Member Of The Week - Jaya (Jayc1234) - Page 39

Am I reading it correctly?😕 Was it Chhotu who asked these questions?😕

Chhotu - I am proud of you 🤗

Originally posted by: SmarterDesiKid

Set sumtin....😉

1. Would it be proper for a parent to hit their child if the child is selling drugs?

To my mind, Yes. Sometimes, you have to be the strict disciplinarian to ensure that your kid is not approaching doomsday

(I hope, I do not end up behind the US bars after this)

2. How much freedom should a child obtain to show that the parent is irresponsible, and does not take action of the child's behavior?

Enough to openly confront his folks about what he is going through and how they are failing to set examples for him to follow.

3. How can parents prevent a child from running away from home?

By spending quality time with the child, understand the psychological changes of his growing up years and accordingly transform themselves from the protective to strict to friendly parents

4. Can a child save a parent's relationship? How?

Yes – by being the bond that holds the couple together on the verge of their broken relationship. He can give them the feeling that even if they think they have failed as a couple, they have been wonderful parents and that should be another reason why they should give their relationship a second chance

5. Why do teens get addicted to drugs? Are family issues a cause of such actions?

Negligence, Loneliness, Some mental trauma of the past and a spoilt group of kids around whom he starts thinking as friends. Sure, a lot of it may have to do with some of the family issues and conflicts that the teenager is trying to cope up with day in and day out.

6. Name 3 best ways a Parent can support their child if their child is in a gang.

Spend more loving and quality time with the child.

Spend more loving and quality time with the child

Spend more loving and quality time with the child

7. How much should a parent care about their child's grades?

To the extent that the child is performing according to his/her potential. Not every child is a genius and the parents need to set the expectations accordingly for his/her performance.

8. Is it good, for the child, for the parents to be Over-Protective?

No. They are hindering the personality and confidence growth of the child by doing that.

9. Are parent's over-protective because they don't trust their child enough to be independent? How would a child avoid this?

Yes, that can be a reason for sure. The child can avoid this by not hiding information from the parent, and sharing his good and bad experience with his parents as a friend. Yes, some initial mistakes can be done, but experience and proper advice will take those imperfections away

10. second part of number 9. Is it a good solution to child's problem?

Yes it is

Okay...Caption time : 😃

Write captions using member's names& describe the situation in each..

Originally posted by: jayc1234

😕 Barnali'di, please help 😭

1. Salt, 2. Sugar (in many dishes we do add a pinch of sugar), 3. Haldi, 4. Lal Mirch powder, 5. Dhaniya powder, 6. Bhuna Jeera powder, 7. Adrak paste, 8. Lehsun paste, 9. Solid Cumin seeds, 10. Panch phoron, 11. Fennel seeds (saunf), 12. Mustard seeds, 13. Posto (or poppy seed or khaskhas), 14. Cardamom (Elaichi), 15. Cinnamon (Dalchini), 16. Clove (laung), 17. Coconut (grated), 18. Heeng, 19. Til (Sesame seeds) 20. Tej patta

Now, please dont ask me to cook a dish with all of this 😕

excellent jaya..before i tell you my next q..i want to tell you i always used to say " punch phoron" as punch photan😆..just few days ago i gave adi a receipe and wrote punch photan in that and he was asking me what kind of spice is that 😆..

chalo the next q is .. nahi abhi khana bananae kae leyein nahi keh rahii...

my question is...

what is one dish that you know how to make it right..perhaps something your hubby says " jaya its perfect" 😆..aab yeh answer doo.. jaldi doo.. so i can ask you my other question..

Originally posted by: jayc1234

Am I reading it correctly?😕 Was it Chhotu who asked these questions?😕

Chhotu - I am proud of you 🤗

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yup, it was me...am pretty sure I won't be typing another one of those for a while😆
i will if you want though 😃😉

Suny these were really good questions...woh osama, bush, ravan...bahut poochte ho, unhe kum karke aise poocho..it will help you too to understand parents perspective from other perosn too....

Originally posted by: SmarterDesiKid

😆😆😆
yup, it was me...am pretty sure I won't be typing another one of those for a while😆
i will if you want though 😃😉

Some more Jaya. They say the more you use your brain, the better it becomes 😈
1) Do you think the world would be a quieter and better place if there was no patriotism?
2)Aren't Indians over-philosophical? (this is a complaint I hear from non-Indians!)
3)Isn't our world of virtual friendships taking us away from real friends? Aren't we making an artifical cocoon? Also, doesn't this make us more sedentary - we are anyway doing desk-bound jobs - why add to this by having virtual friends?

Hey guess what...feel like asking another question...😛

Give 10 reasons why Don Gang will never win a battle against RR gang?😛

jaya after you reply to my answer please if you can PM me...so i can find it 😊

hey Jaya, all these intervening pages and the thought is stronger than ever- you are simply one heck of a gracious, brilliant lady!

ps. i was looking for the deep "Jaya" answer to Jadoo's brilliant "meaning of life" questions earlier. didnt find it, but dont know if i somehow missed it. am also looking forward to seeing what you have to say on Sahana's.

kabhie toh kuch seekna hai mujhe bhee. thanks and

happy valentine's

Originally posted by: manjujain

Suny these were really good questions...woh osama, bush, ravan...bahut poochte ho, unhe kum karke aise poocho..it will help you too to understand parents perspective from other perosn too....

I agree and disagree here - These were brilliant questions Chhotu 👏 And I hope you got some answers from them...😊

And Di - yes, the questions are cool... but aise questions to main, aap hum sab poochh sakte hai.. But Suny ke woh crazy questions aur koi nahi poochh sakta... They are awesome... Its real fun answering them as well, u do need to think out of the box... Woh questions agar motw se chale gaye, mujhe to lagta hai iska charm hi chala jayega...

So Suny - in short and sweet, do ask questions as above once in a while, but I just love the very Suny-ish questions. They are a treat 😃