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ssuuvvii

@ssuuvvii

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Posted: 7 years ago

#21

i acknowledge actor's weakness even if he//shes my fav.

i m neither constantly mentioning it nor being forceful.

rather more than me the ppl who r opening these threads abt not liking crticizing posts on donal's acting r cuming across as forceful & it luks like they dont want 2 see faults of their fav.

even ur this posts luks like that only.

sorry if i offended u but i also felt that u were wrong in putting blames on me.

now i understood the prsn whos not gud enough in sumthing if his/her shortcumings r told they feel it more bcoz truth hurts.

and irony is that those ppl who bashed donal so much r saying that i m bashing.

Ppl have put their opinion in seperate thread about donal..They dont go in very damn thread to say donal cant act donal cant act... Even I dont like chandani acting...So i simply avoid her thread ...Her visibility was more than donal in these episodes...But still i refrain myself to commnt about her . Cz em not here to upset her fans..Em here for shashank...So i simply focus on him..But u visit each thread nd specially mention about donal .

This thread itself a proof that so many people here are not liking your ranting at all..So I suggest you to ignore donal or make anti thread daily for your ranting so that So we can choose to not visit that thread instead of finding your same commnt on every posts

Edited by ssuuvvii - 7 years ago

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Lennie

@Lennie

Trailblazer

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Posted: 7 years ago

#22

ssuuvvii - I had been saying the same thing yesterday. That it's such a put off seeing constantly and repeatedly the same comments in each topic and each comment, either i make or someone else does.

Now that more people are noticing the behaviour and the kind of comments, then that should tell someone that somewhere in your replies there needs to be a change or how you address some things.

I said it before I like BOTH Shashank and Donal, and for me getting to know they would be working together was a good news to hear and then coming as a pairing was even more exciting but i still remained cautious because the main thing is how they will look on-screen and come across and to me they are pretty good as a presence and acting.

So for me the issue is not cos i like DB has to be a put down on SV, or the vice versa. As i like both.

I am just getting put off with the constant same reply. I have to think twice if i want to write my comment or if i want to make a topic due to someone hijacking it and saying disagree and then write a long list of the same thing like its a given fact and how wrong i am and what they say is right and a fact.

Even in the Mr Khwab thread which pretty much states its as a RooShika post, even then repeatedly the same comments in each post.

Sorry for long reply here, Just wanted to say this. Thanks.

Edited by Lennie - 7 years ago

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LiveLifeHonest

@LiveLifeHonest

Navigator

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Posted: 7 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: tiny15
i acknowledge actor's weakness even if he//shes my fav.
i m neither constantly mentioning it nor being forceful.
rather more than me the ppl who r opening these threads abt not liking crticizing posts on donal's acting r cuming across as forceful & it luks like they dont want 2 see faults of their fav.
even ur this posts luks like that only.
sorry if i offended u but i also felt that u were wrong in putting blames on me.
now i understood the prsn whos not gud enough in sumthing if his/her shortcumings r told they feel it more bcoz truth hurts.

and irony is that those ppl who bashed donal so much r saying that i m bashing.

The thing is many people do agree that Donal needs to improve. But they don't go around constantly saying that Donal can't act. And Donal can't act is not a truth. It's an opinion. Some Donal fans don't feel that way and though I don't agree with them, I'm not going to insist that they adopt my view. It's a perception of Donal- so I can't debate that as everyone has an individual perception. I would only disagree if there's something that can be debated- something like Donal's acting craft or something.

Moreover, people won't stop coming not because their views are accepted, but because they have no place to mention their views. Every actor deserves to be criticised, but there doesn't have to be a mention of Donal's poor acting in almost every thread. I think the TM too is irritated with that rather than the fact that there is a thread to critique Donal.

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

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Posted: 7 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

i acknowledge actor's weakness even if he//shes my fav.

i m neither constantly mentioning it nor being forceful.

rather more than me the ppl who r opening these threads abt not liking crticizing posts on donal's acting r cuming across as forceful & it luks like they dont want 2 see faults of their fav.

even ur this posts luks like that only.

sorry if i offended u but i also felt that u were wrong in putting blames on me.

now i understood the prsn whos not gud enough in sumthing if his/her shortcumings r told they feel it more bcoz truth hurts.

and irony is that those ppl who bashed donal so much r saying that i m bashing.

i think in the thread which u mentioned in oder threads also ppl put their POVs regarding all ckts & actors.

and not just donal even on the posts on chandani or palak i m also criticizing her acting.

where i spcly mentioned donal if sum1 hasnt mentioned taht in the thread?

and wen every1 is putting their views on whole epi/scene or ckts/actors involved in that then why not oders who dont like her acting. and only talk abt her acting.

why shud i make anti thread daily? that will b more of bashing.

and if ppl r not like my posts then i'd said they r free 2 post against it or not 2 hit like button.

why r u saying that ppl choose 2 ignore that thread.

they can still do that .not 2 hit like button or disagree wid my post

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 7 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

The thing is many people do agree that Donal needs to improve. But they don't go around constantly saying that Donal can't act. And Donal can't act is not a truth. It's an opinion. Some Donal fans don't feel that way and though I don't agree with them, I'm not going to insist that they adopt my view. It's a perception of Donal- so I can't debate that as everyone has an individual perception. I would only disagree if there's something that can be debated- something like Donal's acting craft or something.

Moreover, people won't stop coming not because their views are accepted, but because they have no place to mention their views. Every actor deserves to be criticised, but there doesn't have to be a mention of Donal's poor acting in almost every thread. I think the TM too is irritated with that rather than the fact that there is a thread to critique Donal.

see no where i said she cant act.

i never said on this forum she cant act.

and just tell me where did i forced my POV on them & asked them 2 accept that donal cant act .i just stated my POV that i dint find that thing in her in that scene even if sum1 has found.

had u seen that post. i said sorry i disagree wid u. i cudnt find coordination.like this stuff.

where'd i said no there was no expressions.

wenever i posted i said i dint find or in my view shes not up2 the mark or any suhc statement.

@bold why they hav no place 2 mention their views? ppl r mentioning it but asking oders 2 stop criticizing.

and i hadnt mention donal cant act. i only said wat i dint find & oders find.only disagreed wid that.

why cant i disagree wid that? why cant i say that i dint like this thing in her acting or epi if i dnit like?

wheres it bcum a ranting?

see if sum1 is saying that i find roop is doing this or ishika or sum actor 's this thing i like. and sum1 dont like then shudnt he/she say it like that i agree on this aprt but rest dont & give reason.so how cum thats forceful or ranting

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ssuuvvii

@ssuuvvii

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

#26

@dolly - it's not about liking or not liking..if u keep commenting anti stuff on same thread people are bound to read your post..but if u make will anti thread ..ppl can choose not to visit there & abstain from your constant ranting...It won't create negativity...Fight happen due to conflicts.. positive thread me negetive baat bologe to conflicts honge hi ...Kisi fan ko scene acha laga tabhi usne special post bnaya...Usko enjoy krne do yaar . Uska mood q kharab krna ..Us thread ko mat kharab kro plz ..Apna alag thread bnao or vha discuss kro..Jo log apse agree krenge vi vhi apse discuss kr lenge ..Or baki log apke thread ko ignore kr lenge jinko Donal ki bashing nhi read krna h ..It won't create any negativity...

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yanks28

@yanks28

Achiever

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Posted: 7 years ago

#27

Dolly whatever ppl said here I tried to tell you the same but privately. I think by now a perception has been formed that shashank fans dislike Donal. Everyone gets that you don't like her acting. Hence they need not be told the same again IMO. If the couples fans open their topic to praise a scene which had Donal in it, and you disliked donals acting in the scene, it's best to ignore that topic altogether. Previously i spent 3 years on the suhani forum.I was admin of yuvraj suhani AT. I loved that couple like anything... A certain section of fandom was anti Yuvraj and would come to the AT to vent their frustrations. They liked the actor but hated he character and begged for a new guy for Suhani. My feelings used to be hurt daily.I tolerated.

We used to get a romantic scene and no one would praise it. Instead they'd come to the AT Yuvraj for XYZ reaction/behavior. It was tough. Eventually they left because I stopped posting in the AT. I had no reply and I wasn't in the mood to fight.

From here onwards there will be many scenes which include Donal. Let's say someone opens a topic to praise Shashank and Yash for their acting for a scene which includes Donal. Will you reply how much you loved shashank and yash or will u say you loved them but Donal acted poorly. Sometimes if we have nothing good to say, its better not to say anything at all.

I tooam not fully satisfied with her. We can discuss it privately. We need not mention it here multiple times. It's hurting many ppl.

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

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Posted: 7 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii
@dolly - it's not about liking or not liking..if u keep commenting anti stuff on same thread people are bound to read your post..but if u make will anti thread ..ppl can choose not to visit there & abstain from your constant ranting...It won't create negativity...Fight happen due to conflicts.. positive thread me negetive baat bologe to conflicts honge hi ...Kisi fan ko scene acha laga tabhi usne special post bnaya...Usko enjoy krne do yaar . Uska mood q kharab krna ..Us thread ko mat kharab kro plz ..Apna alag thread bnao or vha discuss kro..Jo log apse agree krenge vi vhi apse discuss kr lenge ..Or baki log apke thread ko ignore kr lenge jinko Donal ki bashing nhi read krna h ..It won't create any negativity...

i understood wat u r saying suvi.

but i think its wrong 2 open a spl thread 2 mention abt donal's or any1's acting. bcoz thats more of a bashing or trolling and u know how it felt . we hav gone thru same wen threads were opened sply 2 bash shanky & his ckt

see i'd already not mentioning donal's acting in many of my posts.mite hav indirectly posted 1 line unknowingly in my flow.

but how that thread cud b ruined if sum1 post his/her disliking or disagreement on that in normal way & not bashing or name calling.i gave u e.g u'd seen how i replied.

and if u'd said this same thing like this earlier it wudnt'd luked like u r blaming.

lets see wats the future of pairing.

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Lennie

@Lennie

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 7 years ago

#29

Firstly there really should not be a thread about bashing an actor be it someone you dont like and it being a Anti thread. I am sure its not allowed. So no one needs to open these kind of specific thread about neither actors.

These are the main rules...

No Creating repetitive topics: Many times it has come to the attention of the DT that members create topics, that have already been discussed. For example, if you see that someone has already opened a post on today's SBS or SBB segment, there is absolutely no need to create a separate topic for them as anything related to the segment can be all discussed in one thread only which will also keep the forum clean ... So before posting any article or new topic or segment updates ,check the first 2-3 pages and only if there are no similar topics on that article or segment ,then open a separate thread to post it ..Any topics which are found repitative or just have a one liner content will be moved to a common Episode discussion thread ..

No Personal Attacks/Bullying/Name Calling/Sarcastic Comments/Instigating or Provoking posts :Personal attacks with sarcastic comments or making deliberate instigating/provoking posts is another common issue and this is what instigate fights between different fan grps .If a member does not agree with another member's POV,try to ignore the post or simply state your own POV saying "I disagree with you for so and so reason" instead of saying "Just stop your nonsense" ; India-Forums gives us the freedom of expression and so everyone has the right to speak out what they feel is correct as long as we say it in a proper civilised tone .. .So these are the conditions we are putting on this issue hoping that the members will follow it.

If any member finds anything offensive in a particular comment or post of another member,instead of quoting the member back or moral policing ,just report the comment/post immediately by pressing the report button or pm the Dev team and then step out of that thread immediately .Then Wait at least 24 hours for us to take action as its not always possible for us to be online 24/7. But we assure you that action will be taken within 24 hours.

Sarcastic comments or bullying a member will also not be tolerated because even they come under personal attacks..for eg :"Oh she is Miss Mahaan's fangal " ..This is a sarcastic comment where another member is directly getting targetted..If we find anybody involved in such type of sarcastic comment,we will be editing that member's post immediately and will be deleting the comment with a official warning note for the member and even if he/she continues with it, further action will be taken as per the new IF rules and guidelines .

Name Calling of the actors , characters and members have become a very big issue on IF these days where often terms like fanbots/fanimals/fangals/Haters/Bashers etc etc are used to target a certain grp of members and at times various offensive/abusive languages are used against the actors/characters too just to provoke a particular fan group .. No such name calling will be tolerated and action will b taken against any such name calling according to the new IF rules and guidelines set .

Constructive Criticism is allowed but strictly NO Bashing :Many times members have put forward these queires like which words come under constructive criticism and what comes under bashing..let me give you some examples...

Personal attacks/Name calling, using foul language and making derogatory comments against any particular member or character or actor comes under Bashing which is not allowed but disagreeing with someone's POV and stating your own POV with a proper justification and decent language comes under constructive criticism which is allowed.

Usage of extreme foul or filthy languages or curse words (like the B or F word) will not be tolerated and whoever breaks this rule will face a severe action. But usage of words like "what the hell","Mahaan", Kabab mein haddi","Selfish" "Idiot , "Jerk" , Spineless" ,"dumb" , "stupid" ,"moron" can be allowed for characters (not actors) depending on the context in which we are using these words...Such words can be used for constructive criticism provided we know how to use it without hurting the sentiments of any fan group..There is a thin line between constructive criticism of a character and direct character bashing...try to maintain that thin line in your discussions.

If a member is bashing a particular character by using repitative monologue just to instigate a particular fan grp ,don't follow the member and do the same.Instead report the post immediately and try not to comment in that post anymore because the more members comment on such post ,more instigating the topic becomes and this is how fights and rivalries between two fan groups keep extending.So the best way to maintain peace is to ignore any sort of instigating posts as Mods will be there to deal with such posts and members .

Edited by Lennie - 7 years ago

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 7 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: yanks28
Dolly whatever ppl said here I tried to tell you the same but privately. I think by now a perception has been formed that shashank fans dislike Donal. Everyone gets that you don't like her acting. Hence they need not be told the same again IMO. If the couples fans open their topic to praise a scene which had Donal in it, and you disliked donals acting in the scene, it's best to ignore that topic altogether. Previously i spent 3 years on the suhani forum.I was admin of yuvraj suhani AT. I loved that couple like anything... A certain section of fandom was anti Yuvraj and would come to the AT to vent their frustrations. They liked the actor but hated he character and begged for a new guy for Suhani. My feelings used to be hurt daily.I tolerated.
We used to get a romantic scene and no one would praise it. Instead they'd come to the AT Yuvraj for XYZ reaction/behavior. It was tough. Eventually they left because I stopped posting in the AT. I had no reply and I wasn't in the mood to fight.

From here onwards there will be many scenes which include Donal. Let's say someone opens a topic to praise Shashank and Yash for their acting for a scene which includes Donal. Will you reply how much you loved shashank and yash or will u say you loved them but Donal acted poorly. Sometimes if we have nothing good to say, its better not to say anything at all.

I tooam not fully satisfied with her. We can discuss it privately. We need not mention it here multiple times. It's hurting many ppl.

i agree wid u.

if u'd seen my posts nowhere i bashed or name called donal. in fact in my v 1st post i mentioned that like donal a lot bcoz of her gudness off-screen. but just bcoz shes gud i won praise her acting which i dont find gud enough.

@bold i agree & same case here. lets see wat future holds .tho ppl shud b open 2 criticism even if its abt sum1 not liking that scene or her but i will avoid even that.

but i m telling u this is not gud 4 either show or pairing or actress also

wat if 2morrow pairing changed permanently will not ppl mention their displeasure. lets see how many will not behave like they r asking me not 2.