Clarification from your reporter - Page 21

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

thanx for those words.... Actually it is the first time that shady's any post is trashed and that to with those words so it was obvious he would be hurt..... U have every right to close the topics which u feel have problems....

if u say that words were harsh.... we are not targetting for no reason.... but as u apologised the issue is at rest now thanks😃

when I have every right to close any topic, which I think has a problem, then why am I or any other mod is questioned??

and u didn't answer my questions.

Originally posted by: Bhaskar.T

Shady you want appology from MsBB for calling you post as false. What about you now calling me a liar. WILL YOU APPOLOGISE NOW WHEN MsBB has done???

Bhaskar, I asked for an apology AFTER it was proven that I did not post any false info - and Vijay had indeed said that.

If Mohini admits that she has sent you such a PM or posted something like that on the forum, or if you can show me a screenshot of the PM, then it will be proven that you were not lyring, and I will also apologize to you.

And the difference here is - I waited many days, and checked with not 1, not 2, but 3 members who were there to be reasonably sure - before accusing you. Did Ms BB check with anyone before accusing me? Did she ask Vijay if there indeed is such a feature?

There's a big difference there. I'm sure you can see it.

Originally posted by: Ms. Bholi Bhali

when I have every right to close any topic, which I think has a problem, then why am I or any other mod is questioned??

and u didn't answer my questions.

I did answer....

1. I can not speak on behalf of shady, who thought the thread was perfectly fine.... I gave my opinion that the thread may be closed if Dev team think that it may hurt the forum....

2. I, throughout the thread opposed only one word from only one mod that is CRIME which is now settled😃

3. I agree that the members who have made personal attacks on mods without any sufficient proof shall apologise on open forum.... and I have done it once😃

What mohini said in PM I have no clue, what I am talking baout is just open forum and if she said what PM shows that's completely wrong I totally agree with that.

Originally posted by: manjujain

Priya ji, are you saying things were written on open forum? she did say something comparing god with parents but not abusive.

Dekho mujhe to shady ne poocha sach sach bata diya meine as I was there whole time, mere liye to sabhi pyare hain, par jo dekha woh bataya shady ko & I had the copy of the posts before they were trashed.

Manju, you are senior and I respect your age.

But just as you had seen the post, I had seen the post too, comparing parents and wishing that Bhaskar loses his parents for making fun of God.

Jaise aapne Shady ko bata diya, hume jo dekha, humne bata diya.

Farak sirf itna hai, you had the hindsight to copy paste those topics before they were edited. I did not do it, because they were so disgraceful, that I in my wildest dreams would not have wished that for anyone and found it in very vile taste.... so did not even want to keep it. BUt I cannot deny the fact that it was there on the forum.

ON THE MOHINI ISSUE, THERE WONT BE ANY FURTHER TALK.

There may be two, three or four sides of the story. But what she did was despicible, as seen by the Moderator, viewbie and other members of the forum, who were present at that time.

For future, it will serve as an example. For past is history.

Lets move on please

Originally posted by: gauri_2

Okay Anu, I won't post on this thread anymore but think about it girl...why are the same issues cropping up again. Adi amde this post against Shady:

"Shady,

the fact that you posted a very private conversation here publicly tells me a different story.You could have Pmed it to me as well.

Did Adi post that? Is that the post where it says 'deleted'?

Adi - please go back a few pages. I told you to PM me if you want to know why I think Bhaskar is dishonest, as I don't want to take that Viewbie's name in the forum.

But you continued to stress on the forum. And asked the same Where was Bhaskar dishonest' question again. So I posted it is public forum.

I did give you an alternative. You didn't take it, and you didn't leave me with any.

Originally posted by: shadyhtown

I don't know Indian Law, but in the US - you have to prove someone's crime beyond any reasonable doubt'.

I will pm you on this subject and show you "proof beyond reasonable doubt"

I have to rush out right now, as I am very very late for a meeting.

Will be back in the evening or later at night, when I will send it to you.

Shady,

If you genuninely want to find a solution, I suggest, lets wait for a while, lets work this out on pms.

Originally posted by: Iron

What do members want
No favoratism or groupism favor to Members
why is it some can escape or do things they want and some cannot


A fool proof system so that they can not get banned on basis of PM or for just not being favorate of the mods.
Members make a mistake..they appolize and get warning and get banned,but should be open with reasoning.

If that wouldnt have been the case then we would not have been discussing it here also and the topic would have been long time closed.

Originally posted by: Iron

Whatdo Mods want

Right to ban and bash left and right.Mods make mistake then they crib, they are members too and human being so can make mistake but have ego to appolozise and easily close issue..donot care if hurts any member or members.
Look after their friends and encourage them so that a group can bash peopel and they come at the end like typical Indian police

I would suggest that lets not GENERALISE and then even the Dev Team are members too.

Originally posted by: Iron

WHat does Vijay wants

All Green with least expense.......Mods/Dev team ishardly any expense. Who does not love free bies. So as long as he has green he will not care. Expectation and commitment changes when you pay some one vs you can get work done for nothing..so lets Mod do what they want

Well if that would have been the case then almost all of the Goldies, Rockers and others would have been made moderator and we do not have to be that selective.

Originally posted by: Iron

Problem...not realizing volunteer work has responsibility too.I am a active community volunteer and have some volunteers work for me too, but it is discilined as I hate sloppy work. Any volunteer who is not committed and does not take responsibilty, is not a true volunteer.

Not just the Moderator even the Members have a responsibility towards the forum and its smooth functioning.