give gopi a break - Page 2

Shruthi, definitely! I'll remember all these & not repeat them. My suffering will be my guide in what not to do!!!

Rana n shruthi, i cnt add anything to ur 'aap beeti' as m still 'far away from mil' bt cn only pray to god to give me a good MIL.

Originally posted by: br2499

Shruthi! I should know! I am the first and only DIL of our extended family for the last 12 years! I totally empathize with Gopi!

me too.......but not for 12years yet....lol only 2.5..........and I already feel the heat sometimes. My MIL loves to have pooja and dinner etc all the time...........and she is very particular at what she wants to, so trying to make it right is always a pain (though sometimes i enjoy it...) We also cook all the food at home............for at least 30-35 people mostly adults....... I know how hard it can be........make-up, cloths hair all go out the window at that point.........😆

Originally posted by: shruthi2010

hey not only your. all saas are universally like that. i m the youngest, yet since they used to live with me, (not now), i had to do all work and take back biting while they happily complain out me to others. dont take to heart. just take a pledge that when you become a saas you will be different.

My GOSH!!!.....😲...........I should count my blessings...............I have a wonderful mother-in-law that doesn't miss a opportunity to brag about me when she can to her buddies and family. So not all MIL are like typical saas..........My MIL is such a sweet heart, everything she buys for her daughter she will buy for me.....never shows a difference between us............ Ya, she can be bossy at points but who doesn't have their negatives. If I was in your shoes I don't know what I would do. I am so bad at telling elders off when they are wrong...............I just cry to my hubby when they are mean to me (reminds me of Gopi)...lol ..........😆

Most stupid and annoying thing is they all forget that rashi too is the vahu of that house how comes she's not sent to the kitchen to work! makes me soooooo angry.😡