This Weeks MOTW : kabhi (Abhi) - Page 11

Originally posted by: SmarterDesiKid

Congrats 👏
just to start -

Please explain why Ravan has ten heads, and would have no difficulty driving a regular Honda Accord LX on the roads of US 😆

😆 Think beyond Ravan - Sunny 😆

Originally posted by: jayc1234

😆 Think beyond Ravan - Sunny 😆

that's only the beginnning Jaya

Agge deckho, HOTA hai kya [got that from Saarakar😆]

Originally posted by: adi_0112

Abhi,

You and me have a thing in common..guess what ??? This year both of us touch a milestone - complete 25 years of existence...

OK.. no warm up round from me...a case of exhausted question bank..

These are all situational questions on demerits in virtual friendship. I did not ask u situational once so tht u wont ask me😡😆J K

We keep always talking great things about virtual friendship...the debater in me wanted to see the negative side as well. So the ball now is in your court....

"In a virtual world these kind of situations may arise, but they are in no way applicable to anyone in <ST1:COUNTRY-REGIoN w:st="on">India</ST1:COUNTRY-REGIoN> forums..these are mere hypothetical situations" :

1. You connect with some people in the virtual world and then there is a possibility that you share personal information as well or your thoughts/views etc. Someone from this close group of friends now misuses these transcripts & shares your secrets with someone else and you get to know about it. Can you trust another virtual friend enough after that to share your vulnerable moments?

2. These are the tough once. I would see the ways I had perceived that person to be and the qualities which I gathered from the conversation which brought me so near to the friend. Then will look out for the mistake that I did. Whenver I make friends later I will make sure that I don't repeat the mistakes…. But such incidence can not stop me from making close friends. As per financial theory 8 out of 10 businesses incur losses so that does not mean u stop doing business.

1. You consider your virtual world as your family and you share your personal joys and pathos with them. But one virtual friend although is nice to congratulate you decides your joys and sorrows whatever you shared is nothing but a product of your "hara bhara" imagination and has no basis and has a good laugh about it with some others or tries convincing them that you are over imaginative and live in a fantasy land.Somehow you come to know of this. How would you react ?

2. I have been many times considered Over smart rude over confident. I had been the way I am without any problem with anyone and within a short time the people change their opinion. Same way I wont do anything. When the other members interact with me they will come to know how much honest I am and How much imaginative I am.

1. Someone in a virtual world doubts your integrity by believing some circumstantial evidence (right or wrong) and jumps to conclusion that you cheated. You tell no I haven't and the person agrees because you tell and you can still see a grain of doubt there but he/she tells you let bygones be bygones and move forward leaving this behind. You are hurt but since this person is important to you , u try placing a final evidence to prove your innocence but that person has decided to forget it as bygones and doesn't care to see your last piece of evidence not come and tell you, I think I made a mistake about you.

2. If he says he had mistaken I wl forget it. Otherwise I wl allow the time to prove my innocense

My question to you is, a virtual relationship is based on trust .When you see someone doubting your integrity or distrusting you and then pretending all is well, what should you do.. follow the let bygones be bygones theory or what??..if you were to be in such a situation (GOD forbid) what would you have done?

A mixture of all the answers above

1. You have a virtual friend, who you meet in real life. Will this cause a change in your relationship?

2. Yes positively

1. In virtual world we often see promises like "I am just a PM away" or whenever you need me, I'll be there for you. How true do you think is the promise?Are these virtual friends really there to hold your hand when u need them or just ignore your PM or be very vague..?

2. You can know after a few interactions, who is saying it through heart and who is saying it just like that…..

Cheers.

Very Interesting, I just loved the questions, now waiting for analysis😆

Here is to understand the kind of person you are. Of the following characters / people, whom do you identify with most closely? Why? Also for the one you choose - what one thing would you want to change in him?

1. Mahatma Gandhi / Subhash Chandra Bose / Bhagat Singh

2. Arjun / Karna / Krishna

3. Swami Vivekanada / Raja Ram Mohan Roy / Ishwar Chandra Vidyasagar

4. George Bush / Adolf Hitler / Saddam Hussain

5. Rahul Dravid / Saurav Ganguli / Anil Kumble

6. Superman / Spiderman / Batman

7. Himesh Reshammiya / Leslie Lewis / Abhijeet

8. Ajay Devgan in Hum dil de chuke sanam / Zakhm / Company

9. Amir Khan in DCH / Saif Ali Khan in DCH / Akshay Khanna in DCH

10. Amitabh Bachhan in Sholay / Abhimaan / Chupke Chupke

Originally posted by: SmarterDesiKid

Congrats 👏
just to start -

Please explain why Ravan has ten heads, and would have no difficulty driving a regular Honda Accord LX on the roads of US 😆

With ten heads Ravan cant seat in the car. Hence he does not drive the car.... The one who does not drive the car has no difficulty while driving😆

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

With ten heads Ravan cant seat in the car. Hence he does not drive the car.... The one who does not drive the car has no difficulty while driving😆

😆great

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

Thanks dude,

kewl answers...and for the analysis ??

well...I can say you have responded very maturedly and I am lucky to have you as my friend..

LEST RACK !!!👍🏼

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

1. You connect with some people in the virtual world and then there is a possibility that you share personal information as well or your thoughts/views etc. Someone from this close group of friends now misuses these transcripts & shares your secrets with someone else and you get to know about it. Can you trust another virtual friend enough after that to share your vulnerable moments?

2. These are the tough once. I would see the ways I had perceived that person to be and the qualities which I gathered from the conversation which brought me so near to the friend. Then will look out for the mistake that I did. Whenver I make friends later I will make sure that I don't repeat the mistakes…. But such incidence can not stop me from making close friends. As per financial theory 8 out of 10 businesses incur losses so that does not mean u stop doing business.

Agree with you completely Abhi. as you know I do help people in society there has been cases when people ditches you even in real not just in virtual, I didn't stop it. yes we need to be little more careful in future but we don't stop it.

1. You have a virtual friend, who you meet in real life. Will this cause a change in your relationship?

2. Yes positively

I experienced it, as after meeting the person you feel more closer to them or it may be otherway too, fortunately which has not been the case with me until now.

1. In virtual world we often see promises like "I am just a PM away" or whenever you need me, I'll be there for you. How true do you think is the promise?Are these virtual friends really there to hold your hand when u need them or just ignore your PM or be very vague..?

2. You can know after a few interactions, who is saying it through heart and who is saying it just like that…..

Agree with you on this very much, there have been few cases where I have been proven wrong in judging person, but mostly I have been right. Key is lot of communication and keep your eyes open, that helps .