bahus pushed and mistreated

I am truly shocked seeing kakasa pushing saloni away. Bcos of him Nahar saloni supposedly lost a child. Nahar or Brijesh did not react this way toward him.

I completely agree.

Originally posted by: kernal

I completely agree.

Kakasa has no right to push Saloni away. I know that he was distraught but that doesn't mean he can mistreat his newphew's wife in that manner.

In my opinion Kakasa is an ungrateful good for nothing fool.

He was abroad for how many years and Nahar and Brijesh handled the business and now when he comes back he finds flaws.

He trusts his son and makes him a CEO, who doesn't have proper knowledge about the Indian market instead of the two men who put their sweat, tears, and blood in the business.

If Nahar really wanted money then why didn't he do it when Kakasa was in the U.S.

Why would he do it when Kakasa returns?

Someone needs to ask Kakasa that!

(I know I kinda went off topics but i need a place to vent.)

I am amazed at this great Singh parivaar, who hold their relationships and respect so close to their hearts.

The bahu of the house can keep on getting ridiculed and humiliated by outsiders and insiders and all the elders have to say is "don't take it to your heart she is our sumdi"

They act as if laali masi and tara are their only important relations and it doesn' t matter that Saloni is their bahu.

Tara keeps on yelling at Saloni for unjust reasons and all anyone says is Tara beti this Tara beti that except for Nahar .

Like come on Tara isn't going to understand through your sweet talks again if she didn't the first time, give her a good blasting.

I'm sick of seeing Saloni having to be the one who always has to be considerate of other people's feelings, for heaven sake she's human too.

And today Kakasa crossed his limits by pushing her, he should be atleast abit considerate afterall it was his fault NS "lost" their baby.

And the way he was slapping Nahar broke my heart, he didn't even listen to him.

Sorry for going off topic

I agree with every single point you mention here. i am truly so angry with person like kakasa. Who has double standards for his children and his brother's children. Nahar saloni Brij give him so much respect and kakasa takes advantage of that.

i always wonder why everyone mistreats saloni. why is it that they always find fault with her alone? why is it that she always seems to be the wrong bahu? isn't tara another one of their bahus too? how come she is never reprimanded for all the false accusations she puts saloni through??😡

Originally posted by: judyp

Nahar a man who values family more than anything was treated so horribly. Kakasa had found Nahar guility by the evidence KJT presented - he never questioned the validity of the evidence. All I can say is blood is thicker than water - when all is said and done KJT was his son and Nahar his nephew.

Kakasa pushing Saloni was uncalled for. That also showed how stress Nahar was since normally he would have reacted to anybody pushing his wife.

The scene with Kakasa pushing Saloni was very clear of things to come. His valued pregnant Bahu - Kalika is safe from any accusation that Saloni/Nahar will hurl at them. Of course Tara is on Kalika side since she drank poison for Brijesh. Brijesh always follows Kakasa ......

Nahar was in shock and scared and wanted to prove to family he is innocent. who wouldn't be and kakasa keels on slapping him and calling him names.😡🤢

Originally posted by: larimel22

i always wonder why everyone mistreats saloni. why is it that they always find fault with her alone? why is it that she always seems to be the wrong bahu? isn't tara another one of their bahus too? how come she is never reprimanded for all the false accusations she puts saloni through??😡

some one has to show kakasa that he is wrong. maybe it's coz he's old or watevr but he cannot just keep pointing his finger at someone , then change his mind and in a few days he's back again🤢🤬

and then, saloni.......why does she never stand up for herself??why does she let everyone trample over her??i won't be surprised if she wud have lost her child due to depression or something...

i totally agree some one should stand up to kakasa. Nahar tries but kakasa won't let him and brij stops him.

Its sad to know that saloni is being shown as such a bad example of how a women should never be .. No women in her place should shamelessly listen to what ever people like lali maasi /Tara spoke to her . Instead of patiently waiting for centuries for things to fall in right place ...and tolerating all crap and making your daily life miserable ....shud stand for your self and give them one tight slap /kick them out of the house the first time some one dares to say such things to you ..even if it is your mum in law or sis in law....

lol people it called saat phere saloni ki safar for a reason......

Originally posted by: prakashilpa

Its sad to know that saloni is being shown as such a bad example of how a women should never be .. No women in her place should shamelessly listen to what ever people like lali maasi /Tara spoke to her . Instead of patiently waiting for centuries for things to fall in right place ...and tolerating all crap and making your daily life miserable ....shud stand for your self and give them one tight slap /kick them out of the house the first time some one dares to say such things to you ..even if it is your mum in law or sis in law....

I Understand people like Lali masi still exist in society ( if not that extreme ) but I dont find anything wrong with them ...the wrong is with the girls/betis /bahus ...who tolerate all that in the name of ...nonsense so called tradition ...(which was man made at first place and not god )

Why should the girls wait for their hubbies to respond first ...and if the husbands are lovely ..then it doesnt mean the girls are lucky and should face all crap...

there are lots of girls whose husbands do not support them in their fights ...again its the fault of the girls ...because they care more about what the society thinks about their bahu image ..rather than thier own suffering which is nonsense ...every girl should be educated /self reliant ..and earn n stand for herself and her children ..instead of feeling happy n secure getting married to a lovely husband n richfamily ...and working in their kitchen all their lives ..leaving her own surname and family ....

There are lots of forums i see in various serials ..where ...the people who write the daily updates for serials make comments like the following :

1. If you see santaan (sony tv )updates ...u would frequently find comments like ..when ever niam (husband ) makes tea/cooks food for suhana (wife ) its always followed by ...so cute ...lovely ,how lucky and crap ....I seriously hate such comments .....Our society /serials ..do not show boys doing household works /taking care of babies ..only coz most of the girl viewers seemed to like all this for eternity ....its not a big deal if a man does what women kept doing for ages .....no female is born with broom n spoon in her hand .

2. When ever a female is shown as negative ...she is either working .or not working in kitchen like other bahu's ..or not serving meals or making coffee for hubbies ...what nonsense is this ...am sick n tired of alll this crap.

Doesnt matter ...if all this happens in society ..every individual is born with a brain ...and not blindly follow man convenient tradition ....stand for urself ...like men do .you do not need your husabands support for that ...if they r against your independance ..then ur life is better with out such men in ur life ....

I feel extremely shameful if i have to leave my mums house and stay permanently in my inlaws house ...just as how my husband would feel ..we have our own house ..and my inlaws and my parents are always welcome to stay with us permanently if they want to ...i never changed my surname to his ...and we live very happily in india .

I agree but I would not slap some one I would just make it clear that it is my house and I will get insulted by an outsider no matter how old they are or whose relative the are.