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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guinea

Vickysa ...An interesting episode tonight.
Saw it twice as to be honest didnot like it much the first time ...felt it was too cramped , too much happening in one episode , 2 nd time was better.😊

- ah sumer bhaisa is back , my favourite idiot goon , the break has done you good udit ...you were looking good. Enjoyed the scene between laila and sumer ...their was something there 😉 Ankita is looking so much better with her toned down makeup ...

- aman bhaisa is back too and not one but two dhinchak scenes with sunheri 😆Too cute ...

- loved some of the parud scenes tonight ...the watch one was so beautiful and so was the medicine one.

My take on paro tonight , though I loved her more yesterday with her clear thinking and maturity ...she is calmer when she discusses her relationship with maitheli , clearer in her thought process ...she does her wifey duties happily for rudra , appreciates the special things that rudra does for her like the puppet show etc ...BUT the moment laila comes in the picture , wheather just in her conversation ( when sunheri asks her to come for the puppet show ) or when she passes a snide remark ...her insecurities pop up and so does jealousy ...she questions everything , her position in his life , his feelings etc .

My take on rudra ...he is a man in love 😳 But cannot admit it to himself . He is demonstrative through action butnot words ...unfortunately the lady in question needs the words badly because of her insecurities and seriously needs to hear these words ...

This is all coming to a tipping point ...will paro ask laila to leave , will she leave herself , will rudra confess before that ...lets see how CV's play it . Seeing the IPL calender ...their are two days next week when their will be no matches , so probably we will get a high point then ...

My only one grouse with the CV's for tonights episode ...it was too packed , with too much happening in one episode and the editing was slightly shoddy ...I will wait to see how this week plays before I make up my mind abt the track but thoda theraav will do us all good 😃

And a girlie comment to end my post ...sanaya looked gorgeous in the powder blue lehanga 😆 And for ashish , ah saw him in uniform 😆


Thanks Guinea and i love your honesty which is minus all the sarcasm and pickle jars.😳

TBH, the essence of the whole episode was the puppet dance and its aftermath- it put forward the happening shift in Rudra's and Paro's relationship, and how its affected by circumstances and their own fallacies and insecurities.

I loved Aman and Sumer and i will like to see more of them. Laila and Sumer could be interesting if they happen. Lets see. 😆

The episode was loaded screenplaywise, i agree. The puppet dance and the aftermath could have happened tomorrow. Hopefully, the screenplays will be better for the rest of the week. 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
#82
Mallo...I think Rudra just needs to hush Paro off by sleeping with her 😎...I mean committing to SJ's version of consumashuns I swear...sab drama khatam...sabke moonh bandh...esp Paro's and Rudra will be happy camper since he will finally be able to concentrate on his BSD ka kaam and Laila will stomp off the haveli...Kakisa's dream of Jr angaar kumar and jr dhuan kumari will be fullfilled...dillu boy can put his naak elavated higher than Toronto's tower...bablu, samrat and mythali can peacefully concentrate on their upcoming business without household tensionsand sammy boy can simply start singing KKHH for Laila😆...

SEE...ek consumashun and so many problems solved...but sigh!😆

On a serious note...the basic issue is for reals what Paro got to know from Rudra on that night about his past. It has messed her up badly...coz to her...sleeping with someone simply means he had feelings for her...so what if he keeps trying to tell her the otherwise...he has always done that to her...said something else and feel something else...Remember she has told him that as well...so she dearly feels that Rudra had feelings for Laila and she has imagined herself as the third angle in their story. She has taken his sleeping with her quite hugely I say...and its comprehensible since she is a village belle afterall.

I honestly dont think even his words or declaration of his love to her will suffice her...he will have to prove with some sort of an action...a tight hug with declaration...a kiss maybe...something that snaps her out of this make belief world she has created around her regarding Rudra and Laila. And yes...she is more on the edge coz her only hope when she promised her bholenaath to give up Rudra was Rudra himself...she had faith that he will not let her go or will bring her back...but with this new development of his past...that hope has died out and she is at the cliff fearing that she will lose Rudra forever the moment she walks out of his life.

And Rudra...boy will he turn the world upside down if she leaves...the guy is madly...deeply and crazily in love with his Paro...see the desparation with which he wants to bring back her smile...she is the light of
his darkness...and if the light goes...how will he find himself again?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: babli0204

"P.S- Kya kehte ho? Banaa diyaa jaaye Laila ko Sumer ki Beendhni aur Mohini ki Bahurani. 😆 "

Banao...banao...jaldi banao. 👏 But looking at the expression of Kakisa at our laila-ho-laila-bai-sa, this will also be a very tough task!!!!!!!!!!! Do you think Sumer will be man enough to dare to defy his dear mommy-sa?!?!??!
😒


Thanks Oye Bubbly! 😆...Agar Sumer ko sacch meiin Laila se bewakoof waala love ho gayaa toh? Pyaar mein log sirf deewane nahin hotte, sheikh chili bhi hua karte haiin!😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: hinasadiq

Beautifull post dear
Loved today's episode


Thank you.😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely take Vicky on an emotional episode.
Totally loved the episode today.

Watching desi soaps with a logical mind is suicidal.
Expecting a character to act certain way is inviting disappointment.
How can we expect the leads to have the same characterization 100 episodes in to the show?
So much has changed for Rudra and Paro, so they will react differently.


Paro doesn't blame Rudra for his past.
She has emotionally hit rock bottom since the show started. .
She was never insecure even in the hate marriage because she was sure of her love and faith.
She was seeing small acts of care from him, she saw him smile, change.
With Laila's entry she is highly insecure, not about Laila but about herself.
She is angry at herself, feeling humiliated, sad.
She is so shaken that the promise to Bholenath does not even figure.
The core of her belief system is shaken and for the first time her faith is not giving her answers.
So she is turning to the object of her being, Rudra.
She want answers from him to help her, guide her.
She can handle Laila but not her own questions and doubts, which will not go away even if Laila does.
Laila is inconsequential and insignificant in her scheme of things right now.

Actions are important, but for a woman words are just as important...especially when the woman in question is hurting and insecure.

Paro has been Rudra's strength when he was at his lowest point, when he lost his job and his mother's abandonment was coming back to haunt him. She held him , told him it would be ok.
She took responsibility to get his job restored.
Today Paro is at her lowest point. She is insecure, jealous, scared, and feeling humiliated.
It's now Rudra's turn to step in for her not just in action and through his eyes, but also through his words. She needs his assurance.

Paro restored Rudra's dignity and honor once
Today it's Rudra's turn to restore Paro's heart.





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Posted: 11 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: sajni786

Mallo...I think Rudra just needs to hush Paro off by sleeping with her 😎...I mean committing to SJ's version of consumashuns I swear...sab drama khatam...sabke moonh bandh...esp Paro's and Rudra will be happy camper since he will finally be able to concentrate on his BSD ka kaam and Laila will stomp off the haveli...Kakisa's dream of Jr angaar kumar and jr dhuan kumari will be fullfilled...dillu boy can put his naak elavated higher than Toronto's tower...bablu, samrat and mythali can peacefully concentrate on their upcoming business without household tensionsand sammy boy can simply start singing KKHH for Laila😆...

SEE...ek consumashun and so many problems solved...but sigh!😆

On a serious note...the basic issue is for reals what Paro got to know from Rudra on that night about his past. It has messed her up badly...coz to her...sleeping with someone simply means he had feelings for her...so what if he keeps trying to tell her the otherwise...he has always done that to her...said something else and feel something else...Remember she has told him that as well...so she dearly feels that Rudra had feelings for Laila and she has imagined herself as the third angle in their story. She has taken his sleeping with her quite hugely I say...and its comprehensible since she is a village belle afterall.

I honestly dont think even his words or declaration of his love to her will suffice her...he will have to prove with some sort of an action...a tight hug with declaration...a kiss maybe...something that snaps her out of this make belief world she has created around her regarding Rudra and Laila. And yes...she is more on the edge coz her only hope when she promised her bholenaath to give up Rudra was Rudra himself...she had faith that he will not let her go or will bring her back...but with this new development of his past...that hope has died out and she is at the cliff fearing that she will lose Rudra forever the moment she walks out of his life.

And Rudra...boy will he turn the world upside down if she leaves...the guy is madly...deeply and crazily in love with his Paro...see the desparation with which he wants to bring back her smile...she is the light of
his darkness...and if the light goes...how will he find himself again?
😳




I so agree with you ... !!!!!! disucssed with someone with the same line yesterday. Rudra is not a personality who will declare his love..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#87
Very nice post.
Today's episode was full of emotions from both Rudra and Paro.
Rudra feels bad every time he hurts her. He misses her smiles but doesn't realize why her tears affect him so much.
While Paro has seen him care for her many times but only due to finding out what he shared with Laila for eight years and Rudra saying he doesn't love Laila doesn't mean anything. Paro is insecure due to if Rudra can be with a woman for eight years and not love her what hope does she have to ever receive his love.
By the way the last part of your post on Sumer and Laila getting together who knows what the CV's will bring.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post Vicki Sa 😊
Loved the emotional episode.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Vickysa,
A randon thot- sharing here with you.. 😊
Today when Paro was talking to Mythili abt the puppet show, didn't she say, she likes the show, because, even if it starts with lots of pain & anguish, it has a happy ending?
And hence wanted to go watch the show?

I could relate to this thot process very much so. Because whenever I am going thru a tough phase in life, I tend to watch movies or read books which makes me happy. This helps me to get out of the darkness that is engulfing me.

And I felt Paro was trying to do that .She was looking forward to watch the Puppet show which had a happy ending to boost her positive thinking. She was aware that her mind was getting clouded with unwanted thots of negativity. She was aware that she was loosing faith in the power of LOVE

She was very happy that her husband arranged for the Puppet show. She was so thrilled when the show started . Her face once again glowing with happiness, in anticipation of the story that will have an happy ending.

And what did she get? Her worst fears/ her nightmare playing out.. When a person is down already and is shown such a scene, what would be the mind set of that person? Will she/he be governed by darkness or hope? At that moment the story of the King, Queen and Pari was so real for her. She saw her as the queen , Rudra as the King and the Pari as Laila (. And this exactly was what L wanted. )
So now When Rudra stops the play and Parud have the emotional conversation, it is the "Queen" that Paro relaed to , that is prevalent . And hence the words like Pari has the heart and is able to pull the strings etc etc ..
Where as Rudra was still being Rudra and could very much relate to where Paro is coming from and was answering to the then Queen - Paro and trying in his own way to reassure her..

I am very anxious to know how the scene ends.. Tomorrow come soon .. 😊

Love & hugs
Radz

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful post...👏
Both are so drawn to each other and attuned to other, which idealy doesn't require verbal aceptation of other in their life...but that is not good enough for them...I think both wants more especially Paro...

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