling to gopi ...he is going through this dilemma...that now time has come that he need to be firm with the feeling with one one person...
he is trying to avoid the past at some point ...but he couldnt do so n now on top of that even he doesnt want to attend his ex-lover's wedding but then he has to...her what I thought that he was somewhere trying to accept the reality that as anita moved forward in her life...so he should also ...with forgetting the past...???

n ahem removing his frustation on gopi...here I would say that we sometime bi-mistake remove anger on r dear ones,as we feel they r only our's...so here we can say that ahem has accepted that gopi is only person along with koki who he loves the most

Agree Hetal...at this point he past love is tugging him but at the same time his wife & her feelings are also very important to him !!! The past has come blasting into his face & into his life & he is being pulled towards it ...he loved Anita with all his heart & yes there are dreams which he dream with her & now with her moving away it is a reality that those dreams will no more be there for him & that is breaking him up !!!

well Ahem knows subconciously that Gopi is his & will be his forever & thats the reason he takes his anger on her...but if you observe his behaviour has changed,...he no longer holds her responsible for the loss of his past dreams & he knows he has hurt her & reached out to her immd !!! He cares deeply for her & he cannot see her in pain & hurt...well Im dreading the day when he realises that because of him she left the house in pain...that will break him down completely !!!

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