The Remix Parents Month

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karan johar rightly said its all about loving your parents,

and in remix we got to see varied type of parents

be it friendship between soniya and anvesha,,princess like treatement sumeet gave tia,,or the lovely mom yuvi had-cant talk bout his dad though😆

parents give us the lease of life and give us the very best in life..so lets celebrate the lovely most purest form of a bond!!😛

So Lets Discuss..

• who according to you was the best parent and why
• who according to you was the not so good parent and why
• do ne of you share the same bond that these ppl shared with their parents or u think it was all fiction
• do parents play a crucial decsion in gen nexts life or u rule ur own life

ill be back with more masti and dhamaal and do look out for

**remix forum awards 2008**

Oh wow....u wont believe shellz just 2 days back I was wondering why did u stop the Remix month thingy....n I wanted to pm u n have an Sonia Sumit one this time 😳 ....well this may not exactly be Sonia Sumit month but " Parents" surely does include them 😃 n its gonna be gr8 discussing the most beautiful bond I have ever seen in my entire life here in the forum 😳 😳

Will be back n speak more of the mother dotty relationship 😳 😳

gr8 post shell will participate in a while 😃

Oh wow shelly!!!This is an amazing topic!!!We have all witnessed the parent n child relation b/w our remixers n their parents in different ways....
Acc to me Parents play a very very important role in making our teenage life a lil less hay wire.......i thought Sonia n ashi shared the BEST mother dotty realtion eva!!wish i was as close to my mom too...But im closer to my dad...so i identified more with Tia and Sumeet...They were sooo adorable...
I alwayz think that sumeet n sonia make an amazing team of parents....so understanding and patient...They r always there 4 there kids...They know wen their kid wants them...wen she just needs a hug n a good cry...of wen they need to shout out their happiness to the world,....
I dont think any parent was bad in remix...i mean no parent in this world can b bad yaar...they just dont understand their kids enough...parents have a common tendency to judge their kids...thats where the real problem cums...Otherwise parents r very important...Whos gonna pay pur bills otherwise!! 😉 😆 He he..kidding...I feel a parent n kid relation had to be nurtured by both..only then can the bond grow n become all the more beautiful
Luv
Sur

ashita reserve your pracious thoughts of that moooooost beautyful bond for this one..😆😉

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/remix/936346/mommys-day-bash

and shebbly thaanx for this special month😃...god caaaaaaaant believe i have one full month to dote on the beshtesttttttttt mooomyy dottyyyyyy everrrrrr..☺️🤗🤗

the hell rockers have been missing in action since quite a bit but it feeeeeeels soooo awesome to see you guys back🤗🤗welcome back guys🤗🤗

and guess what do you guys realize that you all have successfully completed one whole year being the members of hell😃🤗 i remember it all started off superbly last year in april with the rockingggg ashi month😳...so proud of you guys yaaaar you all had made the whole of last year sooooo interesting and full of activities..🤗..thankooo for all that you guys have done for us its been a great great pleasure🤗🤗...and i guess we all cant ever ever thank you all for the moooooosht beautyfullesht the mooosht rockingesht the moooooooosht hottycutieaweshmesht the moooost romantic the mooosht sizzlingggg the mooosht passionate the mooosht crazyyyyyyyyy insane intenseeeeeeee magicaaaaaal moth of all.."july"...😳☺️..the AY moooonth😃..oh maaaaaan what a tend setter it was in every single respect..☺️😍....and the besht part is that its fragrance is still sooooo very much present in the air..😍..and we all definatly feel it every single where in our hearts in the hottest station of the nation and in the very essance of rf..😍😍

lovee you guysssssss🤗🤗

the beshtest parent everrrrrrrr in this whole world of tellywood is undoubtedly and hands down sonya ray....😳🤗 🤗..not because she's the moomyy of our mummum but becuase genuinely shes the beshttttt there can never be a more purer bond of love ever potrayed than this beautyful duoooo every single of their scene had left me in an awe that said ki shucks yaaaaaar this is what moms are all about this is why god created them this is why their presance in their child's life is akinned to god's footprints along every single small step tthey take on the sands of life...😳🤗

i so thank god that i witnessed this scared bond in so many ways it has fostered and strengthened my ownr elationship with my mommyyy🤗🤗...i stayed five years in hostel and the person i used to miss like hell was my mum becuase am a total mummaa's baby😆🤗i mean imagine never ever in hostel did i wake up without my mum's wake call....😆..and the day she missed calling iw ould invariablyyyy miss my first class and then she would feel all guilty about it..😆..din ke 24 hours main se minimum six hours toh we used to be on the phone with each other coz mera khana digest nahi hota till the time i told her alll the details of every single second of the day....😆

and in those times when bohut zada wali yaad aaty thy maa ki then ashi sonya were my solace🤗🤗 i definatly can say that my relationship with my mum is veryyyy similar to that of mumma and mummum...😳🤗..me and my mum make such a volatile comboooo voz we both happen to be librans..😆...and look at the irony even sonya kapoor is a libran..😃..infact sonya ray herself is a typical typical example of a libran moooooom...😳..they can droool and dotee on their child till the end of timeeeee😃....and once they have their hold on them nobodyyyyy in the damm world can detter them from niharofying her☺️...to them no one not even thier husband comes before their children....and they would definately not leaveee anyyyy anyyyyy anyy scope of pameringggggg their children☺️☺️....they derive some self satisfaction by pampering and spoilling them☺️🤗...and nooneeee can beat them in hyperrrrnesssss....{not even me😉}...they can go hystericccccccc in the matters which concer their child and definately they would do anythinggggg to stand by youuu🤗🤗.....all mommyyys are treasures....but libran moomyys are something special...its said that libran women are meant to be mothersss🤗🤗...because they certainly don;t seek any other happyness once they have their child🤗🤗....and am just justttttt fortunate enough ti have a momyyy who is exactlyyyyyy like thissssss🤗🤗..."touch woood"😉🤗.....oh i loooooooooove my mother to bitssss..🤗🤗..its precisely cause of her that i am soooooo obssesed with having a gurl child of my own since the age of 13/14...😆..aww mery tammyyy...😳😍...am shoo happy i would be a libran moomy toooo to my tams..😆🤗//"touch wood"😉

and as for parent's role in our lives well i dont know about you all but my entire life my every single day of glory my every single achievment my evert single smile is because i have two adorableeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee parents in my life they have given me my values and have made my character soo soo strong that i can never go worng you know in the past five years i have had so many occassions to go astray to cross the line and to indulge in n number of things i mean who was there to stop me noone right? i could have easily lied to my parents and done what not theyw ouldn;t obviously be flying downf rom jaipur to keep a constant check on me would they? and i have sene this happen with soooooooo many many many gurls the minute they come to hostel they change their colors like a chamelian and parents ko blolengy shes in hostel stdying while she wld be having a night out with her bf whyyyy whyy do they do this? how can u change your whole self in an instent and forget everything your parents taught you?

i fail to arrive at any answer coz i know one thing my parents have blindly trusted me through out my life they have faiht and confidence in me and my abilities to such an extent that my own confidence in me falls short infront of theirs they knew it when they sende me away form home that their daughter would not do any such thing which would bring disgrace to them and above all they had given me freedom through out my life to choose beyween the right and the wrong to make my own mistakes they had neevr once imposed any unncessary restricitons in me and i feel this is of paramoun importance coz i have sene the small town gurls coming form highly cvonservative families who were always stricktly governed and tied down to rules and regulations who had never once sene the outside world to them hostal life is like u know suddenly someone has given them wings they are seeing so much of modernization and hepness for the first time and obviously they get carried away and want to be a part of the in thing they would come clad in salwaar suit from head to toe and the minute their parents would show their back theyw ould all be fluttering in tube tops and speggeties

theres nothing wrong in wearing such clothes its a matter of personal choice obviously infact even indulging in a relationship or having physical relationship with someone or alcholo or smoking or whateevr is a matetr of personal choice but what decides if its wrong or right is the fact whethr its hidden or known to your parents i for one would never ever do nay single thing which is hidden from my parents and thats because my parents had never stopped me form doing things i wanted to do i mean the more u try and keep someone in lock and key the more they would try to break out and thats where the whole equation distorts i really give a hats off to my parents for bring all we three sisters up with such open minds that today we really know on what side of the line we belong too and onthing in this damm world can tempt us to cross that linem y parents definatly r my pride my strength my principles my everything whatever i am i owe it to them i dont think i can servive one single day without my mum and i sincerely pray tog od to end my life with my mum because without her theres no life for meee

trust me parents r the besht besht besht thing god has created dnt ever let go of them come what may and always be there for them always love them coz trust me u might get hundreds and thousands of friends and u might get hundreds and thousands of bfs and husbands bt there wld be only two parents and no one can ever love u the way they love u coz wen they love u they dnt even expect ur love or respect in return thats y their love is akined to that of god coz its so slefless so unconditional i give a standing ovation to each and every parent to my beloved parents and to sonya ray for bveing such a divine mother and also to our ay for being the same divinity in tammy's life🤗

and no sur i don't agree with you there i know parents arn't supposed to be bad coz they are incarnations of god but yd was one such parent who was neevr carved to be a parent to him his son was just another means of meeting his selfish desieres and dreams he loved yuvi only till the point where yuvi was a puppet n his hand and he made him his puppet by bestowing loads and loads of cash in his way which was yd's expression of love he had always weighed everything even his son's life and hope and dreams and ambitions in material terms and once yuvi started retaliating he too started showing his true colors he had showed ki to keep his son under the ocntrol of his remote he could even blackmail his own wife to stay out of their lives and to stop influencing yuvi what not he did tok eep yuvi under his dominance and why not coz he hyperly undyingly loved yuvi or was proud ki he was his son but because he wanted to use him to gain himself personal advantages

he definaly was a horrible horrible parent not understandnig your children is one thing and i guess sumeet is a classic example of that he failed to understand tia in many occassions but you obviously can't call him a bad parent he genuinely loved his daughter to the core and obviously would have done anything and everything for her sake but yd neither did he understood yuvi nor did he cared a damm as to what mattered to yuvi where his happyness lied all he cared was about his own conceited self bloody arrogant git am soo happy ashi was there with yuvi to be his strength to walk out of this living hell

i mean can u beat i would give dino the dinosour higher rating that yd as a dad i know he left ashi sonya mid way and all that but he came back didn't he to atleast try and make up for his mistakes to atleast try and know his daughter i mean he genuinely did wanted to know her and be loved by her but for ashi it had been too late coz her mum had neevr once let her feel the emptyness of not having a father for ashi sonya was everything her mum her bestest friend her most cherished pranking victim her worst enemy and her father tooo they were a complete duo with no room at all for any third person who so ever enters their life would always be second to both of them

but the fact remains dino made an attempt even if he failed in it but atleast he made an attempt but yd he made none and rather left no stone unturned to pollute his son's mind goood during meera and his divorce he had actually used his love for yuvi as a weapon to get him do horrible things remember he had kajolled yuvi to contaminate the water tank and poor yuvi felt so guilty after doing it but all the time he kept syaing ki he did it for his dad coz dad was the only one who loved him noone loved him but his dad even his mum had left him and ashi toh had turned him down long back so ut was just his dad then and his darling dad had done his best to hone this message and root it deeply in yuvi's mind shucks man i felt sooooooo bad for yuviiiiiii

even the spinless boneless jumbo was a betetr father than yd he used to take bribes and all but he always id it for his family and his daughter i mean he loved latty very very much and always wanted the best for her without caring in what way he was getting that best right or wrong but atleast the love was reala nd not fake and non existant like in case of yd

and i forgott o write about two psychotic cases pri and vrinda's moms.. 😆

pri's mum toh was... 🤢 🤢 🤢 how can a mother have the audacity to make fun of her own daughter and actually compare her with herself and her other children pri's mom didn't not leave any occassion to pull her down to rebuuke at her to make fun of her and her huge waist size and that too in public thats the main reason for all of pri's insecurities and unstable nature everythnig begins at home re parents are meant to lvoe their children jut the way they are and had pri's parents loved her irrspective of how she looked had they tried to see the person she was and not the body she resided in then even pri would have loved herself her confidence in her own self was shattered right at her own very home i mean at the end of th day its not about having a well proportinate toned male attracting body its about how happy your heart is in that body and had pri truely loved herself she would hav been happy jus the way she was but thanx to her belovedly attrocious mom all she was left with was the belief that she was ugly and unattractive

and vrinda's mum was toh a big time cartoon she was so obssesed with sheetal and her illness that she almost forgot that she has another daughter who has her own needs and desieres but hats off to sonal masi who had been the neternal figure in vrinda's life and had always supported her in all walks of her life that lady had actually sacrficed so much of her own for vrinda;s sake and she was such an adorable guardian to ashi mp and ranny

and my heart really cries out for mp i mean its absolutely impossible to even fathom how her life would have been as an orphan but hats off to her that despite so many adversities she was soo soo strong and so confident and such a strong self belief in herself she was such a perfect fit for ashi both of them made a perfectly compatible duo both self righteous epitome of bravado courage daring atittude this spirit to fight for themselves their rights and their friend's rights and what a devious mind both of them had could nayone ever beat them when they decided to turn mischieveous? and when mateshwari's gyaan was aded to this duo they made the unique combo of the "three devils" when mp met ashi and mate she realized what it really is to be loved and to have a family this was her first eevr family but i guess even mp's father really cared for her and was concerned for her he wanted to ensure that she gets a good education and becomes something in her life so that she can support herself be financially independet and have a distinct nam,e of her own agreed he was coward and he couldn't spell out his illigitmacy to his wife in fear of destroying the wedidng but mp's step mom turned out to be soo sweet i still remember that letter she had send her it was soooo emotional i mean even the thought of not having mp around was sad but atleast now for once she would experiance the bliss of being loved by parents she already had a forever family in aashi and mate and varun and now she would also have loving parents seriously man the presance of parental love changes the hwole meaning of the world and makes it much more safer and kinder place to be thats coz our parents take all its cruelties on their head and leaves only bed of roses for us.

hmmm...u do have a point smriti...What Yd pris mom and vrindas mom did was bad....But then that doesnt mean that they did not care for their children does it??In yds case..lets say...he let his ambition n his political career overtake his fatherly feelings...wat he did was for uv...for wat he thought was a betta future for him...But he failed to understand that it was not what uv wanted and uvs refusal and rebellion made him try n get his own way!!

as for Pri and Vrindas mom..all i can say is sum ppl rnt cut out for parenting....they just dont have it in them to give selfless love to sumone else...Parenting is not an easy job and few ppl have the courage the selflesss devotion and unconditional love required to do it......
Wahin pe sonal masi is a bright example...though she never sired a child...atleast thats wat i know.. 😳
She showed motherly feelings towards vrinda n treated her as her own child...She became a mother bcoz she wanted to...not b coz she just was,like vrindas mom who didnt have a choice...she was and had to be vrindas mom...Of course one can defend her sayin ki she did care bout her other daughter n stuff...But neverthless

n MP ke liye toh im so glad coz she finally got a family...chahe woh ek guardian ki hi kyun na ho...she got her family n hope shed been happy wid dem!!Coz its very hard to live alone...without ur loved ones wid u...

n smriti i totally agree wid wat u said bout parents role in our lives....
There are several things which are individual choices and decisions...but those decisions are an outcome of the teachings of our parents...Today if i have decided never to smoke or drink or whatever ots because my parents have taught me to be independent but learn to differentiate wrong and right...

In the end..id like to repeat shell...
Its all about loving your parents!!!! 😛

the discussion looks so good here keep continuing it 😆 newheres
parents month has many sub points
one of dem is family
which we got to see in the end of the show meaning sonia sumeet ashi tia
we dont noe much of it bt all we can do is imagine what this fmaily wud be like