Rashi can never love Jigar !!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: BlackSonic

Please dahbu...no divorce yaar...

Hum RaJi fans kaa kya hoga...hamara to dil he tot jaayga...😆

Rashi ki naa sahi...humari to socho yaar...😆

Divorce is just so final. Instead Jigar should send her on a journey of self realisation, support her on her trials and only take her back when she is worthy of him. Sort of like your ff Jigar me teen sawaal. That way if she truly wants it he will welcome her back and forgive her past deeds. I am thinking rebirth.

Well I wouldn't agree that Rashi never will love Jigar or that she isn't loving him a little already. I would more see it like Shilpa. Rashi is not thinking in the long term. She is not thinking that these actions she is taking to achieve her goal aka to be the queen of the house, have anything to do with her feelings for Jigar or that this will influence their relationship in anyway. To put it blundly she is being real stupid in the moment!!! Of course Jigar will be even angrier with her for daring to hurt his mother through splitting her friendship with Koki. He is a mama's boy the same as Ahem is. He has in the past put the feelings of his mother and family before his own, when he was not revealing the truth about how it came around that he was married to Rashi and not Sonal. But if he learns that this woman, who he had loved, who had broken his heart and then had sneaked into it again just to rip his family and heart apart again, has done then I am seeing dark times coming towards Rashi.

People might say that she is doing the whole family splitting part for Jigar's sake as well but how can that be true? Jigar is a family person. He loves his family. For him the union of his whole family is very important. He loves and respects his bhai, Kaki and kaka and he loved his bhabi. He might love his maa a little more but still seeing his family break apart will make him unhappy. He is happy with his current way of life. He is happy to do his best in the office and let Ahem and his father take the lead in the business so why change that? Just so that Rashi can fulfil her dream of being the queen of the house? she had been giving the responsibility which comes with this position before and didn't like it one bit so why is she making the same mistake again. I don't understand it.

I still got hope for her but to be honest in the moment I just want to shake her a little so that she opens her eyes looks around and sees the relatiy of the things she is doing right now. I feel if she would really look into the things she has been doing the past few weeks she would feel ashamed of herself. But until she is not freed from the poisoness influence of Urmi this is never gonna happen.

Originally posted by: d-luna88

Well I wouldn't agree that Rashi never will love Jigar or that she isn't loving him a little already. I would more see it like Shilpa. Rashi is not thinking in the long term. She is not thinking that these actions she is taking to achieve her goal aka to be the queen of the house, have anything to do with her feelings for Jigar or that this will influence their relationship in anyway. To put it blundly she is being real stupid in the moment!!! Of course Jigar will be even angrier with her for daring to hurt his mother through splitting her friendship with Koki. He is a mama's boy the same as Ahem is. He has in the past put the feelings of his mother and family before his own, when he was not revealing the truth about how it came around that he was married to Rashi and not Sonal. But if he learns that this woman, who he had loved, who had broken his heart and then had sneaked into it again just to rip his family and heart apart again, has done then I am seeing dark times coming towards Rashi.

People might say that she is doing the whole family splitting part for Jigar's sake as well but how can that be true? Jigar is a family person. He loves his family. For him the union of his whole family is very important. He loves and respects his bhai, Kaki and kaka and he loved his bhabi. He might love his maa a little more but still seeing his family break apart will make him unhappy. He is happy with his current way of life. He is happy to do his best in the office and let Ahem and his father take the lead in the business so why change that? Just so that Rashi can fulfil her dream of being the queen of the house? she had been giving the responsibility which comes with this position before and didn't like it one bit so why is she making the same mistake again. I don't understand it.

I still got hope for her but to be honest in the moment I just want to shake her a little so that she opens her eyes looks around and sees the relatiy of the things she is doing right now. I feel if she would really look into the things she has been doing the past few weeks she would feel ashamed of herself. But until she is not freed from the poisoness influence of Urmi this is never gonna happen.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Kristin.. I want to believe you..😕 But there is one thing that stops me from believing that Rashi ever will look beyond herself and love Jigar the way he deserves to be loved. As for her happiness, she is never and can never be happy. If it is money and power now, it will be position in society next and some other thing after that.. For Rashi, her happiness is measured in how miserable the others around her are. It is not about how much she already has to be happy about..

One other reason it is difficult for me to believe is that Rashi does not have a conscience. You talk about someone making her realize what is important in life. But to get to that realization you first need to have a conscience and an ability to recognize the right from the wrong.

For example, Even when she was exposed during the Sonal track, Rashi was more worried about not being in MB than thinking that she did wrong.

Her apologies were more because she thought that was what Jigar and the others wanted to hear than actually realizing her mistake. Eve after all that happened, not once did we see her saying that she has wronged Sonal.

She was more sorry for getting caught.. Another thought is that if a dying sister did not make her wake up to reality then what would?

Urmi's death will surely make a difference.. 😉I guess.. But other than that I cannot see any other way Rashi will even start to listen to others on how much evil she has become..

Originally posted by: navyab

I will say this because the same person whom she was showing concern & fussing on him because of fever till few minutes back was no more important than the money & the position she will get in the house. Her heart & her goal are placed at things other than her husband & his family , I will say his family because she is playing with the emotions of her MIL without any consideration for her !!!

When the partner is sick I will quote the example of Gohem, even when they were not on good terms , Ahem still took care of Gopi example being the 1st Diwali...he was mad at Gopi at those times but even then he took care of her, he did not call his mom or others to take care of her, ensured she had medicines late in the night. Similarly even thou Gopi new that Ahem will not like her taking care of him, she still took care of him when he was suffering from cold during the painting of the house during Kinjle's wedding...she could have avoided him saying he will not like it or wake her MIL to take care of him, she did not ...latter on whenever they were sick , hurt or had an accident they supported each other & the partner who was suffering their comfort was important for them...

Compare this to Rashi who after everything still happily spoke to her mom without any concern...if not for anyone she claims that Jigar is important to her so atleast for him & his comfort !!! One kalakaari less will not put Rashi on backfoot in dividing the house !!! Im very sure now that for Rashi nothing more than love of money & position is important...rest others will be considered if they fall as part of the plan !!!!

u r absolutely right navyab the incidents of gohem mentioned by you really sets them apart..there was always this strong bond and will continue to be for both of them...they were destined to be together and will continue to be...👏..ur post makes me feel better after those stupid kalakaries

i agree that Rashi is mean, heartless and selfcentered but at the same time I do believe her first love is fame, power, wealth, laziness, manipulation, torture ( all in one) then love for humans last. Even if she lovesJigar, she want to acquire him like you buy toys rather let her heart talk how it felt

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Kristin.. I want to believe you..😕 But there is one thing that stops me from believing that Rashi ever will look beyond herself and love Jigar the way he deserves to be loved. As for her happiness, she is never and can never be happy. If it is money and power now, it will be position in society next and some other thing after that.. For Rashi, her happiness is measured in how miserable the others around her are. It is not about how much she already has to be happy about..

One other reason it is difficult for me to believe is that Rashi does not have a conscience. You talk about someone making her realize what is important in life. But to get to that realization you first need to have a conscience and an ability to recognize the right from the wrong.

For example, Even when she was exposed during the Sonal track, Rashi was more worried about not being in MB than thinking that she did wrong.

Her apologies were more because she thought that was what Jigar and the others wanted to hear than actually realizing her mistake. Eve after all that happened, not once did we see her saying that she has wronged Sonal.

She was more sorry for getting caught.. Another thought is that if a dying sister did not make her wake up to reality then what would?

Urmi's death will surely make a difference.. 😉I guess.. But other than that I cannot see any other way Rashi will even start to listen to others on how much evil she has become..

😆 You know I am not the biggest fan of Rashi. I more of became sort of a fan of hers because in the end she will end up with my Jigarle and I just want the person he ends with be positive!! Because he deserves that!!

But to the things you said. It isn't true that Rashi doesn't have a conscience. She does has one but her mother has manipulated and shaped her so well in her own image 🤢 that this conscience has a hard time coming through to her. However there have been glimpses of it. As I said I am not the biggest Rashi fan but let me try to remember some of them. Well at the time of Gopi's birthday she did feel bad about it even though the idiot didn't act up on it. Then lets jump to the track in which she was kicked out. It is true what you said at the beginning she didn't apologise because she felt sorry but she wasn't without a conscience either. She did tell the truth to the police and she did not want to paster the Modis anylonger after a while. Also she seemed to miss Jigar the person as well. And right after coming back she did tell her mother that she should feel grateful that the Modis took her back after all she did. However her mothers poison soon worked on her again.

So don't get me wrong I don't like at all what this girl is doing right now but I do think that there is something good within her, which could be brought to light. Maybe through locking her in a tiny flat with Koki for a month or two 😆 my koki sure would be able to sort her out, if she is given free reign and if Rashi had no means to contact the outside world!!!

Originally posted by: d-luna88

😆 You know I am not the biggest fan of Rashi. I more of became sort of a fan of hers because in the end she will end up with my Jigarle and I just want the person he ends with be positive!! Because he deserves that!!

But to the things you said. It isn't true that Rashi doesn't have a conscience. She does has one but her mother has manipulated and shaped her so well in her own image 🤢 that this conscience has a hard time coming through to her. However there have been glimpses of it. As I said I am not the biggest Rashi fan but let me try to remember some of them. Well at the time of Gopi's birthday she did feel bad about it even though the idiot didn't act up on it. Then lets jump to the track in which she was kicked out. It is true what you said at the beginning she didn't apologise because she felt sorry but she wasn't without a conscience either. She did tell the truth to the police and she did not want to paster the Modis anylonger after a while. Also she seemed to miss Jigar the person as well. And right after coming back she did tell her mother that she should feel grateful that the Modis took her back after all she did. However her mothers poison soon worked on her again.

So don't get me wrong I don't like at all what this girl is doing right now but I do think that there is something good within her, which could be brought to light. Maybe through locking her in a tiny flat with Koki for a month or two 😆 my koki sure would be able to sort her out, if she is given free reign and if Rashi had no means to contact the outside world!!!

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Kristin.. I want to believe you..😕 But there is one thing that stops me from believing that Rashi ever will look beyond herself and love Jigar the way he deserves to be loved. As for her happiness, she is never and can never be happy. If it is money and power now, it will be position in society next and some other thing after that.. For Rashi, her happiness is measured in how miserable the others around her are. It is not about how much she already has to be happy about..

One other reason it is difficult for me to believe is that Rashi does not have a conscience. You talk about someone making her realize what is important in life. But to get to that realization you first need to have a conscience and an ability to recognize the right from the wrong.

For example, Even when she was exposed during the Sonal track, Rashi was more worried about not being in MB than thinking that she did wrong.

Her apologies were more because she thought that was what Jigar and the others wanted to hear than actually realizing her mistake. Eve after all that happened, not once did we see her saying that she has wronged Sonal.

She was more sorry for getting caught.. Another thought is that if a dying sister did not make her wake up to reality then what would?

Urmi's death will surely make a difference.. 😉I guess.. But other than that I cannot see any other way Rashi will even start to listen to others on how much evil she has become..

Agree Harini all the points you bought up...Rashi needs something materialistic in life to keeping going forward...let it be money, position at home, society etc...forget dying sister ...if a sick husband & a sick mother cannot wake up the conscious then I do not think what can wake that up...Urmi death will make no difference to Rashi...the only person who will cry for Urmi will be Gopi !!!😡