Sort of dissapointed - Page 2

Originally posted by: vik rocks

Totally agree with Tejy, abc & gangubai...well said!👏

I just want to add that the CVs didn't mention anything that would suggest that Toasty did the right thing by manipulating the results. Even Tej didn't say Toasty you did the right thing. Tej said he was hurt & even Toasty was feeling guilty & crying while Tej was saying all this. But Tej said there were more important things in life rather than sulking on issues like this.

The CVs are showing what would happen in real life if something like this happens. If Tej would be still sulking over this matter even after facing a near-death experience, then it wouldn't look convincing at all.

If Tej never said a proper sorry to Toasty then even Toasty doesn't need to. As Tejy pointed out, during the Malti andolan, even Toasty was extremely hurt with Tej's words, she was crying in the kitchen saying that Tej does this all the time, whenever she needs him the most, he leaves her alone & takes the side of his family as if she's not a part of his family, but later Toasty didn't demand an explanation from Tej, neither Tej ever needed to explain anything. Their relationship is based on mutual understanding by forgiving each other without a proper sorry or explanation.

With this accident track the CVs have not shown Toasty was mahaan or did the right thing. The CVs showed how Tej, Pashu & Toasty realized where they went wrong - by not valuing what they had & giving value to other things. While Pashu & Tej were not valuing each other & giving more attention to their shops, we had Toasty not valuing her husband & paying more attention to the other things in the family. So all were shown wrong in my POV. I didn't see a single thing shown by the CVs where they mentioned Toasty did the correct thing by manipulating the results.

Of course Toasty did a mistake, all human being do it. Nobody is perfect. If Malti can be forgiven then why not Toasty. If Pashu or Tej can forgive each other then why can't Toasty be forgiven.

And if we say Toasty took the side of Pashu instead of Tej then what did Malti do then. When Toasty revealed the difference in the sales figure of both the shop(of course Toasty lied about the amount), what did Malti do? Did Malti jump out of joy & said Yeah!!! My husband is winning or did she say Oh No! Tej is winning so now I'll buy a saree from my husband's shop & make him win... What did Malti do at that time? She thought Pashu was ahead with that amount & Tej was behind, so she went to Tej's shop & bought a saree to make Tej win... of course, things didn't turn out as what she was expecting bcoz the amount told to her by Toasty was false... So even Malti took the side of Tej & went against her husband. Nobody sees this just bcoz her plan couldn't succeed but as Toasty's plan succeeded as she knew the real figures, she's held as a culprit.

And if Tej said all those things during the Malti andolan that bringing back Toasty was a mistake, he said it in anger. I took Tej's side at that time. This time Toasty manipulated the results not in anger but in a state of disturbed mind which was under pressure due to Chedi's responsibility & trust on her. Toasty wasn't happy while she was announcing the results & even after the announcement she wasn't dancing out of joy Yeah! I did the right thing & all that. She wasn't confident of her decision & was feeling guilty.

When Tej voted No against Toasty, he was entangled between the responsibility of a husband & son/brother of the house, this time Toasty was entangled between the responsibility of a wife & daughter-in-law of the house. At that time Tej gave more importance to the son's responsibility ignoring the husband's duty & this time Toasty gave more importance to the daughter-in-law's responsibility ignoring the wife's duty. Tej did feel guilty later on but didn't say a proper sorry to Toasty & this time Toasty felt guilty too but didn't say a proper sorry to him... So the moral of the story is... It's a Draw🤣

👏👏👏 Thanks you vik rocks!!! 😃 You said everything that I was thinking but was too lazy to type out at the time. Completely agree with everything and beautifully explained!!
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You know, disappointed or otherwise, I have to give it to you guys, because if Malti can be forgiven for her mistakes, then Toasty's mistake is nothing. And I think her wanting to make it up to Tej kinda warmed my heart. Dressing up like dulhan was brilliant on her part.

Agreed with your post...but this happens all the time...the Cv built the momentum and then just drop the ball...just like that, in the most weird way...they don't know how to do close a track...they run away from it 😕