PaRud are both Right & Wrong with their POVs

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subiaman

@subiaman

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

So I watched the epi now... Two things.

One- I did not like Paro feeding rudra.. Why do they have to make him look so weak? Why is paro expected to babysit him? Its not paro's duty to take care of him. he is a grown up- act like one. Instead of that kind of support, i would have rather liked a scene where she supports him in his decisions and help him face the demons... I guess Mala being her godmom complicates the equation... Supproting Rudra in times of crisis by feeding him 😕

second- precap might have more to it. maybe we are just jumping the gun.. i have one more day to hope and wish that paro does not bring mala home. let somebody else do the honors and maybe she was just helping her in... In that case, I will dutifully follow the drama. I can imagine paro helping her in the hostile climate of the haveli. I am 100% OK with that. But Paro tkaing matters in her own hand and bringing her to the house is 🥱... to me that is a big put off to paro's caharcter... From sbs/sbb it looks like more feeding is on way.. you offend your husband by doing anything you want and then manao by feeding him 😆

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: surabi
So I watched the epi now... Two things.
One- I did not like Paro feeding rudra.. Why do they have to make him look so weak? Why is paro expected to babysit him? Its not paro's duty to take care of him. he is a grown up- act like one. Instead of that kind of support, i would have rather liked a scene where she supports him in his decisions and help him face the demons... I guess Mala being her godmom complicates the equation... Supproting Rudra in times of crisis by feeding him 😕

I m sure things would hv been different if Mala was not Paro's thaukrain or godmom .. she would hv stood strong by Rudra's side then but now she will b swinging like a pendulum between both sides .. about feeding scene , I always felt that Rudra needs a mother figure in his life and so at times like this Paro is more like a substitute to that mother figure in his life and this equation might change once he accepts Mala as his mother and gets that confidence back ...

second- precap might have more to it. maybe we are just jumping the gun.. i have one more day to hope and wish that paro does not bring mala home. let somebody else do the honors and maybe she was just helping her in... In that case, I will dutifully follow the drama. I can imagine paro helping her in the hostile climate of the haveli. I am 100% OK with that. But Paro tkaing matters in her own hand and bringing her to the house is 🥱... to me that is a big put off to paro's caharcter... From sbs/sbb it looks like more feeding is on way.. you offend your husband by doing anything you want and then manao by feeding him 😆

well feeding has become her hobby , so cant help it 😆😆 .. I too hope bringing Mala in house is mayb Dilsher's decision and Paro is only following it or else 😕 .. lets see 😕

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bhavis

@bhavis

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: jyoti06

well even if its a troubled relation , still she could hv got the divorce .. why decide to leave by randomly writing a letter to husband 😕 .. I actually find it like a EMA only .. and also if she was right , she colud hv gone to court for her son's custody too which she dint which means she knew somewhere she did cheat on her husband which is morally wrong 🤔

Coming back to your post - Yes both are right on their own grounds and for the first time I am actually liking Paro for thinking rationally and behaving like a real biwi. Not just feeding him and taking his crap but being firm and having her own views as far as the situation is concerned. And once more she proved that only woman can do this👏 Man when they are in such situation just thinks with dil and do not use their brain. Or at times just use Brain and no use of heart😕.

Rudra had to take it out for once and all. It was so much required for him. Once he is out of his drunk state, (Which i am hating a lot- He drinks the moment there is a bit of an emotional turmoil) he will start thinking yet again as to what is right and what is wrong.

But today i have complaint against bapusa. The guy spit all his venom on the little child and see what has happened to Rudra😭 . It was both parents mistake but just Mala took the bold step she was blamed for everything,

Now your arguement on going to court. I guess these are the same people who believes inthe nag devta chosing the bride. Am not sure if those kind of people ever would go to court?🤔

Kakusa was in contact with Mala so am sure that there is something that would justify the situation.

Leaving a kid behind is bad but at times in order for the kid to survive in a better environment the decision is required. Its no good to raise a kid where domestic violence/anbusing is a part of daily routine. Its a complicated situation and is beyond the scope of debate here. I would 100% blame bapusa for raising a grey child called Rudra as it was his wish not to send him with his mother so it was his responsiblity to take a good care of the kid - both emotionally and physically. Here mother left and father did not care that was the issue. Mala was not a warrior and hence she fled away from all the issues. She ran away from her issues, her responsibility and above all her own blood. To me that is more of a NO NO. I still believe that she did not have EMA. Her meeting of thakursa may be the accident..

(Lets see what CVS have to say🤔)

Talking about precap - I am so glad that Paro brings Mala home. FOr the first time in entire season she has taken some right decision as a woman👏

Edited by BHAVII - 11 years ago

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Roshni

@rashika

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Wonderful post and your so right in saying that both Paro and Rudra are right and wrong in their own ways.

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Zetter

@Zetter

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Hey Dear, fantabulous analysis as ever 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏...Arrgghhh I already had my long reply written and ready to send when the power went out making me lose everything which really pissed me off 😡 😡 😡 but I'm trying to reply to you again in the hopes that this time around things will do smoothly...fingers crossed...!!

I do understand where both Paro and Rudra are coming from but Paro has to understand that she can't force Mala on Ranawat and Rudra like that...Sure Mala has been a mother figure to her but she can't ignore the fact that she left her husband for another man and that her son is the one who suffered the most

I don't care if Mala wanted to take Rudra along with her but which father in his right mind would want his child to go live with his unfaithful wife and her lover???...NONE...Mala means bad in spanish and in a way she lived up to her name cause she did Rudra and Ranawat wrong which makes her a bad mother and wife...It wouldn't be easy fro her to get back into their good graces, she will have to work really hard and with her re-entry in the Ranawat haveli, i can see PaRud having lots of fights 😭 but it was bound to happen Rudra has to face his past in order for him to move ahead with his life and start afresh with no bagages.

Let's hope that Paro and Rudra meet each other half and try to understand their respective feelings and respect each other POVs...I really hope that Paro realizes that bringing Mala in the haveli will be hurting not only Rudra but Ranawat also who will have to see the face of the woman who betrayed him with another man...All I can say is hats off to Ranawat for staying calm and thinking about Rudra when he is obviously shaken up to know that Mala is back 😲 👏 😭

Seriously Mohini is selfish does she think that Samrat will go along with her crazy plan to get him married again just because Maithili hasn't gotten pregnant yet!?...What she plans to do is cruel and I do hope that someone catches on to her intentions and gives her a good tight slap 😡 😡

P.S Sorry for any mistakes but trying to type as fast as I can before the power goes out again...!!

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Rishita.SIholic

@Rishita.SIholic

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Lovely post Jyoti 👏

Feeling bad for PaRud...

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loveanime

@loveanime

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

This is quite bold for indian telly. I know ekta does this in all her shows where the men sleep around and have babies come back running to the heroine. It is taboo to show woman as the cheating party. Ok no matter what the circumstance is dilsher could have been the devil incarnate himself but what doesn't change is that mala and tejawat had marital relations for fifteen odd years, she was happy in her new relation and crossed the point of no return. Will the audience forget that and accept a dilsher and mala reconciliation, is it possible for a woman to live in the same house as her ex-husband. If Mala and Dilsher want to get back on track on their marriage I will say go for it team RR, it is bold and daring something I have not seen before and I would say second innings might be the best all the power to you. But the problem here is between Dilsher and Mala and Paro is got no scope to decide their relationship for them. She wants the best for Rudra and for him move on from his past that is her right as his wife but she has no right to expect or even interfere or force anything between Dilsher and Mala. So her bringing Mala home has little to do with Rudra and more to do with Dilsher. I doubt writers will take that route and show Paro that crude and insensitive if they do I WILL BE SHOCKED.

A mother can be a mother even if she doesn't live with her son. But a woman and a man can only live together if there is any relation between them, Dilsher and Mala are too old for lets forget the past and be friends stage they are not teenagers. So if they show Dilsher and Mala under one roof for a prolonged time ooohhh there must be some form of reonciliation between them, Dilsher and Mala romance part 2, we might have to come up with a couple name, any ideas guys. And more brownie points imagine how comedically horrifying it would be for Rudra to see his parents get back together maybe even get married again oh yeahhh this is just too much fun to pass up.

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-himu-

@-himu-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

lovely and well balanced post😊

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Nandini

@NandiniRaizadaa

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Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Hi jyo🤗

I watched this show after ages and I felt it has moved a million years. Couldn't make head or tail of it so hunted your post 😆

After reading through I understood a few things. So Laila madam is out and Mala madam is in😆So Thakurain ma sa is not the angel that Paro thinks she is and she actually cheated on her husband. Granted she wanted to take her son but that does not excuse her doings. It's understandable and justified that Rudra is not able to forgive it. Separation is very big emotional issue for the child and can leave lasting scars.

And I am saying this for both the parents. A child is not able to forgive either but motr so for the mother I know I am making a very bold statement here but as per child psychology a father exhibits external security and mother exhibits emotional security. Hence when father leaves the child is hurt but he has his emotional blanket but when the mother leaves it becomes like a threat to the entire emotional survival of a person. Such kids become emotionally stunted as they have shown Rudra to be

I read on another post on this thread thar when men leave sleep around and come back they are accepted by the woman and the society. I agree but it should not be the case.
In fact I think people should not have kids till they are not fully sure of each other. And once they have kids they should understand they are now responsible for another human being

But sadly we see separations all around us and kids become the ultimate victims

Now there is no reason for Rudta to forgive Mala but one can never move on in life without burying the past. They say to forgive is divine, ultimately we will see Rudra doing it. He has to let go of the emotional baggage he is carrying

Coming to a Paro Mala to her is like the mother she lost so she wants to unite the two of them. Though she should have taken it slowly . She should understand that she can't force a Rudra and his dad to accept a woman who hurt them so terribly and left with another man . It will take time . It cannot be achieved overnight . Alright she wanted to take Rudra along but that means she wanted to hurt her husband twice over. Truth is she was a bad mother and a bad wife but yes any one who really repents should be given a second chance but Rudra and his dad can't be expected to do it overnight

In the Dilsher Mala confrontation we will come to know whether Dilsher has forgiven her. If he does then again that part of Rudra's brain which is stuck in his childhood can take it as betrayal number two. So it's a fight that Rudra has to fight. Just hope he controls his temper

Most Indian telly heroines I have seen behave this way. They go all out in supporting what they perceive is right and in the process end up hurting themselves and their families

Let's see how the drama unfolds. I can see some vey dramatic scenes ahead

Great post as usual

Edited by Nandiniraizaada - 11 years ago