Ismail Darbar connection- Poonam's suicide attempt

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 16 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: bunbutt_too

Varshaji I feel relieved knowing that Nihira's mom always accompanied her when she was a contestant in Challenge 2005.

Bbji Our Beloved Nihira Vijay Joshi is of a totally different breed...Umaji always accompanied her and made sure things were proper....Nihira herself has stayed away from most of these reality or road shows...I have met them personally and can vouch that what ever Nihira does, is a family decision and (parents) especially Mom is with & behind her 100%...

One levelheaded girl....

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 16 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: sonam_s
Poonam was discharged from the hospital last night and her condition is absoloutely stable. The family managed to avoid the media and the police. There probably won't be any investigation as a family's honour is at stake.

Source: Tellychakkar

I am just relieved that Poonam's condition is stable...She should get psychiatric counselling-therapy so she does not take another attempt at Suicide....God bless her!!!

Hmmmmm.....Wonder which family they are mentioning here....Poonam & her family already have been all over the media...Is it to protect the other family's honor? 😕😳

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Sonam

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Posted: 16 years ago

#73

It referred to Poonam's family. If her relationship with Ismail turns out to be true, she would face alot of shame and embarassment in her life as she belongs to a poor family from a small town. In smaller towns and cities, it's the women who always have to face unwanted shame for the rest of their lives.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: sonam_s
It referred to Poonam's family. If her relationship with Ismail turns out to be true, she would face alot of shame and embarassment in her life as she belongs to a poor family from a small town. In smaller towns and cities, it's the women who always have to face unwanted shame for the rest of their lives.

I was also thinking so. He is an woman and in India that too especially in small town, they are the one who suffered most. I wish she could be okay with her psychological state of mind too. I m wondering if she could be able to face fellow employee once she get back to work.

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Sonam

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Posted: 16 years ago

#75

^^That's something she will have to deal with and she needs to build strength from the inside to overcome the taunts of people. God gave her a second chance to live life and I hope she makes full use of it.

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lifeztuf

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Posted: 16 years ago

#76

😔 shocking news..I'm really worried for Poonam. Whether ID is involved or not is a different matter but after all this, can she live in the society (which in India is definitely conservative) with dignity ? Can she bear the defaming rumours(or truth whatever) added to the repurcussions of a suicide attempt added to her pain of a broken relationship(or whatsoever led to her suicide attempt)??????

I can just pray that she gets good counselling and recovers..

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Summer3

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Posted: 16 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: lifeztuf
😔 shocking news..I'm really worried for Poonam. Whether ID is involved or not is a different matter but after all this, can she live in the society (which in India is definitely conservative) with dignity ? Can she bear the defaming rumours(or truth whatever) added to the repurcussions of a suicide attempt added to her pain of a broken relationship(or whatsoever led to her suicide attempt)??????

I can just pray that she gets good counselling and recovers..

I hope God gives her the necessary strength. She is a very nice person .

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Sonam

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Posted: 16 years ago

#78

The reality of such mentors taking advantage of their students should be revealed. Its a very important topic which parents need to start discussing if they do have children or relatives interested in participating in a musical or even a dance reality show. Awareness should and must be spread.

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mintyblue

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Posted: 16 years ago

#79

Originally posted by: sonam_s

The reality of such mentors taking advantage of their students should be revealed. Its a very important topic which parents need to start discussing if they do have children or relatives interested in participating in a musical or even a dance reality show. Awareness should and must be spread.

I totally agree with you. I had heard some romours about a mentor in junoon musical show also. there the participant in question and Poonam are young adults. hopefully they can distinguish right from wrong. at the same time, a beoken promise may break hearts permamnetly. we cannot absolve the mentor of all guilt.

SEecondly, today the above 18 generation is very smart. vulnerable,but they know what thye want. o if it happens to somone above 18 or 21 yrs, we cannot blame it on parents for not supporting them. Poonam,sumedha,pryani, sumitra,arshpreet,torsha,tullika and naina saxena are all young women. they can make choices hopefully for themslves.

Thirdly,the economin background. women like poonam,vaishali,shini,geeetashri of chote ustaad are not from well off familires. they can get exploited easily. they believe in false promises and give in to pressure. you cannot blam ethem. subjectivities differ,of course.

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: sonam_s

It referred to Poonam's family. If her relationship with Ismail turns out to be true, she would face alot of shame and embarassment in her life as she belongs to a poor family from a small town. In smaller towns and cities, it's the women who always have to face unwanted shame for the rest of their lives.

Yes I totally agree...she has to carry the shame for the whole thing....how sad....

Hope god gives her strength to get out of this ugly situation, become strong and move on....