Abhi,
You and me have a thing in common..guess what ??? This year both of us touch a milestone - complete 25 years of existence...
OK.. no warm up round from me...a case of exhausted question bank..😆
These are all situational questions on demerits in virtual friendship.
We keep always talking great things about virtual friendship...the debater in me wanted to see the negative side as well. So the ball now is in your court....
"In a virtual world these kind of situations may arise, but they are in no way applicable to anyone in India forums..these are mere hypothetical situations" :
- You connect with some people in the virtual world and then there is a possibility that you share personal information as well or your thoughts/views etc. Someone from this close group of friends now misuses these transcripts & shares your secrets with someone else and you get to know about it. Can you trust another virtual friend enough after that to share your vulnerable moments?
- You consider your virtual world as your family and you share your personal joys and pathos with them. But one virtual friend although is nice to congratulate you decides your joys and sorrows whatever you shared is nothing but a product of your "hara bhara" imagination and has no basis and has a good laugh about it with some others or tries convincing them that you are over imaginative and live in a fantasy land.Somehow you come to know of this. How would you react ?
- Someone in a virtual world doubts your integrity by believing some circumstantial evidence (right or wrong) and jumps to conclusion that you cheated. You tell no I haven't and the person agrees because you tell and you can still see a grain of doubt there but he/she tells you let bygones be bygones and move forward leaving this behind. You are hurt but since this person is important to you , u try placing a final evidence to prove your innocence but that person has decided to forget it as bygones and doesn't care to see your last piece of evidence not come and tell you, I think I made a mistake about you.
My question to you is, a virtual relationship is based on trust .When you see someone doubting your integrity or distrusting you and then pretending all is well, what should you do.. follow the let bygones be bygones theory or what??..if you were to be in such a situation (GOD forbid) what would you have done?
- You have a virtual friend, who you meet in real life. Will this cause a change in your relationship?
- In virtual world we often see promises like "I am just a PM away" or whenever you need me, I'll be there for you. How true do you think is the promise?Are these virtual friends really there to hold your hand when u need them or just ignore your PM or be very vague..?
Cheers.👍🏼
Edited by adi_0112 - 19 years ago