What do you think makes a worthy wife for Ahem?

Kokila wasn't happy with the sandook going to Rashi, because she believes Gopi is the better bahu, we all know this is the case too, with Naani's explanation, she resolved to reconcile GoHam (relinquishing her tight fist on Aham to Gopi), because she suddenly had her eyes open, they even showed a scene afterwards (when Naani told her of Aham not accepting Gopi), the scene was in the hall, Gopi asked to carry the laptop and he told her she will put it in the washing machine, she told him no she knows better now and will not be repeating the washing of the laptop incident, and he refused and stormed off angrily, Kokila was observing all this, again in Switzerland on the veranda of the chalet, the khadar, he said this is bitter and my life has become like this ever since you came into my life I have only darkness, if this was Hetal, she would immediately want them to split, not so with Kokila, she is sure Gopi is the right wife for Aham (I agree with her, no other girl would tolerate his abuse the way Gopi does). Also look at Aham when he saw Rashi change into Western clothes he didn't like it, he doesn't like overspending at all, he was getting annoyed with shopping, site seeing that Rashi wanted to do, well modern girls he thinks he likes, love to do these type of things, so I think Gopi is the right wife for him, also his mum, which modern girl could stand for her domination in the home and of Aham.

she should be bold and wise