MAIKA YA SASURAL??????

This show brought up a very intersting topic for indian women. what's more important after marriage, your maika or your sasural? what would you do if your maika and your sasural wanted to do the same thing that would make them happy and you're caught in the middle???! it's a controversial topic since everyone says for an indian girl, your sasural should be more important BUT HOW CAN YOU JUST FORGET ABOUT THE HAPPINESS FOR YOUR MAIKA?! WHAT'S A GIRL TO DO? 😭😡😉

U need to keep balance thts wht marraige is we cant ignore both r impt

yea you need to create a place for everyone in your heart as well as in everyone's hearts.. Balancing is the key girls..lol am talking like i am married even tho am only 16! 😆

yea i know that but sometimes trying to make everyone happy always causes some sort of a conflict!

yea.. can't make everyone happy.. but ur parents are the ones who brought u up and u can't not make them happy and your sasural u gotta live there if you want to live with ur husband.. oh i don't care i still have many years to think about that! meanwhile am just going to sit back and watch how saloni does it! 😆..maybe i could get a tip or two! 😉

Originally posted by: DeepaliC

yea.. can't make everyone happy.. but ur parents are the ones who brought u up and u can't not make them happy and your sasural u gotta live there if you want to live with ur husband.. oh i don't care i still have many years to think about that! meanwhile am just going to sit back and watch how saloni does it! 😆..maybe i could get a tip or two! 😉

haha me too!😆

I think your sasural is more important. but sometimes you have to look at circumstances. There is always a way to solve problem. For some people no matter how much you do is never enough(saural). Saloni needs to pay more attnetion to Nahar and keep him happy. Now she has a life with him. Try to get his problems solve first.

Even I think a balancing act is necessary. but at the same time if you can't share every thing with your husband then the relation is not complete. If you guys remember when saloni was in the police station he tells her that if she had confided in him the situation could have been under control and the same thing goes for now also. if she had confided in him he would have controlled things at home and things would not have gone out of hand.

After marriage, I personally think that a woman's best friend and confidante is her husband. But then, not always this happens, because all men are not as understanding and caring as we would like them to be. But if you are among the lucky ones and do have a supportive husband, make him your best pal and be absolutely honest with him. That way, if something "ouch" happens with your in-laws, you will always have him to help you out. Our parents love us unconditionally, we are what we are because of them, so I absolutely don't believe that after marraige they become "paraya". At the same time your in-laws are your new family and you have to come there with an open mind and heart. We should never forget, no matter how much "weird" they appear, our darling hubby is what he is, because of them. Respect and responsibility towards them should be as important as towards your parents. I personally feel, after marriage your family is your hubby, kids, and you. Both your parents and in-laws, are extended families. You love them, respect them, share your responsibilities, but always set some boundaries. That's the secret of balancing things. You can never make and keep everyone around you happy and contended. Trying to achieve that would only result in going complete nuts yourself. In our culture, a married girl's parents are hardly ever demanding, so its much easier keeping them happy, however, more often than not, thats' not the case with the in-laws. So you might have to work harder at it. Just be honest with yourself, the rest will slowly fall in place.

that is really good advice 😊