What do you think makes a worthy wife for Ahem? - Page 2

Originally posted by: karneetholic

koi gungi -behri jo kuch kahegi sunegi nahi

Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms

@Traxy and @vaishali, his going about it the wrong way if he want's an independent and less shy wife, don't you think that yelling after she spoke to his friends (under her own initiative) at the park when he went for a run is actually discouraging her to be independent rather she will become more shy?

I think Aham doesn't know what he wants. In his mind as long as Gopi's uneducated everything she does is wrong or could have been done better by an educated person.

Originally posted by: ANJ4

you are right ahem does not know what he wants ...he has the best wife in the world ,but still hate her ... now if she left then he would realise what he has lost ... so gopi needs to leave ahem ... will that ever happen ????????????

Originally posted by: ANJ4

you are right ahem does not know what he wants ...he has the best wife in the world ,but still hate her ... now if she left then he would realise what he has lost ... so gopi needs to leave ahem ... will that ever happen ????????????

Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms

Kokila wasn't happy with the sandook going to Rashi, because she believes Gopi is the better bahu, we all know this is the case too, with Naani's explanation, she resolved to reconcile GoHam (relinquishing her tight fist on Aham to Gopi), because she suddenly had her eyes open, they even showed a scene afterwards (when Naani told her of Aham not accepting Gopi), the scene was in the hall, Gopi asked to carry the laptop and he told her she will put it in the washing machine, she told him no she knows better now and will not be repeating the washing of the laptop incident, and he refused and stormed off angrily, Kokila was observing all this, again in Switzerland on the veranda of the chalet, the khadar, he said this is bitter and my life has become like this ever since you came into my life I have only darkness, if this was Hetal, she would immediately want them to split, not so with Kokila, she is sure Gopi is the right wife for Aham (I agree with her, no other girl would tolerate his abuse the way Gopi does). Also look at Aham when he saw Rashi change into Western clothes he didn't like it, he doesn't like overspending at all, he was getting annoyed with shopping, site seeing that Rashi wanted to do, well modern girls he thinks he likes, love to do these type of things, so I think Gopi is the right wife for him, also his mum, which modern girl could stand for her domination in the home and of Aham.

Originally posted by: fortuneprincess

he thinks maybe someone like anita who is smart, modern, educated etc is suitable for him..😃 by the way kokila wants a perfect daughter in law who is fit for her and so called modi parivar ki sanskar.. gopi is a sanskari bahu so for koki she is ideal.. but ahem needs a girl who can be a business man's wife... as far as i know koki seems to ignore or not care about what ahem likes.. she just decides what he needs and assume rest is useless for him.. she forces her decisions or him and he obeys..

i think now a days he began to point out his displeasure in koki's decisions...

Originally posted by: queenyuks

Ahem thinks he knows what he wants, but what he actually wants is very different.

He thinks he wants a modern wife who is educated, she will speak her mind, be the perfect arm candy for him at buisness parties, has liberal and modern thinking (remeber he reprimanded Gopi once for her dadi-wale nuskey)

What he thinks he wants is someone to respect his mother, but what he really wants is someone who will obey her every command, just like he does, and just like Gopi does.

What he thinks he wants is someone modern, who doesn't constantly look like a behenji, but what he really wants is someone who dresses traditinally, even in a foriegn country.

What he thinks he wants is someone like Anita, but he doesnt realize that she would never become the submissive bahu of the house.
There's nothing wrong with that, but Ahem wouldn't tolerate her speaking out to his mother, ever.

What he really wants is someone like Gopi, he just their doesn't realize it yet, or refuses to awknowledge it

Thats what I think

Yuks

Originally posted by: shobi12500

first i want aham to accept gopi for what she is then he should educate her

she should be bold and wise