Why blame Tara ? - Page 3

No....no real life ....serialwise only I am saying , as viewers hum subko woh scene chahiye where Tara ko Saloni firmly [ not necessarily disrespectfully ] sunaati hai . As viewers , we r a little tired of seeing Kaveri get away with her insults and Tara getting away with her wrong behaviour each time . I mean , both go virtually scot free . Kya hai realitybites , Saloni's character is mature but we viewers r childish na 😊 isliye . Viewer satisfaction , bas . 😆

well i think Tara is wrong and its all her fault. no matter what slaoni does Tara never appericaites it. its not salonis fault its Tara's.


naddi

i think there is a way saloni can tactfully tell tara that enough is enough. she does not have to be rude.

no one watches teen bahuraniyaan but it's the best example i can think of: when the 3 mothers misbehave, lie, or cheat (which is often), the 3 daughters in law confront them. they are never rude, but they do not tolerate it and make excuses for their bad behavior.

this pecking order isn't working. being older doesn't mean you are immune from making mistakes. tara isn't even THAT much older than saloni.

😆 😆 rainabow ur the only one who has agreed with me to a certain extent so far . Im afraid im gonna be very unpopular regarding this post .

But I am really tired of seeing some idiotic elders in these serials getting away scot free coz of their age , and relation status . Kaveri goes scot free as she is the pregnant bahuraani....Tara with her nonsense coz she is elder daughterinlaw . There is nothing elderly in the true sense about Tara's behaviour .

She taking the aarti thali from Saloni's hand in the puja room was no act of an elder bahu enforcing tradition as she falsely made it out to be . It was a very mean and small minded act coz clearly she was personally miffed with Saloni . And no one pulled her up for it . If elders r to be respected , just see how Tara snaps at Bhabho when she is irritated . Where does the elders r elders philosophy go then ? No one pulls her up and frankly she has become terribly spoilt .

Saloni has shown sum remarkable toughness to outsiders i think its time she shows some to Tara and Kaveri now .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

When i referred to ur viewpoint on idealism i meant purely the point where u said about the idealistic bahu [ Saloni] being better than a woman considering husband's family as just that ....her husband's family .

You also said ' not that i ever asked u to agree ' .....well , u were the first one to say u disagreed with me but I never made this kind of comment .

Why don't you go back and re-read what I wrote before jumping to your conclusions. Please tell me where in the world I said an idealistic bahu is better than a woman who considers her husband's family as just that. I was talking about stuff from Sath Phere's "idolistic" bahu perception.

As far as me saying that I never asked you to agree with me - I never said you can't agree or disagree with me. All I'm saying is that it's okay to disagree with me, but don't jump to assumptions about my views and perceptions and form opinions about me. That's just as much as a personal attack as me saying psssssshhhh to you.

Anyhow, I'm entitled to say what I want and if you you don't like what I have to say than sorry. To me, you sounded like you made a personal attack so I did the same. Everyone comes in here with their own thoughts and opinions.

Originally posted by: punjabihypnotic

I wrote a paragraph and you make assumptions and jump to conclusions about my viewpoint on idealism? Psssssshhhhh - please. There is sooooooooooo much I could say to you but I figure your not worth the time or the effort.
On a side note, it's one thing to disagree with what I said (not that I ever asked you to agree) but to make assumptions based off that is pathetic.

The latest is i jump ' hysterically' to conclusions ......this word has been edited now for some reason .

I really have no wish to argue or discuss anymore with you . All the others , although disagreeing with me have been very polite and we have enjoyed the discussion . It would be really sad if Mods stops this discussion....i leave the decision to her .

Originally posted by: kernal

I disagree.

Saloni may have flaws but she never accused or blamed anybody for just b/c she was angry or frustrated.

And Tara has. The main proof of this was shown in today's episode when Tara still blamed Saloni. Why was she still accusing her? First she had blamed Sal b/c she thought the money given by NS would make Brijesh's case weak but now he's out of jail isn't he? Whatever happened after that wasn't Sal's fault, it's not like she told Brijesh to slap Dheer.

I know that Saloni should focus more on her husband and her child but it's not like Nahar is just sitting there and focusing on Sal and his baby all the time, he's worried about his brother too.

So how can Sal just focus on just one member of the family she has to worry about the others too, after all she does live in a joint family.

And Saloni probably thought KK liked each other b/c of how KTJ was praising Kalika so of course any good person would want to unite two people who seem to be a good match for each other.

Sal didn't know KK's true intentions, she just knew the good ones they falsely portrayed.

In my opinon, Nahar and his baby hold the most importance in Sal's life. When Sal staked everything she has it was to get Tara her child. Nahar always felt guilty b/c he thought Tara couldn't become a mother b/c of his mistake, so Sal tried to fill Nahar and Tara's void.

Also it's not like she actually aborted the baby. She lied to jiji about the abortion. If the baby didn't mean anything to Sal then why did she lie about the abortion to jiji?

I agree that Tara loves Brijesh and can't live without him and he holds the utmost importance in her life but the same goes for Saloni towards Nahar. The only difference is that Tara wants Brijesh to be happy and fine and it seems like nothing else matters to her but Saloni wants Nahar to be happy and fine too and everyone else as well.

No offense intended.

Kernal

i agree...tara should be blamed...she is such a drama queen

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

The latest is i jump ' hysterically' to conclusions ......this word has been edited now for some reason .

I really have no wish to argue or discuss anymore with you . All the others , although disagreeing with me have been very polite and we have enjoyed the discussion . It would be really sad if Mods stops this discussion....i leave the decision to her .

Plz cool down rather than attacking any one friends. we can discuss the same calmly.

This is just serial. So plz do not get carried away.
Personal attacks on members are not allowed even though we all have right to express our opinions.
So plz let us discuss without breaking any forum rules or hurting any one. we all are a one big family.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

The latest is i jump ' hysterically' to conclusions ......this word has been edited now for some reason .

I really have no wish to argue or discuss anymore with you . All the others , although disagreeing with me have been very polite and we have enjoyed the discussion . It would be really sad if Mods stops this discussion....i leave the decision to her .

I don't know where you got the word jump "hysterically" from. But nonetheless, I have no interest in arguing with you either. Although it did start with misinterpretation of information. If judgments were not made on my character than this would have been a more peaceful discussion. I also enjoyed this conversation but obviously not with you. So in the future please refrain from making personal attacks first. With that said, I am done talking to you.

suji vyiku i thank you very much for pointing the truth . I too saw it and so did my family . Anyways I am not dicussing anything further with that member .....this post is purely to thank you .