Was that slap necessary? I was disappointed - Page 2

Originally posted by: pomegranate

For ananya, the entire world can betray her but not her kabir and today he finally fell from that pedestal she put him on. she is angry because she trusted him with everything and now Because he did not tell her the full truth, she feels betrayed.

Bold: Bingo u used the right words.. Even Kabir mentions tht in his JSP moment!😳 Her anger was purely for his betrayal and not essentially for his lying.😳 His lie was a secondary thing, which she jumped to conclusions becoz she was not in right mind to think straight. Now she cannot believe Kabir.

Love and trust are to separate things and both r very essential for a healthy relationship and thy cannot b synonyms.😳 so he can love her but he can lie on her face and she can love him bt she cannot withstand his betrayal.

Ananya for the most part has a good head on her shoulders, but she is emotional when it comes to her father. it is one of her biggest weakness and now she is thinking from a perspective of a daughter. as a human, even I have said and did a lot of things out of anger, but did look back on my behaviour and regreted it once i cleared my head. not sure where this is going but I will hold back from labelling ananya and showing a little tolerance.

I had refrained from judging Kabir from his weak moments, I wud refrain from judging Ananya too from her weakest moments.😳

Originally posted by: idonkno

I respect your opinion but then Ananya is not wrong on her part. See you gotta keep in in mind that Ananya's love for Kabir started as hero worship because he was the only one who supported her father...even though her love has come a long way and is no more a hero worship but her father still remains a scared connection in KaYa's relationship and Kabir still remains her hero somewhere (remember how she called him a 'perfect' person during their conversation in the car after the bomb was diffused??).. but that one detail changed the entire scenario for her.. trust, love and respect are the key ingredients of any relationship..she did not doubt his love but the trust and respect she had for him suffered a major setback with this one revelation...that slap signified her heartbreak as a daughter..it was indeed an impulsive reaction from her side but it was so because the reality turned out to be excruciating for her!

Originally posted by: violette

jst put urself in Ananya's shoes.. jst a few minutes ago u r contemplating with ur mom with faintest of hope tht may b may b ur father is alive.. and u r expecting some positive news from ur BF and suddenly this bombshell strikes u and ur BF has audacity to not jst confirm it bt to confidently tell u on ur face tht yes he was murdered. And he was thr wen tht happened. And tht right in front of his eyes he saw him murdered.

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<div>Kabirknew her reaction and subconsciously he wanted to b damned by her for his lie, for what he couldn't do to save SK. Hence his such blatant audacity. He wanted to incur her wrath. He gave her a chance to vent out her pain, anguish, and hurt for his betrayal.

Ananya's reactionwas an anger-filled reproach for what he did to her. It was natural reaction.

Agar sahi dimaag se soch hota to ab tak maaf bhi kar diya hota. Bt u have to agree she cudnt have been in right state of mind to think so logically or reasonably and give him a benefit of dbt, especially wen u trust someone with ur life and never expect him to go wrong. Its painful to see ur trust broken with such rude harsh shock.

any other time she wudnt have reacted so volatilely, bt the preceding events had led her mind to b very fragile. Tht is where Shreya scores the points. She weakens the mind and hits it when thy r at thr vulnerable best.

It wud definitely take some time for her to grapple with the truth behind his lie.

Ananya's character had always been so emotional and reactive. She never thinks before she speaks or does. She reacts spontaneously to such highly charged situations.

I think we shud judge both Ananya and Kabir's characters with an equal eye. Though the makers havent done tht justice in thr show.😳

Originally posted by: violette

Originally posted by: Vayuputras

I can understand if she slapped him after giving him a chance to explain himself. But that was not so. Now its very clear that after knowing the truth she will regret and be 'batti' with him again. So is that impulsive reaction justified?

Originally posted by: Danseuse

@Vayaputras : The slap defined the father-daughter relationship. It just happened, but it proved beyond a reasonable doubt that Ananya loved her father very much and missed him. To compare that with Kabir's love for Ananya is not correct. The slap was impulsive and unexpected, I was taken off guard too. 😃 But I applaud Ananya for doing it. It's possible that later, she may regret it and even apologise. 😊

The Creatives would be giving the viewers a convincing reason about Kabir's decision to lie to Ananya. Lets wait for that and then dissect!


-Rekha

Originally posted by: Vayuputras

" It's possible that later, she may regret it and even apologise."--This is exactly my point. Why she'll regret it? When she realizes that Kabir wasn't wrong. Did she give him a chance to explain himself? Hasn't she committed this mistake twice earlier?

No doubt the creatives have a convincing reason up their sleeves about Kabir's decision. The whole story is hanging on that. My only point is I wish they had taken a different and not-so-travelled route to show this keeping in line with their standard, instead of these mundane masalas. Haven't we had enough of them?

Originally posted by: rabzonedge

Agree violette exactly same thought... After kabeer accepted he was there during SKs murder...Ananya was not in logical mind to think...it was spontaneous reaction...she z extremely hurt that her HERO hid such an imp fact of her life...
You are right we dont judge kabeer and ananya with equal eyes...but how makers have diffrentiated between them??? Can you throw light...

The show has always been focussed more on Kabir. His character has been explored inside out and ppl naturally feel more sympathy for him. Ananya is jst a shadow of Kabir. We understood Kabir better bcoz of Ananya. Her character was simple and more justice cud've done to her character. She cud've been equally a central point of this story, bt focus shifted drastically to Kabir's story and his never ending raaz.. now even Ananya's central story SK has shifted its base to Kabir where as it shud've been a converging point for both Ananya and Kabir.

isiliye kabhi log Ananya ko gaali dete hai to kabhi Kabir ko... a writer shud put forth views of both protagonists to let us make an unbiased judgement..(unless its a deliberate attempt for a major eye-opening twist in the end. More like famous O'Henry twists!) bt it hasn't happened.. lot of twists were left hanging open in the air, subjecting to multiple interpretations and speculations right from Kabir to Tarini to Ananya and even Richa!