Is Yuv at fault?

I was thinking, do u all think Yuv is at fault for Shefali still being in luv with Arjun? I knw he was the reason for their breakup in the first place, but do u think Yuv failed to make a place for himself in Shefalis heart? Do u all think that if he had been a little considerate of the fact that Shefali luved Arjun first n took the time to share her feelings n pain, Shefali wud have thought at least once before trying to seperate Arjun n Bhoomi? Hes all the time worried abt the property n Arjuns family living in the HH...Do u feel that instead of trying to cause more hate, if he took the time n tried to make their marriage special to Shefali, she wudnt have thought abt Arjun again?

Cus in a way, same is the case with Arjun...If Bhoomi had been careless of the fact that Arjun was in luv with sumone else before n didnt take the time to make herself a place in his heart, Arjun wud be still in luv with Shefali...Bhoomi always tried to be there, supported Arjun, helped in watever she cud n that led to Arjuns feelings developing for Bhoomi...I feel the reason y Shefali still wants Arjun back is the great joy he brought to her...which Yuv failed too...Hes always too busy trying to make stupid plans to kick Arjuns family out n that may have led to Shefali thinking that there isnt any room for her relation with Yuv...cus in a way she has many gud memories with Arjun then she has with Yuv, despite of the fact being married to him for quite sumtime now...

So mainly wat Im trying to say is, do u all think that cus of the unsuccessful bonding btwn Yuv n Shefali, Shefali still feels for Arjun?

I personally feel that if a girl has a guy who understands, luvs n gives her time, its much easier for her to put her past aside if not behind her...n so is not the case with Yuv...I dont remember him talking sweet to Shefali ever or asking her abt her day, or even sumtimes just talking abt random stuff...n even tho these things seem small, they r very important to a girl as she feels shes being noticed n holds sum importance...but all he ever cares to talk abt is how he can take control of the property n kick the other Goenkas out of the house...I feel the lack of attention Shefali has gotten frm Yuv is the main cause she still yearns for Arjun n his luv?

So wat r ur views guys?

Teesha

yes........i do agree that yuv doesn't realy love shefali .he only loves money(apna sapna money money and HH and Goenka propety).that is why shefali feels insecure when she sees arjun and bhumi close to each other..remember what happened while dinner?
about what you said about bhumi being with arjun was more than 100% correct.
by the way.nice topic posted...... 😊

oh teesha tumne mere dil ki baat keh daali!! yep yuv doesnt give time to shefali.....she feels her life empty thats why she craves for arjun's lovve.......and the craving for him has made her forget everything else......

whenener shefali sees arjun id bhumi she bound to get jealous since arjun loves bhumi so much......shefali would think if yuv hadnt separated them and if she was with arjun then arjun would have loved her......

The craving for arjun ......a another man is because yuv hardly thinks about her .......forrget loving her.....

For him just money is everything.....but shefali loved arjun so much so forgetting hi would be verry difficult....

but......but if yuv had given her the same love then probably she wouldnt have the empty feeling in her maritial and her life......she would have a good husbad why would she crave for another man

If yuv had loved her truly then his love clould have transformmed the hate in shefali's mind for him to love.......

He could have made her foorget arjun but instead he is just making her love arjun more by his behaviour......

Shefali is a person whom u feel sympathy......since sh doesnt have a husband who loves her......and the person she loved was separated by the husband itself and she has to live her life wid him.....above all the person she loved lives happily with another woman(wife,bhumi)

but at the same time anger arises too.....seeing her evil act....

but yuv is absolutely at fault.....

if he comes to know shefali left him for arjun she would be angry......hurt only because she left him for arjun siince it would be like a losing position....as it would mean that he lost out on shefali due to another man......

But thats it he wouldnt be hurt as a husband but just as man......he would be angry than hurt....

what do u ppl think?? 😊

Originally posted by: stgs

yes........i do agree that yuv doesn't realy love shefali .he only loves money(apna sapna money money and HH and Goenka propety).that is why shefali feels insecure when she sees arjun and bhumi close to each other..remember what happened while dinner?
about what you said about bhumi being with arjun was more than 100% correct.
by the way.nice topic posted...... 😊

im glad u liked the topic...thanks😊

as for shefali being insecure that she definitely is...n yuv is more at fault for that...n at the end, when her truth is shown to evryone she shud make it a point that her marriage was nothing she wud have cared abt when doing this cus yuv never made it feel like it! i personally think for yuv evrything is like a business deal n he wants sum kinda profit out of it...he doesnt knw the value of relations n hence cudnt make a successful bonding with his wife...

as for the apna sapna money money part...i found that funny...but its true..

Originally posted by: sia_lovely

oh teesha tumne mere dil ki baat keh daali!! yep yuv doesnt give time to shefali.....she feels her life empty thats why she craves for arjun's lovve.......and the craving for him has made her forget everything else......

whenener shefali sees arjun id bhumi she bound to get jealous since arjun loves bhumi so much......shefali would think if yuv hadnt separated them and if she was with arjun then arjun would have loved her......

The craving for arjun ......a another man is because yuv hardly thinks about her .......forrget loving her.....

For him just money is everything.....but shefali loved arjun so much so forgetting hi would be verry difficult....

but......but if yuv had given her the same love then probably she wouldnt have the empty feeling in her maritial and her life......she would have a good husbad why would she crave for another man

If yuv had loved her truly then his love clould have transformmed the hate in shefali's mind for him to love.......

He could have made her foorget arjun but instead he is just making her love arjun more by his behaviour......

Shefali is a person whom u feel sympathy......since sh doesnt have a husband who loves her......and the person she loved was separated by the husband itself and she has to live her life wid him.....above all the person she loved lives happily with another woman(wife,bhumi)

but at the same time anger arises too.....seeing her evil act....

but yuv is absolutely at fault.....

if he comes to know shefali left him for arjun she would be angry......hurt only because she left him for arjun siince it would be like a losing position....as it would mean that he lost out on shefali due to another man......

But thats it he wouldnt be hurt as a husband but just as man......he would be angry than hurt....

what do u ppl think?? 😊

i've heard this many times...that one needs luv to life a happy life...or luv makes life worth living...n with shefali she did find that life but lost it before she cud actually live it...n then she was given a life which had no meanings...

wat attracts her (shefali) more to arjun is the thing he has to give...thing which is more valuable then money n status...he has so much luv to give... n thats the main thing thats missing in shefalis life...she has a husband, a family, money, status, luxurious life, but despite of having evrything she still has nothing...n even tho bhoomi didnt have anything to start off with, she had luv in her heart...n despite of being poor, she was richer than shefali n still is...

i knw its hard to c ur luv living so happy n at first v react in such a harsh manner...which isnt wrong...cus that way we let out the pain...but with shefali she cant cry her heart out to anyone...her husband is useless...its like he doesnt exist...

just like any other girl she wants that 'perfect' life...with ur luv...n yuv doesnt luv her so she cant even imagine cuming close to that life but with arjun she can imagine it very well as she knws that arjun is full of luv...n to him his own ppl matter a lot...she has seen arjun value relations, be it of any kind...n she has that respect for him which yuv cud never earn...n like i sed once, b4 luv enters our heart, respect does for that person...n shefali cud never respect a person like yuv to start off, let along luving him...

so to conclude, obviously, yuv at first is at fault for shefalis behavior n state of mind....he as well is at fault for watever is abt to happen to him (the betrayal he'll get once he finds out shefalis true intentions)

n sia i agree with u...once he finds out that shefali still luvs arjun, he wont feel sad cus he cud never have his wife luving him, instead he'll b angry he lost out on shefali infront of arjun...

n sia nice points dear...