Why the double standards?

I am just tired of seeing Nahar and vrinda coming closer an closer.

For saloni it was crime to even talk to yug smiligly and Nahar accused her of cheating with him.

Now what is he doing with vrinda? yes he rescue her and comforted her he did his humanly duties.. But he does not have to hold her hands or hand every time she cries.

saloni is right she has every right to know what he was doing in the middle of night with Vrinda in her room and what relation he has with vrinda?

Why no one thinks about Saloni or thinking to take care of her as she is pregnent and she needs some extra attnetion.

Instead every one is ready to give her lecture about her behavior. No one is even bothered by increasing relation between between nahar and vrinda except bhabho. nahar is disturbed when other man holds vrinda's hand. What are you doing dude? are you jealous that some one else is holding her hand and not you.😆😆 This is inteded as a joke. becuase i hate Nahar getting closer to Vrinda even unknowingly. So far he has not portrayed any thing to prove that he has any bad intentions.

post your views.

Totally agree with you. Very true. But he has always had a double standard. Even when he was accusing Saloni about Yug, he was getting closer to Devika - bringing her home etc. I think his idea of rescuing damsels in distress needs to be thought about.

Saloni was very right in saying that "he once saved her and brought her home, and that should be the end of it." Vrinda also takes a lot of interest in the life of Saloni and Nahar. She has no manners. Coming to anyone's room in the night without even knocking and then evesdropping on the husband and wife. This is just too much.

absolutely....nahar accused saloni of having an affair with yug when she was just being nice to him...n here this guy goes about holding hands be it devika or chandni...
ignoring salonis rudeness i really appreciate the fact that she showed her displeasure clearly....

this shows the typical male mentality...watever they do is acceptable but if their wives do the same then it is considered a sin....

I totally agree..When Saloni was nice and friendly to Yug, Nahar was so rude to her and blame her of having a affait with Yug.
But he did the same thing with Dewika/ Chandni and now with Vrinda.

Originally posted by: anupamas2

Totally agree with you. Very true. But he has always had a double standard. Even when he was accusing Saloni about Yug, he was getting closer to Devika - bringing her home etc. I think his idea of rescuing damsels in distress needs to be thought about.

Saloni was very right in saying that "he once saved her and brought her home, and that should be the end of it." Vrinda also takes a lot of interest in the life of Saloni and Nahar. She has no manners. Coming to anyone's room in the night without even knocking and then evesdropping on the husband and wife. This is just too much.

I do agree Vrinda is shown to be very interfeering and annoying. What is this attitude of worshipping a married man?Yes some one helps you you respect them but not interfere in their lives. saloni needs to tell Vrinda to stay away from Nahar.

Originally posted by: noni260

absolutely....nahar accused saloni of having an affair with yug when she was just being nice to him...n here this guy goes about holding hands be it devika or chandni...
ignoring salonis rudeness i really appreciate the fact that she showed her displeasure clearly....

this shows the typical male mentality...watever they do is acceptable but if their wives do the same then it is considered a sin....

yes exactly that is my point. Ok you saved some one. That does not mean that you have to take care of them for the rest of life.

Originally posted by: jaanlover

I totally agree..When Saloni was nice and friendly to Yug, Nahar was so rude to her and blame her of having a affait with Yug.
But he did the same thing with Dewika/ Chandni and now with Vrinda.

I am totally against this male mentality that what ever they do is justified including touching other woman. He even hugged devika and he was dancing with devika.

and how much he fussed when Saloni danced with yug. that too upon ppl's force.

Naahr's behavior also portrays how weak men are. Saloni despite all yug's tries and Neel's tries never crossed any linits or try to touch them. even though Nahar had accused her she remained faithful to Nahar in every way.

Nahar already started touching vrinda. So what he is not getting any attnetion/ He left saloni suffering alone when she was going thru problems and instead of trusting her he accused her. he created unlivable circustances for Saloni and forced her to live the house.