Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
For all those blaming Tara , I ask some questions .
Who took her own marraige for granted , left Nahar , jeopardised her own child , and made it a mission to preserve someone else's [ Tara brij] marraige , someone else's child [ advitiya] ? Saloni .
Yes she did that becoz thats she is portrayed to be selfless and caring and besides Singh family lauded her efforts so somewhere they approved this.
Who , instead of letting things be , invited the wrath of her own family [ Ambika and Samar], and plonked Kalika on them inspite of knowing how upset they wud be , once more jeopardised her baby and was admitted in hospital for the sheer pressure of things ? Saloni .
There are two things here. Most imp is every child has right to parentage and belongingness. And Narpat wished that Kali be given her due. Ambi not accepting Kali is normal but cursing & blaming her is wrong. The child isnt responsible for his/her own birth. Regd her baby that was stress and nothing more.
Who suggested Kalika's name and took it upon herself to get Shitij married inspite of being heavily pregnant .....when she shud have focussed on her baby and some rest and shud have left the matter to others in the house ? Who brought Kalika in the house in the first place ? Saloni !
Sal didnt take it upon himself but Kakasa was thinking of getting his son married and her nature is shown to be helpful and caring. Match-makingđ is not an exhaustive activity to effect pregnancy. Shitij did like her and as revealed now it was the duo's scheme for revenge.
The name of the show is Saat Phere , and Saloni very conveniently forgets that the Saat phere r with Nahar and he shud be of prime importance . His baby shud be of utmost importance . That husband's family is ultimately only there coz of the main link....the husband . Today all r saying Tara this Tara that but Tara had not asked Saloni to make such big big sacrifices had she ? Saloni did them coz of her own will ! Infact , Tara , wrong though she is currently , gives supreme value to Brijesh alone [ let the rest of the world go go bhaad me i want only my husband is her blunt motto] .....and even more value to Advitiya , who is her priority above all ! Whereas Saloni's baby is devalued by the mother herself ....Saloni !
The name of the show is Saat-Phere: SALONI ka Safar so its about her journey towards and after marriage. Since its a joint family other members have imp too and it was she who got Nahar acquited from Chandani case.
Like I said all of them lauded her efforts and somewhere were pleased that she risked her life for their happiness. Tara was elated to have her baby back and thanked Sal for her efforts never caring abt her travails. Sal sacrifices were enjoyed by Tara hence she must show gratitude for it and now exhibiting ingratitude is deploring.
Its not recent that she has turned self-serving. Tara is shown to be impressionable and attention seeking. Her obsession with baby and Brij speaks more of her own insecurity than Sal so called 'intrusiveness'.
If all of them turn self centred and just thought about their husband and child then the joint fly struc wld break. If everyone turns selfish then who wld help the other? and what wld reln mean? Tara never cares for others hence in times of trouble she seeks help from others. If others turned like her then she wld be at loss the most. Tara doesnt think or analyse sitns judiciously hence her thoughts/decsn arent sought. Bhabho is more involved in the family decsn making.
Sal baby is very much cared after and valued too. The property was put in the child name by Kakasa too.
So Why blame tara so much ? Infact if the character of Saloni had an iota of sense she wud study Tara and learn what life's priorities r !
Well if Sal was to learn from Tara then we will see two hyperbolic reactions!!đ
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