PaRud are both Right & Wrong with their POVs

So I tried seeing today's episode from both Rudra and Paro's POV and somewhere both r right as well as wrong in their respective places 🤔


Rudra's emotions and grudges against his mother is totally justified because now its crystal clear that she left her family because she had an extra marital affair with Tejawat , no other reason ; Yes as per flashback she wanted to take Rudra with her like any other mother but that cannot b any excuse for the sin she has committed by cheating on her loyal husband ; Why will Rudra's father allow Mala to take away their son with her when she was all set to stay with another man 👎🏼, so I m with Rudra's father on this ; No wonder when Rudra in drunk state was removing his frustration and grudges in front of his mother , she had nothing to justify herself 👎🏼 ... Any son in his place will hate his mother for actually coming back after so many years just because now she has nowhere to go 😡


But having said that , I feel Rudra should have a control over his emotions in these tough times being a BSD officer ; Though the issue is sensitive but his father too is dealing with it na for whom its even more difficult to find out that his wife is back after staying so many yrs with another man but yet we see him calm and composed , I wish Rudra too had similar kind of composure like his father 🤔... His hate is all fine but he should learn to have a control over his emotions ...


Coming to Paro , now I do understand where she is coming from and why she dont want to take any sides but just wants to bring mother-son together again ignoring the past issues 🤔 ; Its because both Mala and Rudra hold a spl place in her life and so she feels loyal towards both parties ; If Rudra is her life today then Mala is someone who gave her life all over again in her childhood when her parents died ; Mala was more of a mother to Paro and so somewhere she does hold that weakness towards Mala despite all her flaws ; She knows Rudra from past few months but she worshipped Mala like her mother and Thakurain for years now and so its human to develop certain weakness for her despite knowing that she was wrong ...


While Rudra has no reason to forgive his mother , Paro I feel has more than one reason here to unite Mother-Son again because first she wants Rudra to come out of his past baggages by learning to forget and forgive , no matter how much diffiult it could be and second she wants Mala to finally come back to her family and redeem herself so that she as a daughter feels satisfied to see her Thakurain getting her life back on track again ...


Paro never denied that Mala is innocent but all Paro wants is to make sure everyone moves on in life which mayb very difficult but not really impossible .. But I guess the only mistake she did as per precap is not giving enough time to Rudra to actually recover from this initial shock and directly getting Mala in the house ; Paro should hv given some time to Rudra before taking this decision because now I fear Rudra in anger will go back to Laila feeling all betrayed by Paro especially after today when Paro said she is with him and then in precap brings Mala home without letting Rudra know about it ...


Anyways now I want to see how Mala and Rudra's father confronts each other and I want to see if Rudra's father is ready to forgive his wife before Rudra decides anything 🤔 ; Also I really hope when husband-wife confronts after so many years , we really get to know the reason why Mala could not stay with her husband and felt the need to cheat on him with another guy .. Was he not sufficient enough to satisfy her .. was that the only reason here ?? 🤔 Or is it some major difference of opinion where mayb Mala wanted to do something , like work mayb and Rudra's father was against it .. I hope we could see the reason here whatever it is ...


Last PaRud feeding moment was good and I do understand Paro wants to see Rudra all happy and come out of his past skeletons but I wish Paro had taken it slowly and not forced him to accept his mother by directly bringing her in the house tomorrow itself 😕 ... Liked what Rudra told Paro that there is a difference between her pain and his pain .. Her parents dint leave her deliberately but had unfortunate death and so she never went through the pain of rejection which he had gone throughout his childhood knowing that his mother left willingly

Overall a good emotional roller coaster episode with good acting by all 3 .. PaRud and Mala 👏👏👏

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I have not watched te epi yet! But I believe both rudra and paro are justified in their respective places !

I agree, but she is not ignoring past issues. It's not her place to ask mala why she did what she did. It's rudras, and he is runing away from that! She told him clearly it's time to stop running and ask! I personally think she is not wrong this time. Rudra he is definitely not wrong, but he needs to stop and say ok go ahead explain, if it's not satisfactory, kick her out forever! Done and done

A Really well thought out and rounded post as per usual Jyoti.

Lovely take jyoti 😊

I knew this is where it is heading.. I was wishing fervently that CVs will not take that cliched route and make paro bring mala home. First of all, who is paro to bring her home? she does not know what happened (neither is she even trying to understand)... You cannot just force the two involved parties to reconcile without knowing the truth, without knowing how deep the problems are and can just put them in one house and say- "go resolve"...

Originally posted by: reeha...k

A Really well thought out and rounded post as per usual Jyoti.

Just a few things to add:

- I think we all know that Paro's actions are filled with good- alibet naive- intentions; For the sake of the story there is obviously no concept of "let people take their time" 😆.

- I feel in this instance Paro's loyalties are more towards Mala, which is in itself fair- she DOES know her longer and she has a special place in her heart. But even after the time she's spent with Rudra, she should know better. The more she tries to shove this down his throat, the more he's going to fight her on it (That's part of the story I guess 😆)

- Reconcilation and Answers are wonderful things, but you can lead a horse to water, but you can't force it to drink.

I'm not a Paro/ Sanaya Lover nor an Rudra/Ashish Lover, I literally watched the show because the concept pulled me in, and as a completely neutral party, if I were watching it from the outside looking in, I'd be team Rudra on this if there were teams. The road to hell is paved with Good intentions so they say.

It's going to be a great few weeks of drama and emotional turmoil ! 😃

Jyoti di, dono k povs samazne aur samzaane k liye ThanQ! 🤗 great post! Aur precap k baare me kal baat karenge.. kabhi kabhi precap actual scene se alag hotaa hai... dekhte hai... 😉

Nice take, Jyoti ... I got the opposite feeling about Mala though ... I felt she left the house because of a troubled marriage, and met Tejawat after she left Dilsher. That would alter the situation considerably.