My theory on Meethi's entry!!

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DiRa_Love

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Posted: 7 years ago

Ratan is bloody daata hukum and the one coming is halwai!! Do u guys think a halwai would take place of a kshatrani!! And i knw Ratan is dumb but he thinking abt Meethi as such is impossible!!

I can see yash-mohana relation breaking in future!! And the one who's going to break would be DIYA only!! Ab yash ke liye koi aur ladki bhi tho chahiye na!! So meethi is here!! Diya will be the one who will join these two too!! This will work as aag mein ghee fir Arpita and her "family"!!

Family here i think includes mohana too!! So inn sab mein i think Mohana-Arpitha ka wo maa beti wala pyaar bahar aayega!! And they will unite!!

Coming to Meethi, don't worry yaar!! Ratan will realise his love by himself only!! But aag badne ke liye pehle match stick tho jalana padega!! Wo kaam meethi karegi!!

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VARUNI2014

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Posted: 7 years ago

I hope it goes the way u visualize all I want is the show should not get terminated with bad trp

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VARUNI2014

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Posted: 7 years ago

Ratan is a selfish immature guy if he thinks he can not love diya there is zero possibility of him falling in love with that new gal i.e going by logic but India soPs they won't follow logic so I am not hundred percent sure

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DiRa_Love

@DiRa_Love

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014
Ratan is a selfish immature guy if he thinks he can not love diya there is zero possibility of him falling in love with that new gal i.e going by logic but India soPs they won't follow logic so I am not hundred percent sure

i agree!! When he doesn't see Diya in that view!! He falling for someone else is not logical

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VARUNI2014

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Posted: 7 years ago

In his view diya is the best woman out there .and it's his elfishnesss aNd immaturity that's making g him unfit for diya he is thinking fault is in him that's just 100 percent true

If he thinks he is not fit for marriage for the best woman out there and for the woman he tries to take maximum care how come he will fall in love with some other gal whombe is least concernd

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surbhimathur

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Posted: 7 years ago

Sahi pakde hai sravuu!
Bilkul sahi pakde hai 👏

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VARUNI2014

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Posted: 7 years ago

Script writers devised a powerful intelligent gal role diya but why they make her fall for either bad guys or selfish immature guys be it Abhay or ratan

Hope script writers make diya find some decent mature guy

Though she never intended to be that way she is nothing but disgrace for her dad

30 yr old once engagement fail one marriage fail pehredar daughter

Poor diya dad what adisgrace for him in his Rajput families I can understand

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foresight

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014
In his view diya is the best woman out there .and it's his elfishnesss aNd immaturity that's making g him unfit for diya he is thinking fault is in him that's just 100 percent true
If he thinks he is not fit for marriage for the best woman out there and for the woman he tries to take maximum care how come he will fall in love with some other gal whombe is least concernd

on one hand you are saying he is selfish and immature. on the other hand you are saying he thinks highly of diya and thinks he isn't good enough for her..the woman he is taking maximum care of.

I hope you realise you are contradicting yourself.

A selfish person thinks only of themselves and thinks only about their happiness. not someone else. let alone take maximum care of someone else.

Edited by foresight - 7 years ago

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VARUNI2014

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Posted: 7 years ago

He thinks he is not good for diya bcos he thinks he is unable to adapt himself in marriage i.e he does not want to change himself and sacrifice his freedom for marriage ..

A guy who is unable to do what's needed to be done bcos he can't sacrifice his freedom is called selfish

Thing is he knows he is selfish he knows he is immature that's why he thinks himself unfit at the same time he is not trying to rectify his immaturity or sacrifice his freedom for a person who sacrificed everything for him for 12 yrs so he is selfish

Easy thing available for him is divorcing her in the false hope that she will find a best guy out there..think practically how many chances r there for a 30 yr old gal once marriage cancelled at mandap and once divorced gal to get in to a respectable Rajput family may be one percent chance

So ratan divorcing her dreaming about that one percent chance is heights of immaturity .

What diya asked in video is just feel her love so that he may change in due time yes that's the way marriages work ..and that is called adaptability diya asked ratan for that ..but he is too selfish so he can't show adaptability

No marriage becomes a success bcos two persons rvso deep in love at the time of marriage marriage becomes successfully bcos of adaptability and being unselfish

If both being in deep love before marriage is the reason for succesful marriage then there won't be fifty percent divorces in USA where every marriage us a love marriage

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foresight

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: VARUNI2014
He thinks he is not good for diya bcos he thinks he is unable to adapt himself in marriage i.e he does not want to change himself and sacrifice his freedom for marriage ..
A guy who is unable to do what's needed to be done bcos he can't sacrifice his freedom is called selfish

Thing is he knows he is selfish he knows he is immature that's why he thinks himself unfit at the same time he is not trying to rectify his immaturity or sacrifice his freedom for a person who sacrificed everything for him for 12 yrs so he is selfish

Easy thing available for him is divorcing her in the false hope that she will find a best guy out there..think practically how many chances r there for a 30 yr old gal once marriage cancelled at mandap and once divorced gal to get in to a respectable Rajput family may be one percent chance

So ratan divorcing her dreaming about that one percent chance is heights of immaturity .

What diya asked in video is just feel her love so that he may change in due time yes that's the way marriages work ..and that is called adaptability diya asked ratan for that ..but he is too selfish so he can't show adaptability

No marriage becomes a success bcos two persons rvso deep in love at the time of marriage marriage becomes successfully bcos of adaptability and being unselfish

If both being in deep love before marriage is the reason for succesful marriage then there won't be fifty percent divorces in USA where every marriage us a love marriage

firstly he has already adapted and is adapting n has grown up a lot. and he isn't on about his freedom now. but adapting to someone else's wishes is not the same as loving them or giving them the love they deserve (and also want in the deepest recesses of their life). these are two very different things.

unfortunately heart is one area where you cannot apply force. you cannot make someone love you just like you cannot force yourself to love someone else. and faking it or pretending to love them as part of adjustment is far far worse. all ratan knows is diya loves him. he doesnt know right now what she expects from him in terms of giving a marriage a chance. but the way he sees it, she deserved better and he isn't it.

i cannot imagine how painful it would be to be in a relation longer term where you continue to love your spouse but they dont love you, even though they care about you and respect you. there would always be a void that cannot be filled. i dont think ratan wants her to have that. be stuck with someone who for all he knows might not be able to love her in future...but one who he also feels is no where close to the pedestal he has put her on.

you are taking about divorce rate in US and love marriages. but you need to understand that their's isn't a love marriage!

the worst thing you can do in a relation is pretend to be something you are not and pretend to love the other person. no relation can survive like that. and if someone holds on to a relationship where all they are doing is pretending to feel something for other that they dont, then they are holding on to a lie and a dead relationship that they have trapped the other person in.. because had they been honest and let the person go, that person would have found happiness with someone that would have been based on truth and not pretence.

and that is true in real life too. it is a different thing here that ratan actually is undermining himself here and he is capable of being the right person for diya...the one who deserves her love.

but undermining oneself and putting the other one on a pedestal and thinking highly of them isn't selfish.

also please dont confuse adjustability to forcing yourself to fall in love with someone and tag that as selfishness just because the guy thinks she deserved better!

Diya was at one point in time willing to walk out of the marriage too because she doesn't care about the society (it is a different think we know that this relation will not go to divorce at all)...but you are forgetting that esha is a widow who remained ayush. aprita divorced her husband and married someone else. she hasnt lost any respect. and diya is far stronger than someone who cares about the society.

calling him immature is fine. he has a bit of that. but selfish? that is a bit too much and high prejudiced.

Edited by foresight - 7 years ago