Why is Paro dissecting her love life in public view all the time ?!?!?

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Shreya Patel

@spate22

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Men say they don't understand women, but I'm surprised women themselves don't understand a woman's emotions!! 😲

Shreya

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Zeeliciousxo

@Zeeliciousxo

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Hope

Z, I agree that married couple need to solve their problem in private. But sometimes people get carried away. I saw many happily married couple get into a heated argument before their children, parents, friends and such. Sometimes for silly reasons. People act or react according to their moods, emotions, situations and so on. When pulled into an extreme situation humans react and do unpredictable things.

Paro is sensible, yes. She normally would never do such thing. But now she is under extreme pain. She is emotionally very weak. When a person goes through some thing very painful, excruciating, life changing... it is hard for them to act rationally. It is not even a day since she learned the truth. She needs time to heal. She is a strong women but not today. Today she was vulnerable, weak and lost. Hope I made sense. 😊

I do agree with you. But it just leaves a bitter taste in my mouth because she is constantly belittling Rudra in front of everyone (Laila or/and the rest of the family), especially when Rudra himself is hurting so much and is technically not at fault for anything.

P.S. I also know sensible women who have gone through tough times but managed to keep it together in front of non-immediete family members. So I know it's possible and I just thought Paro would also manage to keep it together in front of everyone as well. I guess I was wrong...probably was just expecting too much...but yes I know most of us aren't that strong...I would probably have blown the haveli down with all my huffing and puffing if I was Paro 😆

Edited by Zeeliciousxo - 11 years ago

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Zeeliciousxo

@Zeeliciousxo

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: spate22
Men say they don't understand women, but I'm surprised women themselves don't understand a woman's emotions!! 😲

Shreya

I know of wise, sensible and quiet women in the real world who have gone through tough times and managed to keep it together in public...so while I understand Paro's outbursts...was it wrong to expect that she too may have been able to keep it together?

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Rupunzale

@Rupunzale

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Nothing remains private when a wife comes to know that her husband has a 8yr old physical relationship with another woman...it's all out in the open...just the way he dragged her out and forcibly married her in a drunken state out in the public. You might say he did it under extreme pressure...and so has Paeo...she is under extreme pressure and stress😊

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Shreya Patel

@spate22

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

And weren't the reactions because of the ending of the play?!! In the spur of the moment?!!

Shreya

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710617

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

I agree I did not like it that they are having such an open discussion..but I guess the news is too much for her to digest it would be frankly Any of us who have indian sensibilities to know that the hubby prior to marriage had an 8 year intense relationship..without any commitment from his side which he just shrugged out ...

Her problem is not Laila ..she is being magnanimous saying she doesn't matter...all that.. Her main issue is how stable is her relationship...what standing does she have in his life..she has pit her thoughts of leaving him in a back burner..right now she wants to know..why should she not leave rudra right now..

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MadhuO

@MadhuO

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Besides...she was talking about the Raja and Rani...I don't recall her using real names.

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Zeeliciousxo

@Zeeliciousxo

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: MadhuO
Besides...she was talking about the Raja and Rani...I don't recall her using real names.

I can't believe you just pulled that one 😆 As if the Ranawat family actually thought they were fighting about the play...yup, that's why Maithili was crying...the performance was just so touching 😆

All jokes aside...

I don't understand or connect with Paro's character this week. When you all analyze her I can understand where she's coming from, but the fact of the matter is the TRP audience and even much of the loyal audience does not read up on analyses on IF to better understand Paro...and they shouldn't need to...if many people are feeling a huge disconnect from the female lead character then that is not our fault, it is the CVs fault. Those of us who read analyses on the characters on IF can understand and be patient with our beloved characters but what of those who don't?? If they are feeling disconnected from the female lead character at such a crucial point in the story...then aren't the CVs doing something wrong??

I would just like to end this with a 🤗because I don't want to get serious over a TV show and fictional characters. Much love!