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Anolda,

My questions are based on hypothetical situations bearing no resemblance to situations to any known individuals including me. 😛Some of these situations we often come across in movies but are also quite possible to face them in real lives as well. They have haunted me at times, so I would like an expert's opinion on it.

1. Imagine, you are your parents' only son. Your mom's world starts and ends with you. You go and fall in love with this very nice girl who is an orphan brought up by some distant relatives who are not very nice to her. Then you get married to her and start living happily with wife and parents. Your wife is a very loving and caring kind of a person .Your mom and wife get very possessive about you and this leads to a big ego problem between the two. Both get nasty to each other and you cannot blame either one alone. You have tried your best to make each one feel secure but in vain. One fine day they both come and tell you "chose either her or me". What will you do?? Who will you choose???

1. Imagine you have a friend who is going through a rough patch financially. One fine day you hear that his loved one is in coma and in life support. Doctors have no clue whether this person will come out of this situation or will if at all come out of coma. After a month of observing, the doctors tell him that he has to take a decision regarding continuing the life support since doctors cannot really tell of the possibilities. Your friend in the meanwhile is up to his necks in debt paying for all the expenses. He cannot think of a life without this person either. He comes to you for advice. What would you suggest ??? Euthanasia or continuation of support??

1. Imagine you are very much in love with a girl who loves you too. One day there is a big misunderstanding, you two fight and break up and don't meet gain. With passage of time you get used to life without her thanks to your best friend (your mothers best friends daughter) who pulls you out of the misery. One day your folks tell you to marry your best friend and you agree. Your best friend, now your fiance tells you that all these years she had always secretly hoped that you would marry her and loves you a lot. You are happy with the alliance but that extra zing is somehow missing. About a week before marriage you bump into your ex girlfriend accidentally and sit down for a cup of coffee. Over coffee you realise that both of you were victim of circumstances and neither of you were at fault. Had you both sat down and talked things out, things could have easily been sorted out. Both of you realise that you love each other a lot .If you break up with your fiance, your entire family, her entire family and your best friend will be devastated for life. What will you do?? Go get married to your fiance or marry your ex.??? Please give reasons for your choice.

1. Imagine yourself as a business partner with your buddy from college. You both are very compatible mentally, your ideas match, the work is good and business is flourishing. You have very high opinion of him and he seems very loving and caring kind to you. One day accidentally you see a very mean personal side of your partner. At home he is abusive to his wife and kids and mentally tortures them. He also frequently cheats on his wife. You were totally in the dark before of this side. After seeing this side of him and the trauma his family has to go through because of his darker side, what will you do? Continue being his partner or get out of the partnership?? Please substantiate your choice.

1. Imagine a situation ;

You and your wife have always dreamt that your daughter will be a famous doctor one day and from her childhood you have got this idea instilled in her brain and she also starts thinking that way. She is waiting for her high school results and is sure to get A+ grade to get admission to med school. One day while she is waiting for the results, she watches a documentary on a third world country and is moved beyond words on the suffering of the children over there. It overwhelms her so much that she instantly decides she doesn't want to do medicine but become a teacher and teach in a third world country.

She comes and tells you both about her plan. She is adamant that is what she wants to do. What will you both do?? Dissuade her from her chosen path and bring her back to your dreams or let her follow her own dreams? Explain your choice please.

I guess for the time being these are enough. I shall be back with more later on.😃👍🏼

Originally posted by: teenindia_usa

Anolbahi, Tussi great ho, and happy U the MOTW...and may request stories that are long awaiting.

Also, I knew it...Just had that gut instinct it wouldbe my Anolbahi 😛


So Anolbhai I will have questions 4 U to answer ....Maybe should search those old stories.....

Originally posted by: adi_0112

Anolda,

My questions are based on hypothetical situations bearing no resemblance to situations to any known individuals including me. 😛Some of these situations we often come across in movies but are also quite possible to face them in real lives as well. They have haunted me at times, so I would like an expert's opinion on it.

1. Imagine, you are your parents' only son. Your mom's world starts and ends with you. You go and fall in love with this very nice girl who is an orphan brought up by some distant relatives who are not very nice to her. Then you get married to her and start living happily with wife and parents. Your wife is a very loving and caring kind of a person .Your mom and wife get very possessive about you and this leads to a big ego problem between the two. Both get nasty to each other and you cannot blame either one alone. You have tried your best to make each one feel secure but in vain. One fine day they both come and tell you "chose either her or me". What will you do?? Who will you choose???

1. Imagine you have a friend who is going through a rough patch financially. One fine day you hear that his loved one is in coma and in life support. Doctors have no clue whether this person will come out of this situation or will if at all come out of coma. After a month of observing, the doctors tell him that he has to take a decision regarding continuing the life support since doctors cannot really tell of the possibilities. Your friend in the meanwhile is up to his necks in debt paying for all the expenses. He cannot think of a life without this person either. He comes to you for advice. What would you suggest ??? Euthanasia or continuation of support??

1. Imagine you are very much in love with a girl who loves you too. One day there is a big misunderstanding, you two fight and break up and don't meet gain. With passage of time you get used to life without her thanks to your best friend (your mothers best friends daughter) who pulls you out of the misery. One day your folks tell you to marry your best friend and you agree. Your best friend, now your fiance tells you that all these years she had always secretly hoped that you would marry her and loves you a lot. You are happy with the alliance but that extra zing is somehow missing. About a week before marriage you bump into your ex girlfriend accidentally and sit down for a cup of coffee. Over coffee you realise that both of you were victim of circumstances and neither of you were at fault. Had you both sat down and talked things out, things could have easily been sorted out. Both of you realise that you love each other a lot .If you break up with your fiance, your entire family, her entire family and your best friend will be devastated for life. What will you do?? Go get married to your fiance or marry your ex.??? Please give reasons for your choice.

1. Imagine yourself as a business partner with your buddy from college. You both are very compatible mentally, your ideas match, the work is good and business is flourishing. You have very high opinion of him and he seems very loving and caring kind to you. One day accidentally you see a very mean personal side of your partner. At home he is abusive to his wife and kids and mentally tortures them. He also frequently cheats on his wife. You were totally in the dark before of this side. After seeing this side of him and the trauma his family has to go through because of his darker side, what will you do? Continue being his partner or get out of the partnership?? Please substantiate your choice.

1. Imagine a situation ;

You and your wife have always dreamt that your daughter will be a famous doctor one day and from her childhood you have got this idea instilled in her brain and she also starts thinking that way. She is waiting for her high school results and is sure to get A+ grade to get admission to med school. One day while she is waiting for the results, she watches a documentary on a third world country and is moved beyond words on the suffering of the children over there. It overwhelms her so much that she instantly decides she doesn't want to do medicine but become a teacher and teach in a third world country.

She comes and tells you both about her plan. She is adamant that is what she wants to do. What will you both do?? Dissuade her from her chosen path and bring her back to your dreams or let her follow her own dreams? Explain your choice please.

I guess for the time being these are enough. I shall be back with more later on.😃👍🏼

Originally posted by: Bhaskar.T

Okay chalo ab sabhi.......

Bakra ne kaha hai ki woh halal ke liye tayiyaar hai Ab 😆 😆

Chalo shuru ho jao sab..........

All the best Buddy...... Main tumhe chhorta hu 😆 Kyuki mujhe pata hai tumhara haal mere bagair hi bura hone waala hai 😆 😆

😆

Dost ho toh aisa.. dostke haal kitne aachi tarah samajh liya..😆

Anolda,

Welcome to the HOT SEAT !!!

Don't worry I am with you..I'll keep away Deep, Jaya and Shady from you.They giove the toughest questions though easier than what you give.

Originally posted by: soulsoup

You took the whole week to make this one?
Adiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii 😡

😆😆😆 thy r too gud anol. I really pity yu. 😆😆😆

Originally posted by: soulsoup

You took the whole week to make this one?
Adiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii 😡

Not really,😛 it took me about 10 minutes max..that too because i had received a phone call !!😃😛😛

Don't let any body trouble you. I am with you. Just bol dena kiska band bajana hain..😛😆😆

Cheers!!