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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes am glad to see tej ,glad to see the end of the pain of the famly glad to see the hug and the love between them but extremely annoyed with the cvs!!
they have wasted the entire track, what was the point of showing toasty cheated? if there is to be no closure, if toasty is always required ot be shown right and otherws wrong, and if the accident was the only way for the cvs to mend relationship of the family, they could have brought in before the result, would have been more sensible that the family forgot the result in the love of tej and rose above the competetion.
but here they just made again the fact thast it was so great of toasty to think of her bro in laws esteem before her husbands hardwork, slef respect. in a way that elders cant lose then she will always want to win be proven right when her sis gets into house( am assuming she and prachin will be a couple)
tej said sorry, sorry for what man!! and it all just went into a trival issue, yes the competetion between brothers can never last , rightly said by tej bhai aisay hi hoitay hain, but again doesnt that show that she shouldnt have meddled in the first place.
now she will be the hero she got back tej, nothing can happen to tej coz of toasty, ( all true yes but nowhere did i see any repercussion). i so want a proper closure to this track, but i ownt get that, i like toasty yes but please show her human enough let her err make ammends relaise.
i so wanted a chat of her parents and toasdty where they tell her the importance of a wife and husband relation.yes now everyone is happy noone wouldf want to talk of the night before , all went under the carpet. not happy with this turnout.
i know again i will be labelled as someone who wants to see toasty crying , sad. no i dont want that, i want a converstion which shows that why it happened,what caused it:
maybe the way pashu behaves he creates a perception that he will never soften up and all have to do whatever they can to make it such thast he realises he is loved( enough of the victim and anger approach) , what led to taosty make a decision, her apology to tej, her understanding that sometimes she has to sit back and let GOD do whats best. chedi understanding tat the boys are individuals and cant lead them with a hunter or create competetions within the family. pashu realising he could be a little harsh and softening up.
all opportunites lost and now cvs will show happy family time today and next week it will be ved nikita again leading to their marriage.
so not what i was hoping 😭😭

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dont worry about being labeled, I am disappointed as to how they turned this plot around, but still holding some hope that Tej and Toasty will talk it out and sort this, rather than just putting it under the carpet...
~Naina
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Posted: 13 years ago
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while all are rejoicing over tej toasty and return of happiness , i feel like going and killing thestupid cv! yes i like toasty getting reasdy for tej, i liked seeing her vishwas that her love will come back commendable 👏, awesome acting by tej again as always .
but i just cant swallow the fact that time nad time again it is being shown that toasty was right. no closure no repentence, no asknig forgivness?
ok since near death experience, tej realised that family is important, and pashu realises tej ism pore imp than competetion yes appreciated, however throughout the communication it seems tej is admiting how silly it was to make an issue out of this, the accident was made just to redeem toasty i guess!! that such am ajor incident happened that toastys actions are forgotten. why couldnt she have talked about it.
why is it that indian soaps show that patnis are better bahus than wifes and also whenever the youth takes a step that might come as a standoff betwwen the old and youth , turn of events happen that youth realise the imp of elders and back out? is it becoz of audience acceptance factor? i dont live in india so really dnt know that.
now with the ved nikita track it will be hulla gulla toasty will not have any time for tej , she will not admit that she was scared, she was wrong to take it. fine if the cvs want toasty to save face in fornt of family then sure let it be. nhn karo sab k samne admit that it was wrong but yes she should tell it to him atleast.
or maybe she still feels she was donig it right nad glad that tej now also agrees. i wish sudha finds out about it and gives her a piece of mind.some reaction atleaset.
and where is chedi ? competetion over, result drama, son lost son found, another son on verge of getting hitched, no sign of the dad? maybe shooting for some movie i guess but a phone call would have been appropriate.
sadly i just cant seem to have the likeablitiy of toasty back again. i want a closure of toasty. i cant be content with the happy moments alone. i used to watch it for being real, different, turing out to the same mahan bahu saves family again and again .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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We discussed this in another thread too so sorry if I'm repeating thoughts that have already been read...

I feel like out of everyone Tej is the person that Toasty doesn't have to explain herself to because she and Tej understand each other and so Tej knows how she must feel and that she's realized that what she did was wrong...and Toasty has realized that she was wrong...did you notice how guilty and horrible she felt after Tej was talking about how angry he was with her and how she did cheating with him...she couldn't even raise her eyes to see him without him pulling her face up to see. And as someone has mentioned before, it's that silent understanding of each other that defines true love...

I definitely see your point of view and it would have been nice to see it but at the same time I don't know if it would have been fair because even Tej never fully apologized for voting "no" against her...he punished himself but he never told Toasty that he was wrong in doing so or explain himself...so it definitely follows in the way of their relationship. Same with when he was angry with her during the Malti Bhabhi andolan and he said that he regretted bringing her back into the house...he didn't need to explain himself to her later on that all that was simply said in anger and that he was sorry..he said thanks to her for everything she did but never explained himself.

And even in yesterday's scene, Tej never explained or said he understood what Toasty did...at that point what Toasty did, didn't matter to him because there were more important things...all three: Tej, Pashu, and Toasty were not right throughout this whole situation...all that's happened is the priorities have been placed and rather than dwell on what's happened, they're putting everything behind and moving on.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Give it a break guys, enough already. Enjoy the show and characters the way they are made, accept and understand the intentions behind every character's actions. Toasty had the same guilt expression on her face the day she announced the modified results, nothing has changed on her part, she felt guilty of hurting her husband then and she feels the same way now. At the same time, she was clear on why she did it and I think she is still clear on that.

I wanted Tej and Toasty to come out stronger out of this whole episode and that is exactly what happened. Their love has just grown stronger and I am loving it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tejy77


And even in yesterday's scene, Tej never explained or said he understood what Toasty did...at that point what Toasty did, didn't matter to him because there were more important things...all three: Tej, Pashu, and Toasty were not right throughout this whole situation...all that's happened is the priorities have been placed and rather than dwell on what's happened, they're putting everything behind and moving on.



This is exactly what is required in a happy marriage. There will always be difference of opinion, the more you discuss and fight over your differences, bitter will be your relationship. A couple has to learn to understand each other POVs, forgive, forget and move on. How long can one sulk?

Especially in this case, Tej loves his brother and Toasty did what Tej should/would have done if he was thinking rationally.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i totally agree..she is the saint again and the heroine...but it is a soap and so
please someone tell me,...is tej going to run his own place, what is wrong with that, or work with pashu because that will again be same kissa...and toasty being the martyr again and putting him down in name of family!
when is chedi coming...which movie is he taking a break for again...he is no mahatma..and cannot believe noone told him his son missing or does he not watch news like his dad!
too many loose strings left unattended! pity as not a bad serial overall
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Posted: 13 years ago
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First, Chedi had no idea that Pashu or Tej had plans of traveling to Pune so even if we heard the news of bus accident on TV, he is not gonna think it has anything to do with his family.

Secondly, Chedi is a heart patient and I am sure even if he called home, he wasn't told anything about Tej's accident.

I also wish that they come with a better solution and strategy for shop so Pashu and Tej can both effectively use their technique and experience without getting in each others way.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I too was initially angry with this track, but if Malti can be forgiven for making the grandfather an invalid and accusing Ved of being a rapist and putting Chedi and Pashu behind bars, then can't Toasty be forgiven for changing results of a competition that should not have been there in the first place?

This is not an attempt by CVs to show that Toasty is mahaan. But rather a fictional exaggeration to show that for harmonious family relationships it is necessary to often close your eyes to words and incidents that we would never forgive form an outsider. That is the importance of family. So many times even in our own families we keep quiet when people say things we would not tolerate from anyone. This is the same thing.

Another thing when someone has a near-death experience, then all such discussions become immaterial. For us it is a track that we watch, but what the CVs are portraying is correct. Losing someone you love or nearly losing someone is so gut-wrenching that it changes all perspectives. That is precisely what is being shown.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Totally agree with Tejy, abc & gangubai...well said!👏

I just want to add that the CVs didn't mention anything that would suggest that Toasty did the right thing by manipulating the results. Even Tej didn't say Toasty you did the right thing. Tej said he was hurt & even Toasty was feeling guilty & crying while Tej was saying all this. But Tej said there were more important things in life rather than sulking on issues like this.

The CVs are showing what would happen in real life if something like this happens. If Tej would be still sulking over this matter even after facing a near-death experience, then it wouldn't look convincing at all.

If Tej never said a proper sorry to Toasty then even Toasty doesn't need to. As Tejy pointed out, during the Malti andolan, even Toasty was extremely hurt with Tej's words, she was crying in the kitchen saying that Tej does this all the time, whenever she needs him the most, he leaves her alone & takes the side of his family as if she's not a part of his family, but later Toasty didn't demand an explanation from Tej, neither Tej ever needed to explain anything. Their relationship is based on mutual understanding by forgiving each other without a proper sorry or explanation.

With this accident track the CVs have not shown Toasty was mahaan or did the right thing. The CVs showed how Tej, Pashu & Toasty realized where they went wrong - by not valuing what they had & giving value to other things. While Pashu & Tej were not valuing each other & giving more attention to their shops, we had Toasty not valuing her husband & paying more attention to the other things in the family. So all were shown wrong in my POV. I didn't see a single thing shown by the CVs where they mentioned Toasty did the correct thing by manipulating the results.

Of course Toasty did a mistake, all human being do it. Nobody is perfect. If Malti can be forgiven then why not Toasty. If Pashu or Tej can forgive each other then why can't Toasty be forgiven.

And if we say Toasty took the side of Pashu instead of Tej then what did Malti do then. When Toasty revealed the difference in the sales figure of both the shop(of course Toasty lied about the amount), what did Malti do? Did Malti jump out of joy & said Yeah!!! My husband is winning or did she say Oh No! Tej is winning so now I'll buy a saree from my husband's shop & make him win... What did Malti do at that time? She thought Pashu was ahead with that amount & Tej was behind, so she went to Tej's shop & bought a saree to make Tej win... of course, things didn't turn out as what she was expecting bcoz the amount told to her by Toasty was false... So even Malti took the side of Tej & went against her husband. Nobody sees this just bcoz her plan couldn't succeed but as Toasty's plan succeeded as she knew the real figures, she's held as a culprit.

And if Tej said all those things during the Malti andolan that bringing back Toasty was a mistake, he said it in anger. I took Tej's side at that time. This time Toasty manipulated the results not in anger but in a state of disturbed mind which was under pressure due to Chedi's responsibility & trust on her. Toasty wasn't happy while she was announcing the results & even after the announcement she wasn't dancing out of joy Yeah! I did the right thing & all that. She wasn't confident of her decision & was feeling guilty.

When Tej voted No against Toasty, he was entangled between the responsibility of a husband & son/brother of the house, this time Toasty was entangled between the responsibility of a wife & daughter-in-law of the house. At that time Tej gave more importance to the son's responsibility ignoring the husband's duty & this time Toasty gave more importance to the daughter-in-law's responsibility ignoring the wife's duty. Tej did feel guilty later on but didn't say a proper sorry to Toasty & this time Toasty felt guilty too but didn't say a proper sorry to him... So the moral of the story is... It's a Draw🤣

I've said this long time back, & I'll say it again, I'm not a Tej or Toasty supporter... it just depends upon the situation. There are times where I feel like grabbing Tej's neck & sometimes I feel like grabbing Toasty's neck too😆 Totally depends upon the situation & in what context they're making the decisions😉

And btw if Tej is not having problems, then why should we raise our blood pressure by thinking about it😉😆 Just forget it & enjoy the serial😉😆
Edited by vik rocks - 13 years ago

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